Tuesday, August 26, 2014

Ministry Matters: preach. teach. worship. reach. lead. for Tuesday, 26 August 2014

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Ministry Matters: preach. teach. worship. reach. lead. for Tuesday, 26 August 2014


BISHOP PALMER SPEAKS OUT ABOUT FERGUSON CRISIS

Race, justice, and the 
body of Christ

Bishop Gregory Palmer and Rev. Brian Milford discuss the shooting of Michael Brown, the recent events in Ferguson, Missouri and justice and race issues as they relate to the body of Christ. LISTEN
United Methodist Bishop Gregory Palmer and Brian Milford discuss the shooting of Michael Brown, the recent events in Ferguson, Missouri, and justice and race issues as they relate to the body of Christ. Bishop Palmer is a contributor to Finding Our Way: Love and Law in the United Methodist Church.
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SUSANNA WESLEY, ADAM HAMILTON, AND OUR KIDS
In “Revival,” Adam Hamilton writes, “Among the beautiful things Susanna Wesley did with her children was to spend one hour a week with each child, asking about their faith, their fears, their hopes and dreams, the state of their souls.” So why not do likewise? READ MORE: We're reading Adam Hamilton’s “Revival: Faith as Wesley Lived It” over the next few weeks. If you’d like to read with us, pick up a copy and join the discussion! #revivalbook
Adam Hamilton's new book, “Revival: Faith as Wesley Lived It,” appeared prominently on my radar screen after my friend Shane Raynor told me it is Hamilton's best book yet. Having started to read it, I can see what the buzz is about. Acting as both pastor and theologian, Hamilton brings together crucial spiritual moments in the life of John Wesley, the contexts of Scripture and the early church, and our contemporary contexts into an enlightening, spiritually inspiring, and imagination-growing juxtaposition. He clearly wants the book to foment Wesleyan revival, as the title suggests.
In the coming weeks, I would like to go through what I take to be some of the key lessons Rev. Hamilton has to teach us. I hope you'll join me, and maybe even read along yourself. Of course there's much more good stuff in this book than we'll be able to cover. And of course we won't always agree with Rev. Hamilton, or probably with each other. I'll do my best to follow up with comments in the comment thread, and we can treat this like a book group — one of my favorite things to conduct as a pastor anyways!
As I read chapter 1, to my surprise, Susanna Wesley stole my heart. There is a lot to learn about John and Charles' amazing mom in this chapter — she is educated, lovely, pious, strong, and wise — but one sentence of Adam's prose leaped off the page in terms of what I needed to learn from her life:
"Among the beautiful things Susanna Wesley did with her children was to spend one hour a week with each child, asking about their faith, their fears, their hopes and dreams, the state of their souls" (23).
Hamilton goes on to note that, "this loving activity was to shape Wesley’s later practice of asking Methodists to meet together weekly in small groups to enquire about one another’s progress in the faith" (23-24). This is very significant, yet I think Susanna's actions raise a more basic question for us. Especially for those of us who are parents. But also for those of us who are pastors. Or youth pastors. Or laypeople in leadership in a local church.
The question, as near as I can discern it: Why not do likewise? Why not devote an hour a week to each of our children's souls, to his or her development as a whole person and child of God?
It sounds like Susanna Wesley was the spiritual director behind her sons' sanctity. The way Hamilton phrases it — that Susanna discussed with each or her children "their faith, their fears, their hopes and dreams" — almost makes her sound like an Ignatian spiritual director. Some churches today would describe what she was doing as discipling her children. That may be, but as all parents know, you can't turn your children into model-discple saints. You can't even force them to be Christians (though you can make them go with you to church if they are going to live under your roof). Conversion and sanctification are ultimately the work of the Spirit.
What Susanna does, and invites us to do, is to water the garden the Lord has given us to tend in our children. We create the soil so that those children who find the grace to respond to the Lord's call to holiness have the resources — spiritual, emotional, relational — and the character and convictions, to follow Jesus radically in a frequently discouraging, dark, and brutal world.
"I planted, Apollos watered, but God made it grow. Because of this, neither the one who plants nor the one who waters is anything, but the only one who is anything is God who makes it grow." (1 Cor. 3:6-7). Susanna and Samuel watered, and God gave the growth.
Parents, God help us, let us water.
This post is part of a series of articles and features related to “Revival: Faith as Wesley Lived It.”
MORE CHRISTIAN THAN JESUS

More Christian than Jesus by Dave Barnhart

Far be it from me to criticize Jesus, but he doesn’t always argue like a Christian.
For one thing, like an internet troll, he uses distraction and ad hominem (personal) attacks. Just look at Matthew 15: The Pharisees ask Jesus why his disciples don’t wash their hands before they eat, as is the custom. It’s a legitimate question. Imagine sitting down to a meal and watching the preacher skip the blessing! Of course, there’s no commandment in the Bible to say grace over meals, but if you don’t, you signal that you’re not really religious, right?
But instead of answering their question politely, Jesus goes on the attack. Jesus says that the Bible warns of hypocrites like them (making it personal). Then he brings up something totally irrelevant—their failure to adequately care for their elderly parents (verse 4). Finally, he talks in general about the pointlessness of dietary codes and concludes with vulgar language about all food being turned into poop (verse 17). It’s shocking. The religious leaders surely thought it was uncalled for. Maybe they even thought it was shrill. Arrogant.
Now, before anyone comes to Jesus’ defense and explains that it’s okay for Jesus to talk this way because he’s Jesus, let me also point out that this is not the only time that Jesus doesn’t argue like a Christian. Although he tells his followers not to call anyone a fool (Matthew 5:22), later on he calls his religious opponents fools and worse (Matthew 23:17). While most Bibles translate his invective against the religious leaders as “Woe to you” (23:13), the Scholars Bible bites the bullet and translates it as “Damn you.” (Considering what “woe” meant to the prophets, and the fact that we don’t ever say, “woe to you” in our own conversation, “damn” probably carries the appropriate rhetorical force. This is strong language.)
I think it’s important to recognize when Jesus loses his cool, because it indicates that these things are really important to him. Only a few times do the Gospels actually say Jesus was angry: when religious leaders opposed healing on the sabbath (Mark 3:5) and when his disciples prevented children from approaching him (Mark 10:14). But we can tell from his language when he has lost his composure in arguments with religious leaders.
I point this out because today, in these contentious times, when religious leaders are as polarized as their congregations over issues like poverty, LGBTQ rights, and health care, it’s common for well-meaning Christians to wring their hands about the fact that we who should be united are always arguing. We should be more civil. We shouldn’t make things personal. We should work toward justice without upsetting people—like Jesus did.
I believe that it is possible for friends to disagree and argue important issues without hatred. I’ve seen it happen in classrooms and restaurants. But in front of a hostile, heckling audience, Jesus went toe-to-toe with religious leaders to defend those they excluded: children, the disabled, and the ones they “locked out of the kingdom.”
For those of us who argue passionately for social justice, including LGBTQ acceptance, it sometimes feels as though we’re expected to be more Christian than Jesus. We’re expected to hear condescending rhetoric like “Love the sinner, hate the sin,” but not reply in a way that would make clear how that rhetoric actually sounds: “Love the bigot, hate the bigotry.”
The way most Christians read the Bible, the Pharisees are the bad guys, and there’s no reason to question or criticize Jesus’ response to them. This puts us safely beyond the reach of Jesus’ harshest criticisms. But the fact is, as religious leaders, most of us clergy are in the Pharisee’s position, trying to do our best to live according to God’s ethical commandments and to teach others to do the same (Matthew 5:19-20). Nobody wants to be a jerk. So we should at least try to imagine how we are like the Pharisees, and hear Jesus’ words to us:
Do we religious leaders today lock people out of the kingdom of God (Matthew 23:13)? Or was that just something that happened in Jesus’ day, and nobody does that anymore?
Does anyone obsess over minor matters of the law but neglect justice and mercy and faith (Matthew 23:23)? Or was that just a first century problem?
Do any religious leaders impose hard requirements (like life-long celibacy) on others (like LGBTQ persons) that they themselves don’t have to bear (23:4)? Or was Jesus only talking about a tendency of first-century Jewish religious leaders? When he criticized purity codes, was Jesus merely fighting for the rights of gentiles to eat bacon sandwiches?
When I hear Jesus’ at his angriest, I want to be on his side—but the truth is, as a religious leader, his judgment is heaviest on my tribe. It is unpleasant to have someone place you on the receiving end of biblical polemic, but I believe it is important for Christian leaders to feel the sharp edge of the sword they often wield against others. If Jesus called me a blind guide or a fool, I doubt I would embrace him as a friend who tells me hard truths. I would likely dismiss him as arrogant, insulting, and shrill. I can imagine religious leaders saying that Jesus should try to be more Christian.
WHEN CHRISTIANS RUSH TO JUDGMENT

When Christians 
rush to judgment by Shane Raynor

How are Christians handling the recent events in Ferguson, Missouri and the controversy surrounding Mark Driscoll, the pastor of Mars Hill Church in Seattle?
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8 REASONS A CHURCH PLANT MAY NOT GROW

8 reasons a church plant may not grow by Ron Edmondson

I’ve worked with a lot of church plants. And, I’ve been involved in two — as a planter. Every planter goes into the process hoping to see lives changed with the gospel. Hoping to grow. Some work. Some don’t.
Why is that?
Well, of course, there are spiritual factors at work. Some sow seeds and others reap harvest. Sometimes God uses the plant in a unique way — that doesn’t produce huge numbers of attendees. And, frankly, sometimes the planter had no business planting. It was never really what they were called to do. It looked “exciting” from the outside — all the “cool” people are doing it, but God had a different plan for the planter’s life.
But, speaking specifically about strategic type of reasons a church plant doesn’t grow, I’ve observed a few things.
Here are 8 reasons a church plant may not grow.
You live by someone else’s rules. I’ve seen it so many times. A church plant has the rules of the denomination or an association and they simply don’t work where they are located. The plant doesn’t contextualize the structure to the culture and community around them. The exact same model won’t always work in two different church plants — even across town from each other. Principles are often transferable, but not necessarily practices.
You try to be like everyone else. This is similar to number one but has to do more with the planter. The planter has a vision but it’s someone else’s vision. They have a desire to look just like someone else they admire. Every plant needs its own vision birthed by God in the heart of its own planter. The truth presented should be the same as every other church plant, but the style of delivery will have some uniqueness to the planter.
You depend too much on outside funding. Rather than developing givers and volunteers from with inside the plant, the plant waits for the outside checks to come. The problem with outside funding is that it eventually disappears. It is rarely sustainable long-term. And, if not careful, the planter becomes dependent on these resources. Obviously there are exceptions. Some plants may never be able to fully fund themselves. But, in my experience, many times this problem exists because the planter has not discipled the people attending in the area of giving.
You build programs over relationships. This is a common problem I’ve seen too. A church planter enters an area, implements a few programs, and believes that people will naturally acclimate to those programs. And they may for a short time. But in the end programs will not sustain people. Relationships will.
You worry too much about structure. You’ll get there. And you need structure. But, especially in the initial days, focus more on loving a community. Then on building structure. My advice is to have some basic structure in place, but not have that structure so rigid or controlling that you can’t adapt quickly to the needs of the community. Then spend your greatest energy loving people.
You waited for them to come to you. You thought “new” would be enough. Build it they will come works in the movies. But it doesn’t even work in established churches anymore, why would it work in church plants? The future attendees in any church are usually outside somewhere waiting to be asked. And sometimes they don’t even know it. It’s our job to go find them.
You didn’t protect yourself and your family. We can’t count the number of church plants that never really accomplished all that they could have because the planter wasn’t healthy enough to see it through. It could be a moral failure, burnout, or a family that is falling apart under the stress of the plant. (Let me speak specifically into this one. Every planter needs mentoring, discipline and accountability. From the start. Not after the need is discovered.)
You held too tightly to your way. Church plants can recruit entrepreneurial leaders. It’s a natural attraction. Given the authority to actually lead this can be one of the most powerful benefits of the church plant. When the planter ignores this and keeps people from feeling empowered, growth is limited to the church planter’s abilities. The planter should certainly control — or maybe the word is protect — the theological foundation, but implementation of vision should be shared with others.
Those are just a few observations. If God has called you to a church plant, plant well. I’m pulling for you.
Ron Edmondson blogs at RonEdmondson.com.
THIS SUNDAY 8/31/14

This Sunday
August 31, 2014

12th Sunday after Pentecost - Exodus 3:1-15; Psalm 105:1-6, 23-26, 45c; Romans 12:9-21; Matthew 16:21-28

Exodus 3:1-2 Moses was shepherding the flock of Jethro, his father-in-law, the priest of Midian. He led the flock to the west end of the wilderness and came to the mountain of God, Horeb. The angel of God appeared to him in flames of fire blazing out of the middle of a bush. He looked. The bush was blazing away but it didn’t burn up.
3 Moses said, “What’s going on here? I can’t believe this! Amazing! Why doesn’t the bush burn up?”
4 God saw that he had stopped to look. God called to him from out of the bush, “Moses! Moses!”
He said, “Yes? I’m right here!”
5 God said, “Don’t come any closer. Remove your sandals from your feet. You’re standing on holy ground.”
6 Then he said, “I am the God of your father: The God of Abraham, the God of Isaac, the God of Jacob.”
Moses hid his face, afraid to look at God.
7-8 God said, “I’ve taken a good, long look at the affliction of my people in Egypt. I’ve heard their cries for deliverance from their slave masters; I know all about their pain. And now I have come down to help them, pry them loose from the grip of Egypt, get them out of that country and bring them to a good land with wide-open spaces, a land lush with milk and honey, the land of the Canaanite, the Hittite, the Amorite, the Perizzite, the Hivite, and the Jebusite.
9-10 “The Israelite cry for help has come to me, and I’ve seen for myself how cruelly they’re being treated by the Egyptians. It’s time for you to go back: I’m sending you to Pharaoh to bring my people, the People of Israel, out of Egypt.”
11 Moses answered God, “But why me? What makes you think that I could ever go to Pharaoh and lead the children of Israel out of Egypt?”
12 “I’ll be with you,” God said. “And this will be the proof that I am the one who sent you: When you have brought my people out of Egypt, you will worship God right here at this very mountain.”
13 Then Moses said to God, “Suppose I go to the People of Israel and I tell them, ‘The God of your fathers sent me to you’; and they ask me, ‘What is his name?’ What do I tell them?”
14 God said to Moses, “I-AM-WHO-I-AM. Tell the People of Israel, ‘I-AM sent me to you.’”
15 God continued with Moses: “This is what you’re to say to the Israelites: ‘God, the God of your fathers, the God of Abraham, the God of Isaac, and the God of Jacob sent me to you.’ This has always been my name, and this is how I always will be known.
Psalm 105:1-6 Hallelujah!
Thank God! Pray to him by name!
    Tell everyone you meet what he has done!
Sing him songs, belt out hymns,
    translate his wonders into music!
Honor his holy name with Hallelujahs,
    you who seek God. Live a happy life!
Keep your eyes open for God, watch for his works;
    be alert for signs of his presence.
Remember the world of wonders he has made,
    his miracles, and the verdicts he’s rendered—
        O seed of Abraham, his servant,
        O child of Jacob, his chosen.
23-42 Then Israel entered Egypt,
    Jacob immigrated to the Land of Ham.
God gave his people lots of babies;
    soon their numbers alarmed their foes.
He turned the Egyptians against his people;
    they abused and cheated God’s servants.
Then he sent his servant Moses,
    and Aaron, whom he also chose.
They worked marvels in that spiritual wasteland,
    miracles in the Land of Ham.
He spoke, “Darkness!” and it turned dark—
    they couldn’t see what they were doing.
He turned all their water to blood
    so that all their fish died;
He made frogs swarm through the land,
    even into the king’s bedroom;
He gave the word and flies swarmed,
    gnats filled the air.
He substituted hail for rain,
    he stabbed their land with lightning;
He wasted their vines and fig trees,
    smashed their groves of trees to splinters;
With a word he brought in locusts,
    millions of locusts, armies of locusts;
They consumed every blade of grass in the country
    and picked the ground clean of produce;
He struck down every firstborn in the land,
    the first fruits of their virile powers.
He led Israel out, their arms filled with loot,
    and not one among his tribes even stumbled.
Egypt was glad to have them go—
    they were scared to death of them.
God spread a cloud to keep them cool through the day
    and a fire to light their way through the night;
They prayed and he brought quail,
    filled them with the bread of heaven;
He opened the rock and water poured out;
    it flowed like a river through that desert—
All because he remembered his Covenant,
    his promise to Abraham, his servant.
43-45 Remember this! He led his people out singing for joy;
    his chosen people marched, singing their hearts out!
He made them a gift of the country they entered,
    helped them seize the wealth of the nations
So they could do everything he told them—
    could follow his instructions to the letter.
Hallelujah!
Romans 12:9-10 Love from the center of who you are; don’t fake it. Run for dear life from evil; hold on for dear life to good. Be good friends who love deeply; practice playing second fiddle.
11-13 Don’t burn out; keep yourselves fueled and aflame. Be alert servants of the Master, cheerfully expectant. Don’t quit in hard times; pray all the harder. Help needy Christians; be inventive in hospitality.
14-16 Bless your enemies; no cursing under your breath. Laugh with your happy friends when they’re happy; share tears when they’re down. Get along with each other; don’t be stuck-up. Make friends with nobodies; don’t be the great somebody.
17-19 Don’t hit back; discover beauty in everyone. If you’ve got it in you, get along with everybody. Don’t insist on getting even; that’s not for you to do. “I’ll do the judging,” says God. “I’ll take care of it.”
20-21 Our Scriptures tell us that if you see your enemy hungry, go buy that person lunch, or if he’s thirsty, get him a drink. Your generosity will surprise him with goodness. Don’t let evil get the best of you; get the best of evil by doing good.
Matthew 16: You’re Not in the Driver’s Seat
21-22 Then Jesus made it clear to his disciples that it was now necessary for him to go to Jerusalem, submit to an ordeal of suffering at the hands of the religious leaders, be killed, and then on the third day be raised up alive. Peter took him in hand, protesting, “Impossible, Master! That can never be!”
23 But Jesus didn’t swerve. “Peter, get out of my way. Satan, get lost. You have no idea how God works.”
24-26 Then Jesus went to work on his disciples. “Anyone who intends to come with me has to let me lead. You’re not in the driver’s seat; I am. Don’t run from suffering; embrace it. Follow me and I’ll show you how. Self-help is no help at all. Self-sacrifice is the way, my way, to finding yourself, your true self. What kind of deal is it to get everything you want but lose yourself? What could you ever trade your soul for?
27-28 “Don’t be in such a hurry to go into business for yourself. Before you know it the Son of Man will arrive with all the splendor of his Father, accompanied by an army of angels. You’ll get everything you have coming to you, a personal gift. This isn’t pie in the sky by and by. Some of you standing here are going to see it take place, see the Son of Man in kingdom glory.”
John Wesley's Notes-Commentary:
Exodus 3:1-15
Verse 1
[1] Now Moses kept the flock of Jethro his father in law, the priest of Midian: and he led the flock to the backside of the desert, and came to the mountain of God, even to Horeb.
Now Moses - The years of Moses's life are remarkably divided into three forties; the first forty he spent as a prince in Pharaoh's court, the second a shepherd in Midian, the third a king in Jeshurun. He had now finished his second forty when he received his commission to bring Israel out of Egypt. Sometimes it is long before God calls his servants out to that work which of old he designed them for. Moses was born to be Israel's deliverer, and yet not a word is said of it to him till he is eighty years of age.
Even to Horeb — Horeb and Sinai were two tops of the same mountain.
Verse 2
[2] And the angel of the LORD appeared unto him in a flame of fire out of the midst of a bush: and he looked, and, behold, the bush burned with fire, and the bush was not consumed.
And the angel of the Lord appeared to him — It was an extraordinary manifestation of the divine glory; what was visible was produced by the ministry of an angel, but he heard God in it speaking to him.
In a flame of fire — To shew that God was about to bring terror and destruction to his enemies, light and heat to his people, and to display his glory before all.
And the bush burned, and yet was not consumed — An emblem of the church now in bondage in Egypt, burning in the brick-kilns, yet not consumed; cast down, but not destroyed.
Verse 3
[3] And Moses said, I will now turn aside, and see this great sight, why the bush is not burnt.
I will turn aside and see — He speaks as one inquisitive, and bold in his inquiry; whatever it was, he would if possible know the meaning of it.
Verse 4
[4] And when the LORD saw that he turned aside to see, God called unto him out of the midst of the bush, and said, Moses, Moses. And he said, Here am I.
When the Lord saw that he turned aside to see it, God called to him — If he had carelessly neglected it, it is likely God had departed and said nothing to him.
God called and said, Moses, Moses — This which he heard could not but surprise him much more than what he saw. Divine calls are then effectual, when the spirit of God makes them particular, and calls us as by name. The Word calls, Ho, every one; the Spirit, by the application of that, calls, Ho, such a one; I know thee by name.
Here am I — Not only to hear what is said, but to do what I am bidden.
Verse 5
[5] And he said, Draw not nigh hither: put off thy shoes from off thy feet, for the place whereon thou standest is holy ground.
Put off thy shoes from off thy feet — The putting off the shoe was then what the putting off the hat is now, a token of respect and submission. The ground is holy ground, made so by this special manifestation of the divine presence. We ought to approach to God with a solemn pause and preparation; and to express our inward reverence, by a grave and reverent behaviour in the worship of God, carefully avoiding every thing that looks light, or rude.
Verse 6
[6] Moreover he said, I am the God of thy father, the God of Abraham, the God of Isaac, and the God of Jacob. And Moses hid his face; for he was afraid to look upon God.
I am the God of thy father — He lets him know it is God that speaks to him, to engage his reverence, faith and obedience. Thy father, thy pious father Amram, and the God of Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob, thy ancestors. Engaged to them by solemn covenant, which I am now come to perform.
And Moses hid his face, for he was afraid to look upon God — The more we see of God, the more cause we shall see to worship him with reverence and godly fear. And even the manifestations of God's grace should increase our humble reverence of him.
Verse 8
[8] And I am come down to deliver them out of the hand of the Egyptians, and to bring them up out of that land unto a good land and a large, unto a land flowing with milk and honey; unto the place of the Canaanites, and the Hittites, and the Amorites, and the Perizzites, and the Hivites, and the Jebusites.
I am come down to deliver them — When God doth something very extraordinary, he is said to come down to do it, as Isaiah 64:1. This deliverance was typical of our redemption by Christ, and in that the eternal Word did indeed come down from heaven to deliver us.
A large land — So it was, according to its true and ancient bounds, as they are described, Genesis 15:18, and not according to those narrow limits, to which they were afterwards confined for their unbelief and impiety.
A land flowing with milk and honey — A proverbial expression, abounding with the choicest fruits, both for necessity and delight.
Verse 10
[10] Come now therefore, and I will send thee unto Pharaoh, that thou mayest bring forth my people the children of Israel out of Egypt.
I will send thee — And the same hand that now fetched a shepherd out of a desert to be the planter of the Jewish church, afterwards fetched fishermen from their ships to be the planters of the Christian church, that the excellency of the power might be of God.
Verse 11
[11] And Moses said unto God, Who am I, that I should go unto Pharaoh, and that I should bring forth the children of Israel out of Egypt?
Who am I? — He thinks himself unworthy of the honour and unable for the work. He thinks he wants courage, and therefore cannot go to Pharaoh: he thinks he wants conduct, and therefore cannot bring forth the children of Israel out of Egypt; they are unarmed, undisciplined, quite dispirited, utterly unable to help themselves, Moses was incomparably the fittest of any man living for this work, eminent for learning, wisdom, experience, valour, faith, holiness, and yet Who am I? The more fit any person is for service, commonly the less opinion he has of himself.
Verse 12
[12] And he said, Certainly I will be with thee; and this shall be a token unto thee, that I have sent thee: When thou hast brought forth the people out of Egypt, ye shall serve God upon this mountain.
Certainly I will be with thee — Those that are weak in themselves, yet may do wonders being strong in the Lord, and in the power of his might. God's presence puts wisdom and strength into the weak and foolish, and is enough to answer all objections.
Verse 13
[13] And Moses said unto God, Behold, when I come unto the children of Israel, and shall say unto them, The God of your fathers hath sent me unto you; and they shall say to me, What is his name? what shall I say unto them?
When they shall say to me, What is his name? What shall I say unto them? — What name shall I use, whereby thou mayest be distinguished from false gods, and thy people may be encouraged to expect deliverance from thee?
Verse 14
[14] And God said unto Moses, I AM THAT I AM: and he said, Thus shalt thou say unto the children of Israel, I AM hath sent me unto you.
And God said — Two names God would now be known by. 1. A name that speaks what he is in himself, I am that I am - This explains his name Jehovah, and signifies, 1st, That he is self-existent; he has his being of himself, and has no dependence upon any other. And being self-existent he cannot but be self-sufficient, and therefore all-sufficient, and the inexhaustible fountain of being and bliss. 2dly, That he is eternal and unchangeable, always the same, yesterday to-day, and for ever: he will be what he will be, and what he is. 3dly. That he is faithful and true to all his promises, unchangeable in his word as well as in his nature, and not a man that he should lie. Let Israel know this, I am hath sent me unto you. 2. A name that speaks what he is to his people. Lest that name I am should puzzle them, he is farther directed to make use of another name of God, more familiar.
Verse 15
[15] And God said moreover unto Moses, Thus shalt thou say unto the children of Israel, The LORD God of your fathers, the God of Abraham, the God of Isaac, and the God of Jacob, hath sent me unto you: this is my name for ever, and this is my memorial unto all generations.
The Lord God of our fathers hath sent me unto you — Thus God made himself known, that he might revive among them the religion of their fathers, which was much decayed, and almost lost. And that he might raise their expectations of the speedy performance of the promises made unto their fathers: Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob are particularly named, because with Abraham the covenant was first made, and with Isaac and Jacob oft expressly renewed, and these three were distinguished from their brethren, and chosen to be the trustees of the covenant. This God will have to be his name for ever, and it has been, is, and will be his name, by which his worshippers know him, and distinguish him from all false gods.
Psalm 105:1-6, 23-26, 45c
Verse 3
[3] Glory ye in his holy name: let the heart of them rejoice that seek the LORD.
Glory — Glory in the God whom you serve, as the only true God.
Verse 4
[4] Seek the LORD, and his strength: seek his face evermore.
Seek — The Lord in his strength, in his sanctuary, or before the ark, which is called God's strength.
Face — His gracious presence.
Verse 5
[5] Remember his marvellous works that he hath done; his wonders, and the judgments of his mouth;
Judgments — The punishments which he brought upon Egypt by his mere word.
Verse 6
[6] O ye seed of Abraham his servant, ye children of Jacob his chosen.
Of Jacob — The only branch of Abraham's seed to whom the following blessings belong.
Verse 23
[23] Israel also came into Egypt; and Jacob sojourned in the land of Ham.
Ham — Ham was the father of Mizraim, or the Egyptians, Genesis 10:6.
Verse 25
[25] He turned their heart to hate his people, to deal subtilly with his servants.
Turned — That is, suffered them, to be turned.
Romans 12:9-21
Verse 9
[9] Let love be without dissimulation. Abhor that which is evil; cleave to that which is good.
Having spoken of faith and its fruit, Romans 12:3, etc., he comes now to love. The ninth, tenth, and eleventh verses refer to chapter the seventh; the twelfth verse to chapter the eighth; the thirteenth verse, of communicating to the saints, whether Jews or gentiles, to chapter the ninth, etc. Part of the sixteenth verse is repeated from Romans 11:25.
Abhor that which is evil; cleave to that which is good — Both inwardly and outwardly, whatever ill-will or danger may follow.
Verse 10
[10] Be kindly affectioned one to another with brotherly love; in honour preferring one another;
In honour preferring one another — Which you will do, if you habitually consider what is good in others, and what is evil in yourselves.
Verse 11
[11] Not slothful in business; fervent in spirit; serving the Lord;
Whatsoever ye do, do it with your might. In every business diligently and fervently serving the Lord - Doing all to God, not to man.
Verse 12
[12] Rejoicing in hope; patient in tribulation; continuing instant in prayer;
Rejoicing in hope — Of perfect holiness and everlasting happiness. Hitherto of faith and love; now of hope also, see the fifth and eighth chapters; afterwards of duties toward others; saints, Romans 12:13 persecutors, Romans 12:14 friends, strangers, enemies, Romans 12:15, etc.
Verse 13
[13] Distributing to the necessity of saints; given to hospitality.
Communicate to the necessities of the saints — Relieve all Christians that are in want. It is remarkable, that the apostle, treating expressly of the duties flowing from the communion of saints, yet never says one word about the dead.
Pursue hospitality — Not only embracing those that offer, but seeking opportunities to exercise it.
Verse 14
[14] Bless them which persecute you: bless, and curse not.
Curse not — No, not in your heart.
Verse 15
[15] Rejoice with them that do rejoice, and weep with them that weep.
Rejoice — The direct opposite to weeping is laughter; but this does not so well suit a Christian.
Verse 16
[16] Be of the same mind one toward another. Mind not high things, but condescend to men of low estate. Be not wise in your own conceits.
Mind not high things — Desire not riches, honour, or the company of the great.
Verse 17
[17] Recompense to no man evil for evil. Provide things honest in the sight of all men.
Provide — Think beforehand; contrive to give as little offence as may be to any.
Verse 19
[19] Dearly beloved, avenge not yourselves, but rather give place unto wrath: for it is written, Vengeance is mine; I will repay, saith the Lord.
Dearly beloved — So he softens the rugged spirit. Revenge not yourselves, but leave that to God. Perhaps it might more properly be rendered, leave room for wrath; that is, the wrath of God, to whom vengeance properly belongs. Deuteronomy 32:35
Verse 20
[20] Therefore if thine enemy hunger, feed him; if he thirst, give him drink: for in so doing thou shalt heap coals of fire on his head.
Feed him — With your own hand: if it be needful, even put bread into his mouth.
Heap coals of fire upon his head — That part which is most sensible. "So artists melt the sullen ore of lead, By heaping coals of fire upon its head; In the kind warmth the metal learns to glow, And pure from dross the silver runs below." Proverbs 25:21, etc.
Verse 21
[21] Be not overcome of evil, but overcome evil with good.
And if you see no present fruit, yet persevere.
Be not overcome with evil — As all are who avenge themselves. But overcome evil with good. Conquer your enemies by kindness and patience.
Matthew 16:21-28
Verse 21
[21] From that time forth began Jesus to shew unto his disciples, how that he must go unto Jerusalem, and suffer many things of the elders and chief priests and scribes, and be killed, and be raised again the third day.
From that time Jesus began to tell his disciples, that he must suffer many things — Perhaps this expression, began, always implied his entering on a set and solemn discourse. Hitherto he had mainly taught them only one point, That he was the Christ. From this time he taught them another, That Christ must through sufferings and death enter into his glory.
From the elders — The most honourable and experienced men; the chief priests - Accounted the most religious; and the scribes - The most learned body of men in the nation. Would not one have expected, that these should have been the very first to receive him? But not many wise, not many noble were called.
Favour thyself — The advice of the world, the flesh, and the devil, to every one of our Lord's followers. Mark 8:31; Luke 9:22.
Verse 23
[23] But he turned, and said unto Peter, Get thee behind me, Satan: thou art an offence unto me: for thou savourest not the things that be of God, but those that be of men.
Get thee behind me — Out of my sight. It is not improbable, Peter might step before him, to stop him.
Satan — Our Lord is not recorded to have given so sharp a reproof to any other of his apostles on any occasion. He saw it was needful for the pride of Peter's heart, puffed up with the commendation lately given him. Perhaps the term Satan may not barely mean, Thou art my enemy, while thou fanciest thyself most my friend; but also, Thou art acting the very part of Satan, both by endeavouring to hinder the redemption of mankind, and by giving me the most deadly advice that can ever spring from the pit of hell.
Thou savourest not — Dost not relish or desire. We may learn from hence, 1. That whosoever says to us in such a case, Favour thyself, is acting the part of the devil: 2. That the proper answer to such an adviser is, Get thee behind me: 3. That otherwise he will be an offence to us, an occasion of our stumbling, if not falling: 4. That this advice always proceeds from the not relishing the things of God, but the things of men. Yea, so far is this advice, favour thyself, from being fit for a Christian either to give or take, that if any man will come after Christ, his very first step is to deny, or renounce himself: in the room of his own will, to substitute the will of God, as his one principle of action.
Verse 24
[24] Then said Jesus unto his disciples, If any man will come after me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross, and follow me.
If any man be willing to come after me — None is forced; but if any will be a Christian, it must be on these terms, Let him deny himself, and take up his cross - A rule that can never be too much observed: let him in all things deny his own will, however pleasing, and do the will of God, however painful. Should we not consider all crosses, all things grievous to flesh and blood, as what they really are, as opportunities of embracing God's will at the expense of our own? And consequently as so many steps by which we may advance toward perfection? We should make a swift progress in the spiritual life, if we were faithful in this practice. Crosses are so frequent, that whoever makes advantage of them, will soon be a great gainer. Great crosses are occasions of great improvement: and the little ones, which come daily, and even hourly, make up in number what they want in weight. We may in these daily and hourly crosses make effectual oblations of our will to God; which oblations, so frequently repeated, will soon amount to a great sum. Let us remember then (what can never be sufficiently inculcated) that God is the author of all events: that none is so small or inconsiderable, as to escape his notice and direction. Every event therefore declares to us the will of God, to which thus declared we should heartily submit. We should renounce our own to embrace it; we should approve and choose what his choice warrants as best for us. Herein should we exercise ourselves continually; this should be our practice all the day long. We should in humility accept the little crosses that are dispensed to us, as those that best suit our weakness. Let us bear these little things, at least for God's sake, and prefer his will to our own in matters of so small importance. And his goodness will accept these mean oblations; for he despiseth not the day of small things. Matthew 10:38.
Verse 25
[25] For whosoever will save his life shall lose it: and whosoever will lose his life for my sake shall find it.
Whosoever will save his life — At the expense of his conscience: whosoever, in the very highest instance, that of life itself, will not renounce himself, shall be lost eternally. But can any man hope he should be able thus to renounce himself, if he cannot do it in the smallest instances? And whosoever will lose his life shall find it - What he loses on earth he shall find in heaven. Matthew 10:39; Mark 8:35; Luke 9:24; 17:33; John 12:25.
Verse 27
[27] For the Son of man shall come in the glory of his Father with his angels; and then he shall reward every man according to his works.
For the Son of man shall come — For there is no way to escape the righteous judgment of God.
Verse 28
[28] Verily I say unto you, There be some standing here, which shall not taste of death, till they see the Son of man coming in his kingdom.
And as an emblem of this, there are some here who shall live to see tho Messiah coming to set up his mediatorial kingdom, with great power and glory, by the increase of his Church, and the destruction of the temple, city, and polity of the Jews.
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Worship for Kids: August 31, 2014

WORSHIP FOR KIDS: AUGUST 31, 2014By Carolyn C. Brown

From a Child’s Point of View
Old Testament: Exodus 3:1-15. Like Moses, most children are fascinated by the bush that burns but does not burn up. Unfortunately, their curiosity about how it happened and what it looked like often keeps them from hearing what God said to Moses.
When they do listen to the conversation, children learn two truths. The first is that when God sees something that needs to be done, God sends specific people to do it. In this case, God was aware of the suffering of the Hebrew slaves and sent Moses to rescue them. Similarly, when God sees people hurting today, God calls on people—people like us—to save them.
The second truth is that even great people like Moses are frightened by trying to do God’s work. Moses’ question “Why me?” is very like our response to setting aside our snack money to feed hungry people, or trying to befriend the kid everyone else ignores or teases. To explore this second point more fully, expand the reading to include the rest of Moses’ attempts to avoid the job (Exod. 4:1-17).
Children, who tend to be interested in meaningful names such as those of Indians, are interested in God’s name, “I am who I am” or “I am who I will be.” In other words, God is bigger and “more” than we can ever describe.
Psalm: 105:1-6, 23-26, 45c. Verses 1-6 of the psalm call on worshipers to praise God, who is at work in the world. Verses 23-26 offer as an example the Hebrew experience in Egypt. The Good News Bible offers the clearest translation for children.
Epistle: Romans 12:9-21. At the beginning of a school and club year, children are keenly aware of and interested in rules. For them, this passage might be titled “Paul’s Rules for Getting Along with People.” Though the passage is somewhat of a hodgepodge, it can be restated:
• Treat every person as a friend.
• Always do what is right.
• Help people when they need your help.
• Pay attention to people’s feelings. Laugh with those who are happy and comfort those who are sad.
• Do not act stuck-up or think you are smarter than you are.
• Ask God to be good to people who give you trouble.
• Do not try to get even with people who are mean to you. Instead, treat then kindly. (Your kindness will make them ashamed of what they did.)
• Do not give in to evil ideas or plans. Instead, find even better good ideas and plans.
Gospel: Matthew 16:21-28. This is a difficult passage for children to understand as it is read. Peter being called Satan by Jesus, talk of stumbling blocks and saving or losing lives, and references to the Son of Man—all these overwhelm children. However, when it is pointed out, children recognize the human inclination (shared by Peter) to avoid suffering and protect ourselves. They are as disturbed as adults are by Jesus’ insistence that our lives will be best when we fight this inclination and sacrifice what we want and need in order to help someone else. Children need to hear examples from family and school life, in which children give up their TV show so that another family member can watch a favorite; do the most hated job in the household (maybe clean the cat’s litter) for another family member; protect a little kid cornered by bigger kids, and so forth.
Text Connections: Though the word cross is not used in Exodus, the story about Moses can be an example of what it means to “take up your cross.” The directives in Romans, however, cannot be used for this purpose. “Taking up your cross” involves much more than getting along with others. It requires putting yourself on the line, or suffering on behalf of others.
Watch Words
Cross is a Christian code word. It stands for a rich variety of related things. In today’s texts it stands for suffering in order to take care of or to save others. Introduce cross as a code word, and be careful that all your references to it clearly fit this definition.
Let the Children Sing
The repetitive phrases and simple format of “Here I Am, Lord” catch the attention of children and invite them to answer God’s call. “Take My Life, and Let It Be Consecrated” and “Lord, I Want to Be a Christian” are also discipleship hymns children can sing.
“I Sing the Almighty Power of God” is a good praise hymn for a holiday weekend when most people are outdoors.
The Liturgical Child
1. In preparing your reading of the Exodus passage, practice saying each of Moses’ lines aloud so that they communicate his fear and make his attempts to wiggle out of God’s call obvious.
2. Invite a children’s class to lead the following version of the psalm, with each child reading one line. In a smaller congregation, ask younger children to read the short phrases, with older children reading the paragraphs at the end. The congregation’s response to each: Alleluia!
Give thanks to God and call on God’s name! Alleluia!
Tell everyone what God has done! Alleluia!
Sing to God! Praise God with music! Alleluia!
Tell of God’s wonderful works! Alleluia!
Be glad that we belong to God! Alleluia!
Let all who worship God rejoice! Alleluia!
Go to the Lord for help! Alleluia!
Worship God continually! Alleluia!
Listen, you descendants of Abraham and Jacob. Remember the marvelous things God has done and the decisions God has made! Alleluia!
When the Hebrews moved to Egypt and settled there, God made them to increase in numbers. God made them stronger than the Egyptians, and the Egyptians hated them and treated them badly. Then God sent Moses and Aaron to rescue them with God’s power. Alleluia!
3. Create a responsive affirmation with short descriptions of suffering and oppression, including global, local, and family problems. The congregation’s response to each need: “God sees their suffering and says to us, ‘Come, I will send you.’ “
Sermon Resources
1. Note that sometimes God sends a whole family to do a job. Describe the relationship among Miriam, Moses, and Aaron, and tell about their work. Cite examples of families in your congregation who do God’s work together (e.g., walking on the CROP walk or packing clothes for a mission).
2. "The Integration of Mary-Larkin Thornhill" by Ann Waldron (E. P. Dutton, 1975), tells about a junior-high girl, the only white student at a black school in the 1970s. She and her family work through crisis after crisis as they make a stand for racial justice. This fictitious story, or similar stories of your own creation, help children to imagine themselves answering God’s call as Moses did.
3. Develop a back-to-school sermon around Paul’s advice in Romans. Open by explaining that though this sermon will speak mostly about living as a Christian at school, what is true for children at school is true also for architects, carpenters, businesswomen, and homemakers.
Make a series of posters based on Paul’s advice: Make your life a gift to God; Use your gifts well; Avoid evil and stick with good; Love one another; Respect all people; Work hard and do not be lazy; Serve God; Be joyful and hopeful; Be patient when you suffer; Pray!; Share with those in need. Give one poster to each of eleven children, to hold up in front of the congregation. Read them one at the time, noting that each gives good advice. Then select three or four for the sermon, take them with you into the pulpit, and prop each one up as you speak about it.
Worship Connection: August 31, 2014

WORSHIP CONNECTION: AUGUST 31, 2014 by Nancy C. Townley


12th Sunday after Pentecost
COLOR: Green
SCRIPTURE READINGS: Exodus 3:1-15; Psalm 105:1-6, 23-26, 45c; Romans 12:9-21; Matthew 16:21-28
CALLS TO WORSHIP
Call to Worship #1:
L: Give thanks to the Lord!
P: We will sing God’s praises!
L: Seek the Lord and God’s strength.
P: We continually seek God’s presence in our lives.
L: Remember all the wonderful things that God has done.
P: Praise the Lord! AMEN.
Call to Worship #2:
L: How shall we get along with one anther in this world?
P: The Apostle Paul said that our love should be genuine. We should hate what is evil and hold fast to what is good.
L: We should honor one another with kindness and compassion.
P: We should always be strong in our enthusiasm to serve God.
L: Come, let us joyfully worship God in all that we do.
P: Let us praise God in our words, our thoughts, and our actions. AMEN.
Call to Worship #3:
[Using THE FAITH WE SING, p. 2242, “Walk with Me,” offer the following call to worship as directed.]
L: God is calling us today to be a part of the healing ministry for this world.
P: But we aren’t sure we are the ones for this job.
L: Moses received God’s call and he wasn’t sure either. Peter was so afraid of what was going to happen to Jesus that he tried to prevent Jesus from going to Jerusalem. All of us experience concerns and questions when it comes to following God.
P: It may be difficult, but we will place our trust in God’s guidance.
Choral Ensemble: singing verse 1 and 2 of “Walk with Me”
L: Come, let us offer our lives in service to God.
P: Let us praise God and serve by helping others in need. AMEN.
Call to Worship #4:
L: Have you heard God’s call in your life?
P: We’re not sure. Sometimes we think we know what God wants us to do; but at other times things are not very clear.
L: Place your trust in the Lord. God is with you always.
P: Lord, it is a scary thing to do--to just place our trust in you.
L: God is with you. You will be safe.
P: Thanks be to God who watches over us and guides us. AMEN.
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PRAYERS, READING, BENEDICTION
Opening Prayer
Lord, we have gathered here today to hear your word for us. We marvel at the witness of Moses who received your call to liberate your enslaved people. We also struggle with the issues of safety and security that plagued Peter when Jesus set his sights on entering Jerusalem. Be with us this day, guiding our spirits and opening our hearts to hear your forgiveness and call to us. In Jesus’ Name, we pray. AMEN.
Prayer of Confession
Lord, perhaps your voice issuing forth from a burning bush is what we need to shake us from our complacency. We have a hard time comprehending your call to us because we feel so inadequate to respond in faithful service. So we look to others to do the work. We are happy to support their efforts with our funds and our limited interest. Now, Lord, we need to take the next step into actual service to you. Forgive our slowness of action and heart, O Lord. Quicken our spirits to accept the call you have for us. Give us courage and strength to do your will and help others in need. We ask these things in the name of Jesus our Lord. AMEN.
Words of Assurance
In the power of the burning bush, in the quiet stillness, in the everyday noises of living, God is calling to each one of us, telling us to trust in the gifts with which God has bestowed on us. You are beloved and blessed by God to be a blessing to others. Rejoice!
Pastoral Prayer
Lord, we love the drama of the burning bush. Here is the quaking Moses, telling God that God has made a mistake. Moses does not believe that he can perform the task to which God has called him. But God knows better. God will provide the support structure for this awesome task. We are just like Moses. We tell God that God has made a mistake; we are not able or worthy to undertake the task of hope and peace for this world. We mumble about responsibilities and commitments, but God chides us to be in service by helping others. God will give us the strength, the tools, the support that we need. What do we need to fear? This day we have brought before God the names of people and situations that lay heavily on our hearts. We feel powerless to bring the healing words of hope, and so we offer these situations to God for God’s compassionate mercy. Our trust in God is rightly placed. For God hears our prayers and will respond. We can count on God to be present with us and with all those in need. Now it is our turn to respond to God’s call with a fervent yes, trusting in God’s presence and guidance. Let us go forth to serve joyfully and confidently in God’s world. AMEN.
Reading
[Note: Using THE FAITH WE SING, p. 2139, “Oh, I Know the Lord’s Laid His Hands on Me,” have a soloist or small choral ensemble sing verse 1 with the refrain at the beginning of this reading and again at the end just prior to the pastor’s statement.]
Soloist: singing verse 1 with refrain of “Oh I Know the Lord’s Laid His Hands on Me”
Reader 1: 
God wants me to work in the local food pantry, helping stock shelves and bag groceries. It’s only one day a month. I think I can handle that.
Congregation: I know the Lord has laid His hand on me!
Reader 2: 
I have been asked to offer one morning a month at the local library reading to small children. I have always loved to read, and my own kids say I’m a very dramatic reader. I should be able to do this.
Congregation: I know the Lord has laid His hand on me!
Reader 3: 
Several people from our church have just come home from the hospital, and the pastor wondered if I might be able to find several people to help prepare meals for a couple of days. I love to cook and am always the one to organize the church potluck suppers. I can do this!
Congregation: I know the Lord has laid His hand on me!
Reader 4: 
My friend received a call from the battered women’s shelter in our community. They need some clothing and personal items, such as shampoo, toothpaste, and soap. She asked if I would like to be part of a new group that will gather these supplies and deliver them to the shelter. I always have more than I need and would be willing to help gather supplies. I know I can help with this!
Congregation: I know the Lord has laid His hand on me!
Reader 5: 
I wish I could do something. I am in a wheelchair and have a hard time getting around. So I’m home most of the time, knitting or crocheting items for family and friends. A neighbor called and asked if she supplied the yarn would I be willing to knit some hats for the cancer victims at the local cancer center. You know how cold it gets here during the winter and most of them will be losing their hair due to chemotherapy or radiation. That’s something I could do! I love to knit and crochet and that would be a way to help someone. The neighbor said she would deliver the yarn, pick up the hats, and deliver them to the center. Sounds like a good idea to me!
Congregation: I know the Lord has laid His hand on me!
Soloist/choral ensemble: singing verse 1 with refrain of “Oh, I Know the Lord’s Laid His Hands on Me”
Pastor: How has the Lord’s hand been placed on your heart today? Is there a way you could make a difference?
Benediction
Go boldly into the world in the confidence that God goes with you, guiding your steps in paths of peace and healing. Bring the good news of God’s love to all you meet. Go in peace. AMEN.
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ARTISTIC ELEMENTS
The traditional color for this Sunday is: GREEN
[Note: The following setting will take some advanced planning. You should have photographs of some of the ministries and mission work in which your church is involved, such as a food pantry, thrift shop, work with children and youth, work with the elderly, environmental work, anything in which people can participate. A list of opportunities for service should be included in the bulletin so that people can begin to think about ways in which to serve as they enter the most active portions of the church year.]
SURFACE: 
Place a 10” riser in the center of the table. Place two 6” risers to the right and left of the center, slightly forward from the 10” riser. Place two 3” risers to the right and left of the two 6” risers and slightly forward.
FABRIC: 
Cover the worship center with green fabric, so that it drapes to the floor.
CANDLES: 
In front of each riser, place a votive candle.
FLOWERS/PLANTS: 
Place two large leafy plants on the floor at the corners of the worship center to soften the edges of the fabric.
ROCKS/WOOD: 
Not necessary for this setting.
OTHER: 
Place a brass cross on the center 10” riser. Place photographs on the 6” risers and the 3” risers. These should be large photos (smallest would be 8x10”) on each of these risers. These are pictures of your church’s mission and ministries. If you have more than four in which you are involved, take more pictures and place them on the worship center. If you wish, you may add additional risers in front of the worship center, placing the additional pictures on them. Place a votive candle in front of each picture (the candle represents the divine spark and light in all that we do).
Sermon Starter: Do You Have It In You?

SERMON STARTER: DO YOU HAVE IT IN YOU?

By Lori Broschat
Exodus 3:1-15; Psalm 105:1-6, 23-26, 45b; Romans 12:9-21; Matthew 16:21-28
In most Bibles, Romans 12:9-21 bears the title “The Marks of a True Christian”. The implication is, this is how to spot a real Christian from a fake Christian. How sad is that? To think we even need a category like that! If part of us remains unchanged, then all we will ever be able to do is act like a Christian, and let’s face it, God is not running a stage production.
Looking over Paul’s extensive list of Christian qualities, I am struck by the overwhelming sense of what we are called to be as well as what we are called to do. This is truly a mission statement for the church of Christ as a whole, whether we are united or free or assembled or congregational, independent, or connectional. This is what Christians are. Period.
Look at this list. Is there one entry there you would disagree with, one action you could not imagine yourself doing? Loving sincerely. Hating evil. Loving one another. Holding on to what is good. Serving God. Rejoicing with hope. Accepting suffering with patience. Praying. Contributing to others. Sharing with others. Welcoming others. Blessing others. Rejoicing and weeping with those who do likewise. Living in harmony. Associating with the lowly. Leaving vengeance to God. Living in peace to the best of your ability. Treating your enemies with kindness. Overcoming evil with good.
That last one seems especially important for the church. We are people saved by grace, positioned in a world that has fallen from grace. Are we satisfied to show the world how much we are like them? Or should we be different? Should we not be working on overcoming the evil of the world by means of the good we do? That cannot happen unless we truly subject ourselves to God’s transforming touch. The renewal of our minds allows us to be tested and from that testing to learn what God wants.
I think it is fair to say that pleasing God is in part a process of trial and error. Unfortunately, we may bring the trials on ourselves and we don’t always learn from our errors. The truth us, we assume that the change has to come from within us, that we have to accomplish this on our own strength, which is, of course, impossible. Transformation is God’s job. Accepting and applying the transformation is our job. As someone once said, any recipe for success must include the ability to follow instructions.
Confidence in ourselves is not as crucial to this endeavor as confidence in God. The answer to the question, “Do you have it in you?” is no. You do not have it in you to be all those things on Paul’s list. To be that kind of person is beyond your ability, and yet you are fully expected to be. Jesus said that with God all things are possible. We need to stop trying to do all things ourselves, being disappointed when we fail, then assuming we are incapable and expecting God will just have to take us the way we are. God knows better than that.
Worship Elements: August 31, 2014

WORSHIP ELEMENTS: AUGUST 31, 2014

By Laura Jaquith Bartlett
12th Sunday after Pentecost
COLOR: Green
SCRIPTURE READINGS: Exodus 3:1-15; Psalm 105:1-6, 23-26, 45c; Romans 12:9-21; Matthew 16:21-28
THEME IDEAS
Just when we think we have God figured out, God overturns our expectations once again. God takes an inarticulate, excuse-riddled murderer and turns him into one of the greatest leaders of the Hebrew people. Writing in Romans, Paul (who has a life-changing story to rival that of Moses) gives us an upside-down recipe for living in Christ: “Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.” Meanwhile, Jesus reminds us of one of the greatest, and most difficult, paradoxes of Christianity: to save your life you must first lose it. So we find ourselves once again surprised by the limitless and inexplicable nature of God’s love, and we rejoice to stand together on holy ground.
INVITATION AND GATHERING
Call to Worship (Psalm 105)
Give thanks for all the wonderful works of God.
Praise the Lord!
Sing a new song of praise to the God of all peoples.
Praise the Lord!
Proclaim God’s name to all the world.
Praise the Lord!
We are God’s chosen people; God is with us always.
Praise the Lord!
Let our hearts rejoice, for the Lord is God.
Praise the Lord!
Opening Prayer (Exodus 3, Romans 12, Matthew 16)
Surprising God,
you have an uncomfortable habit
of showing up where we least expect you:
in a burning bush,
in the face of an enemy,
in a livestock feed trough,
on a rough wooden cross.
Turn our lives upside down
with your radical love.
Help us fully embrace your surprises,
even as we revel in the joy
of being fully embraced
by your all-encompassing grace
and mercy.
We pray in the name
of your most amazing surprise of all:
your Son, Jesus Christ. Amen.
PROCLAMATION AND RESPONSE
Prayer of Confession (Exodus 3, Romans 12, Matthew 16)
God of Mystery,
we are constantly amazed
by the depth and breadth of your love.
Over and over again,
you turn our expectations inside out
and upside down.
And still we don’t understand
the radical nature of your grace.
We play by our own rules of justice,
even when it means excluding those
we are called to love and defend.
In our darkest moments,
we doubt if we are worthy of your trust.
God, help us remember
that you give us all the tools we need;
that through the solid foundation of your love,
we find the strength to follow your call
as true disciples of Jesus Christ.
Surprise us again, O God.
Surprise us again.
Words of Assurance (Exodus 3, Psalm 105)
The God who brought our ancestors out of slavery
will not desert us.
God has promised to be with us
throughout all generations.
Let the hearts of those who seek the Lord rejoice,
for God is with us!
Passing the Peace of Christ
Rejoice, for you are standing on holy ground.
Praise the Lord!
Response to the Word (Exodus 3, Romans 12, Matthew 16)
Moses was a murderer,
yet you turned him into a hero
who led his people to freedom.
Moses couldn’t speak well,
yet you put words in his mouth
to argue his people’s cause before Pharaoh.
We are taught to attack our enemies,
yet you teach us to bless those
who persecute us.
We are overcome by evil,
yet you tell us to overcome evil with good.
Jesus is the savior of the world,
yet the crucifixion tells the story of a man
who could not even save himself.
We desperately want to save our own lives.
God of Paradox, help us understand
how to lose our lives in order to save them.
THANKSGIVING AND COMMUNION
Offering Prayer (Matthew 16)
Dear God,
we offer you now these gifts.
Take our money and use it
to bring comfort to those in need.
Take our service and use it
to bring justice to those who are oppressed.
Take our witness and use it
to bring good news to those who hunger
for hope.
Take our lives and use them
for our very salvation.
We pray through Jesus Christ,
the one whom we follow
even to the cross. Amen.
SENDING FORTH
Benediction (Exodus 3)
God promised to be with Moses, and we are here to witness to the fulfillment of that promise. From generation to generation, the God of Israel is also the God of (your community’s name). The God of the burning bush is waiting even now to encounter you, call you, challenge you, and change you. Go out to be sustained and surprised by the love of God. Amen.
CONTEMPORARY OPTIONS
Gathering Words (Exodus 3, Matthew 16)
God calls us from a burning bush.
We are standing on holy ground!
The Spirit calls us to proclaim God’s name
to all generations.
We are standing on holy ground!
Jesus calls us from the cross: come and follow me.
We are standing on holy ground!
Praise Sentences (Exodus 3)
God declares, “I AM WHO I AM.”
The God of our ancestors is with us today.
God is our God, from generation to generation.
Let us worship God on this holy ground!
Let us worship God on this holy ground!
From “The Abingdon Worship Annual 2011,” edited by Mary J. Scifres and B.J. Beu, Copyright © 2010 by Abingdon Press. “The Abingdon Worship Annual 2015” is now available.

At odds with JesusAT ODDS WITH JESUS

By Thomas R. Steagald


Matthew 16:21-28
Familiarity breeds contempt, the old saying goes, but to my mind the greater and more dangerous occasion of familiarity is indifference. We come to a text and we have read it so many times or heard so many sermons preached on it, that we lose not only the freshness of the text but its edge, its blessing, as well as its judgment. Part of the task of preaching or teaching is to shake the dust of familiarity off the text, to open a reader or listener’s ears and let a text speak again.
FERGUSON, ISIS, AND THE PROBLEM WITH AMERICAN NEWS

Ferguson, ISIS, and
the problem with
American news
 by Shane Raynor

I was up much too late watching television last night. I have five news channels, and when major events are taking place around the world, you’ll usually find me switching back and forth between them.

Last night it was CNN and Fox News: Shepard Smith and Megyn Kelly on Fox, Rosemary Church and Errol Barnett on CNN. Things were relatively calm in Ferguson, Missouri compared to what has been going on over the last week. CNN’s reporter on the scene observed that there were significantly fewer protesters than there had been the previous night. Many had demonstrated earlier in the day and had left by 11pm. Someone even noted that by that point in the evening, there were probably more media personnel on hand than demonstrators.

Toward the end of the 11:00 hour, Fox’s Megyn Kelly briefly switched to another story: American journalist James Foley’s beheading by an Islamic State of Iraq and al-Sham (ISIS) militant. She was interviewing a journalist who had worked with Foley when the image on screen suddenly cut back to Ferguson. Someone had thrown a water bottle at police, and they were chasing the person through the crowd. Tensions had been mounting, and a small skirmish appeared to be developing.

Kelly was noticeably irritated and demanded that, at the very least, an interview about a beheaded journalist should be placed in a split screen with the live shot from Ferguson. “Jim Foley deserves at least a minute to be remembered on this broadcast,” she said.

She's right.

Maybe we should all stop and take a breath.

I’ve followed the situation in Ferguson over the last week, and I’ve had mixed emotions. There are certainly some important issues that need to be discussed and addressed in the United States. Racial profiling. The militarization of police. Income disparity. Educational inequality.

And I don’t doubt for a minute that innocent black and Latino males are harassed and mistreated by police much more often than whites are. I’ve witnessed it.

The biggest problem I have with most of the Ferguson news coverage is that it seems to have degenerated into a nightly reality show. There are so many opportunities here for having conversations that could help us move forward on race issues, but I’m concerned that we may be missing those opportunities because we're too busy waiting to see what happens next. And we're so easily swayed by a news media that often seems as bent on making news as it is on reporting it.

I went to sleep last night listening to the BBC World Service on radio. Their reporters were covering the demonstrations in Ferguson, but they were also talking about other big stories from around the world. Things like Israel and Hamas. Fighting in Ukraine. And ISIS extremists murdering innocent people.

Lots of big stuff is happening outside of America. We just have to listen. Someone please tell the U.S. cable news channels.

As Christians, we have a responsibility to look at the big picture, to pray, and to find ways to be salt and light in the world. We should always try to be part of the solution rather than part of the problem. Some of that includes facilitating meaningful conversations that have the staying power to transcend the American news cycle — with its short attention span and tendency to place an inordinate amount of emphasis on some stories at the expense of everything else.

I was monitoring Twitter yesterday, and I noticed a number of young people commenting on the images from Ferguson that they were seeing on cable news. There was also a bit of talk about the graphic beheading video.

When more of us know what’s going on in our world, that’s a good thing. What’s troubling is if we only care because something has reached a boiling point, or when it’s just so horrifying that we can no longer ignore it.

HUNGER IN AMERICA: 1 IN 7 RELY ON FOOD BANKS

Hunger in America:
1 in 7 rely on
food banks
 by Natalie DiBlasio / USA Today

LORTON, Va. (RNS) When Mary Smallenburg, 35, of Fort Belvoir, Va., opened a package from her mother to find cereal and ramen noodles, she burst into tears. Without it, she wouldn’t be able to feed her four children.

“It got to the point where I opened my pantry and there was nothing. Nothing. What was I going to feed my kids?” Smallenburg said, adjusting a bag of fresh groceries on her arm.

Smallenburg’s family is one of 50 military families that regularly visit the Lorton Community Action Center food bank. Volunteers wave a familiar hello as she walks in the door.

“None of what we have been through has been expected,” Smallenburg said. Three of her four children have special needs, and her husband is deployed in Korea. “The last few months, actually, coming here has been a godsend.”

Nationwide, 25 percent of military families — 620,000 households — need help putting food on the table, according to a study by Feeding America, a network of 200 food banks.

“The results are alarming,” said Bob Aiken, chief executive officer of Feeding America. “It means that people in America have to make trade-offs. They have to pick between buying food for their children or paying for utilities, rent and medicine.”

One in seven Americans — 46 million people — rely on food pantries and meal service programs to feed themselves and their families, the study found.

“Hunger exists in literally every county in America,” Aiken said. “It’s an urban problem, it’s a suburban problem, and it’s a rural problem.”

Linda Patterson, executive director of Lorton Community Action Center, said stereotypes of the people who need food assistance are misleading.

“The people who come here are hard workers. They are employed. They are the school bus drivers, the lab techs in doctors offices, receptionists, the janitors who clean the floor of your children’s school,” Patterson said. “They just can’t make ends meet because some kind of crisis has hit them.”

The Hunger in America study found that of people who use food banks:

• 26 percent are black, 20 percent are Hispanic, 43 percent are white and 11 percent are other.

• 33 percent of households have at least one family member with diabetes.

• 65 percent of households have a child under 18 or someone 60 or older.

“Children are going to school, not looking forward to learning but looking forward to eating,” said Shamia Holloway, spokeswoman for the Capital Area Food Bank.

The Lorton Community Action Center has seen an 18 percent increase in people who need food assistance since food stamp benefits were cut in November, Patterson said.

“Many of our families, if they don’t come, will have to choose between paying rent or their kids eating that night,” Patterson said. The median monthly household income of Feeding America network clients is $927.

Sydni Marquesas, 47, of Lorton, works in merchandising. “It doesn’t pay much and they limit your hours,” she said. “Plus, Virginia just made it so hard to apply for SNAP.”

SNAP is the Supplemental Nutrition Assistance Program, what food stamps are called now. Marquesas has used the food bank to get food for herself and her 14-year-old daughter for more than a year and a half.

Recently she started taking nutrition classes through the food bank. “The classes are great,” she said. “I am learning about healthy eating on a budget.”

In the past year, food banks have increased their focus on healthy foods. The study found that 79 percent of people who use food banks report purchasing inexpensive, unhealthy food just to have enough to feed their families.

“We are seeing a change. People are starting to understand the correlation between diet and illness,” said Allison Majewski of the Capital Area Food Bank. “They want healthier food. They are asking for dairy, meats and fresh produce.

“The people who come to us for help are coming more regularly,” Majewski said. “We aren’t a one-time emergency stop anymore. We are a staple for them, so it’s very important that we make these healthy foods available.”

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ARE WE REALLY DOING FAMILY MINISTRIES?

Are we really doing family ministries? by Ed Trimmer

I overheard this conversation recently at a United Methodist church. Should we have a baby shower for the child of one of the active and long term members of the church, who was expecting? No, she is not married was one answer. Another was why wouldn't we? Well she doesn't come to church very often was a response. But her parents do. And so the conversation went back and forth over whether to have a baby shower. Whether we want to admit it or not the world and culture around us continues to change just as the "concept of family" continues to evolve.

Many folks seem to have a lack of history when they think about family today. Some of us in the Christian tradition have tried to make the concept of a "nuclear" family the only concept of family that matters. In the early days of the American Republic many children were raised by relatives, since it was not culturally appropriate in those days to bring children from a past marriage into a new family. So if the wife died during childbirth for example, and the husband wanted to remarry, his children were often shuffled off to a relative (or someone else who needed child labor) who was willing or financially able to raise them.

According to a new book Attract Families to Your Church, 35 percent of children in America live in single-parent families. In 2009, 21.8 million children under the age of twenty-one were being raised by a single parent. In 2010, 2.7 million grandparents served as primary caregivers to one or more grandchild living in their household. There may soon be more step families than traditional families. So what is a church to do?

Perhaps we should remember that we are the people of the United Methodist Church who say we have Open Hearts, Open Minds, and Open Doors; thus we should invite all to know God's grace. In other words, if someone in your church is having a baby, no matter what the circumstances, celebrate it with them and go ahead and have a baby shower! In fact if you reach out to those who do not fit the traditional nuclear family label you may find them in church with you and a sanctuary filled with children.

NOT EVERY SERMON NEEDS TO MENTION JESUS

Not every
sermon needs
to mention Jesus
 by Tom Fuerst

A few years ago I was preaching a sermon from an Old Testament text filled with lots of symbolism, cultural background, great theology, and, of course, misunderstanding. I walked through the passage trying to show the greatness of God in the text, his holiness, majesty and love.

At the end of the talk, a just-out-of-seminary guy walks up to me and says, “Good sermon. It would have been a great sermon if you’d have mentioned Jesus.”

Of course, I knew I hadn’t mentioned Jesus in the sermon. And being the introspective guy that I am, I always want to do self-examination when it comes to criticisms like this. So I evaluated my motivations for not mentioning Jesus.

On some level, I wanted that Old Testament text to stand on its own. It wasn’t like I didn’t talk about God. It’s just that there was so much rich material within the passage, itself, that I wanted to take my time to unravel it all. It wasn’t like I didn’t mention God or talk about his character; I just didn’t mention the second person of the Trinity explicitly.

But more specifically, there is something else at the core of this decision.

See, I’m a pastor, not a traveling evangelist. I’ve got years to teach people the depths and heights and beauty of who Jesus is. Traveling evangelists have a weekend. They have to get everything in in one to three sermons. But I get to live and breathe and talk about Jesus with my congregation for decades, if they’ll have me that long.

This means I have time. I don’t have to force every text to talk about Jesus because I get to patiently and artfully help people see the full character of God one sermon at a time, one lesson at a time, one visit at a time, one devotion at a time.

Yes, it absolutely matters that my congregation understand who Jesus is. But not every sermon has to do all the work.

And this brings me to what is possibly an even more important point. I love preaching; it is my favorite part of any church service. But in my congregation, we receive communion every week. And this means the sermon isn’t the only Christo-centric element in a service. Communion is a time of reflecting on the sacrifice and victory of Jesus, the unity of the body of Christ through Jesus, the mission of the body of Christ empowered by Christ’s Spirit. The sermon doesn’t have to do all the work because weekly communion is a consistent piece of the service.

I understand, however, that not every congregation has weekly communion. But even if we moved beyond communion, the musical elements of a Sunday morning worship service, the lyrics, the responsive readings, the confession of the Creed, and the prayers all are done through a Christo-centric lens. These elements of a worship gathering mean that the sermon does not stand on its own.

I appreciate people who think Jesus should be in every sermon. I probably would have pushed for that at some point in my life, too. But I also cannot tell you how many sermons I’ve heard where the name Jesus was mentioned, but the Jesus actually discussed wasn’t even remotely connected to the Jesus of Scriptures. I’ve heard of Jesus the Magician, Jesus the Self-Help Guru, Jesus the Patriot, Jesus the Wish-Fulfiller. In such cases, a sermon that reflects on the character of God, even if it doesn’t mention the name Jesus, is much more closer to the heart of God than a sermon that mentions Jesus name, but gets his character all wrong. And this is exactly why we need to let Old Testament passages speak for themselves and set the glory of God on display – Jesus cannot be separated from that larger story.

The more I understand how worshipful movements work in Sunday services and through the course of a pastor’s ministry, the less I’m convinced the sermon, itself, has to do all the theological legwork. If you’re avoiding the name Jesus because of fear, that’s one thing. But if you’re revealing the character of God to your people week after week, through song, sacrament, and sermon, you’ve got nothing to worry about if you occasionally do not mention the name Jesus. After all, Jesus preached sermons where he didn’t mention himself, didn’t he? :)

Your Turn: Do you agree or disagree? Have you heard sermons that mentioned Jesus but didn’t really get his character right? Have you ever thought about how the worship service as a whole informs us of who Jesus is? 

Tom Fuerst blogs at Tom1st.com. You can subscribe to his blog via email here.

I (MAY) HAVE A DREAM

I (may) have a dream by Paul Bonner

Some of us work all our lives to realize a dream that may not even be our own. Most college athletes would never walk away from an entire year of eligibility and a chance to win a division title. Brandon Sherrod chose to do so, proving that some dreams do not match up with what the world thinks is important. According to ESPN.com, Sherrod earned a starting spot on the men’s basketball team and was about to begin his junior year of college. With a 19-14 record last season, the school was poised to compete against Harvard for the Ivy League title this season. Sherrod also secured a spot with an elite singing group, the Whiffenpoofs, whose singing engagements next year include stops on each continent (except Antarctica). Sherrod was forced to choose between singing and college basketball. Giving up a chance to compete for a school title and a berth into the NCAA tournament seems crazy, right? Following such a strange path was a tremendous sacrifice. It not only affected Brandon and his family but also the team, the coaches, their strategy, and potentially their chances to win. How do we know if he made the right choice?

God’s Dreams for Us

Having passion to pursue a dream is a beautiful thing! Dreamers inspire us, often times because they live differently, sometimes even heroically. Folks who realize a dream and achieve the impossible often transform our understanding of what is possible. But before a dream is realized, criticism often reigns down on the one making the seemingly foolish choices. God’s dreams for us often include the gifts, talents and interests God gave us. Frederick Beuchner once said,

“The place God calls you to is the place where your deep gladness and the world’s deep hunger meet” (Wishful Thinking: A Theological ABC).

Our dreams might include material success and notoriety. God’s dreams frequently look more like a world being changed for good. Discerning God’s call in our lives certainly isn’t easy, but we must be wise and not simply follow the path others would choose for us.

Question of the Day: What keeps you from dreaming bigger?

Focal Scriptures: Jeremiah 29:1-14; Mark 8:31-36; Romans 12:1-3

Jeremiah 29: Plans to Give You the Future You Hope For

1-2 This is the letter that the prophet Jeremiah sent from Jerusalem to what was left of the elders among the exiles, to the priests and prophets and all the exiles whom Nebuchadnezzar had taken to Babylon from Jerusalem, including King Jehoiachin, the queen mother, the government leaders, and all the skilled laborers and craftsmen.

3 The letter was carried by Elasah son of Shaphan and Gemariah son of Hilkiah, whom Zedekiah king of Judah had sent to Nebuchadnezzar king of Babylon. The letter said:

4 This is the Message from God-of-the-Angel-Armies, Israel’s God, to all the exiles I’ve taken from Jerusalem to Babylon:

5 “Build houses and make yourselves at home.

“Put in gardens and eat what grows in that country.

6 “Marry and have children. Encourage your children to marry and have children so that you’ll thrive in that country and not waste away.

7 “Make yourselves at home there and work for the country’s welfare.

“Pray for Babylon’s well-being. If things go well for Babylon, things will go well for you.”

8-9 Yes. Believe it or not, this is the Message from God-of-the-Angel-Armies, Israel’s God: “Don’t let all those so-called preachers and know-it-alls who are all over the place there take you in with their lies. Don’t pay any attention to the fantasies they keep coming up with to please you. They’re a bunch of liars preaching lies—and claiming I sent them! I never sent them, believe me.” God’s Decree!

10-11 This is God’s Word on the subject: “As soon as Babylon’s seventy years are up and not a day before, I’ll show up and take care of you as I promised and bring you back home. I know what I’m doing. I have it all planned out—plans to take care of you, not abandon you, plans to give you the future you hope for.

12 “When you call on me, when you come and pray to me, I’ll listen.

13-14 “When you come looking for me, you’ll find me.

“Yes, when you get serious about finding me and want it more than anything else, I’ll make sure you won’t be disappointed.” God’s Decree.

“I’ll turn things around for you. I’ll bring you back from all the countries into which I drove you”—God’s Decree—“bring you home to the place from which I sent you off into exile. You can count on it.

Mark 8: 30-32 Jesus warned them to keep it quiet, not to breathe a word of it to anyone. He then began explaining things to them: “It is necessary that the Son of Man proceed to an ordeal of suffering, be tried and found guilty by the elders, high priests, and religion scholars, be killed, and after three days rise up alive.” He said this simply and clearly so they couldn’t miss it.

32-33 But Peter grabbed him in protest. Turning and seeing his disciples wavering, wondering what to believe, Jesus confronted Peter. “Peter, get out of my way! Satan, get lost! You have no idea how God works.”

34-37 Calling the crowd to join his disciples, he said, “Anyone who intends to come with me has to let me lead. You’re not in the driver’s seat; I am. Don’t run from suffering; embrace it. Follow me and I’ll show you how. Self-help is no help at all. Self-sacrifice is the way, my way, to saving yourself, your true self. What good would it do to get everything you want and lose you, the real you? What could you ever trade your soul for?

Romans 12: Place Your Life Before God

1-2 So here’s what I want you to do, God helping you: Take your everyday, ordinary life—your sleeping, eating, going-to-work, and walking-around life—and place it before God as an offering. Embracing what God does for you is the best thing you can do for him. Don’t become so well-adjusted to your culture that you fit into it without even thinking. Instead, fix your attention on God. You’ll be changed from the inside out. Readily recognize what he wants from you, and quickly respond to it. Unlike the culture around you, always dragging you down to its level of immaturity, God brings the best out of you, develops well-formed maturity in you.

3 I’m speaking to you out of deep gratitude for all that God has given me, and especially as I have responsibilities in relation to you. Living then, as every one of you does, in pure grace, it’s important that you not misinterpret yourselves as people who are bringing this goodness to God. No, God brings it all to you. The only accurate way to understand ourselves is by what God is and by what he does for us, not by what we are and what we do for him.

For a complete lesson on this topic visit LinC here!

ELPING PEOPLE TRANSITION TO ANOTHER CHURCH

Helping people transition to
another church
 by Andrew J. Young II

This article is featured in the Please Don't Tell: The Rewards and Perils of Pastoral Counseling issue of Circuit Rider

Pastor, we’re leaving the church . . .” can be the start of one of the most gutwrenching conversations any minister will have. But over the past eighteen years of ministry, I’ve experienced that conversation di fferently. Over time my experience has been that, when conversations begin with that dreaded phrase, it turns out that these people are often leaving for positive reasons, especially those between eighteen and forty who are in transition. More often than not in the case of my ministry, these initial frightening words are followed by “. . . we’ve accepted a job across country,” or “. . . we’re getting married and moving closer to family,” or “. . . we’re being deployed.” So our church celebrates these departures with intentional responses.

First, we create a climate where change, growth, promotions, and relocation are both celebrated and expected. Our small group leaders always celebrate these types of change with joy and prayerfully minimal tears. Congregationally, we see these life upgrades as blessings from God. Second, we celebrate the departures with corporate prayer in worship with a circle of seven other people who’ve been close to that family or individual, and I lead a congregational prayer. Third, we maintain connections with those who leave via social media, phone calls, and e-mail. I’m often asked to help them find churches where they’re going that are as loving as we are.

Pastorally, these practices help the congregation a ffirm connections made here while also celebrating promotions to new places. It’s been a win-win for us because it is not uncommon to have those who move away come back frequently for visits; some have even moved back to our city and reignited their place in the congregation. One Sunday during worship, I looked in the choir stand and saw the face of someone who had moved away months earlier to start a new job. When I spoke with her after worship, she said, “It’s like we never left.” Though the family was only visiting, it was a testament to being intentional about departures.

Theologically, I truly believe the world is our parish. The church should pastor and care for those who are with us and not assume that a child baptized in our church will grow old and be buried here, as well. In our context, people come and go, and our mission is to make sure, whether they are at the beginning of their journey or the end, we offer joy, peace, and love.

OLD JUST AIN’T WHAT IT USED TO BE

Old just ain't what
it used to be
 by Ed Zinkiewicz

The word old used to carry a mantel of respect. An old person was one who had achieved something, arrived, had matured. Grandfathers and grandmothers were the revered ones for having lived through entire generations of events, decisions, heartbreaks, and victories. Experiences were accumulated to be miraculously transformed into armor plate, impervious to the vagaries of youth which can be whisked away in an instant. As an ancient one you could bespeak of all that you’ve seen, the heroes you’ve met, the travel that had broadened your horizons.

The irony of old and this view of old is that it is, well, old. It appears we don’t go there any more.

To be old these days is like being a rock on the side of the stream–because the rock lies to one side and is, for all intents and purposes, immobile. It holds little meaning for those in the swift flowing stream going by. Hardly worth a glance if you are caught up in the rush called “the real world” and whisked off down-stream. You are being ignored and the ignored are the isolated. The isolated are the lonely. The lonely suffer.

You are an old duffer. A senior. A “pardner.” An old man or old lady. You have become old-fashioned. Gramps! Granny! You are only an insignificant part of the old guard. You are not only an old goat, alas, you are probably no longer randy.

Being old just ain’t what it used to be.

Call to action!

So! Seniors. How are we to treat such villainy? Have we really closed shop? Are we to be tossed to the shore like so much flotsam? Shall we roll over with these kicks adding additional agony to the scars of advanced years? Or, are we going to hold our canes high and shout “No more!” Old ain’t that bad! Let us take our stand against this infamy!

Be proud.

Don’t give in to public opinion. You deserve those wrinkles. You got them the hard way–by living through the sad times, the hard times, and, yes, the fun times and the rewarding times.

Seek the benefits.

You don’t have to stand in line on a Saturday morning to wait for anything. You can do that on Tuesday. And, while the working crowd is nicely tucked away in the workplace, you can go to the barber or hairdresser without having to fight the crowds.

Don’t get stuck in time.

Being a senior is not limited to cheaper movie tickets. Humans of all ages are not made up of just what we used to be. We are not locked in the good old days, nor condemned to bemoan ages long gone. Life is not all about youth. Life is not only about the future. Life, thank you very much, is richer than that. Right here. Right now. No matter how old you are.

Get with it.

Okay. You don’t like computers. I get it. But you need to dip your hand in. So what you’ve been tossed to the riverbank. That doesn’t mean you can’t fish! Toss a line back in; see what you catch. You don’t have to be the world’s foremost computer expert but a very large world of keeping in touch will open up for you by learning how to: email, use Skype, and browse the internet. You can do every one of these on a tablet or computer.

How is retirement going for you?

Do you have any suggestions for folks who are struggling with personal issues around aging? Until next time…

AFTER EVANGELICAL VIRGIN GUYS MARRY, THEN WHAT?

After evangelical
virgin guys 

marry, then what? by Adelle M. Banks / Religion News Service

(RNS) For decades, evangelical leaders have touted “virginity pledges” as a way for teens and young adults to “save themselves for marriage.”

But what happens after the wedding day?

According to a researcher at the University of Washington, young adult men who took the pledge and had male friends who held them accountable before marriage find themselves suddenly adrift and unable to talk to trusted friends — and sometimes even their new wives — about sex.

“Because these men understand sex as a gift for the marriage bed, it is unthinkable to discuss sexual activity anywhere outside of their married relationships,” wrote Sarah Diefendorf in a paper presented at the American Sociological Association’s convention this week in San Francisco.

“Positive conversations around sex do not occur — and these men assume that conversations regarding sexual practices would only occur in what they think of as promiscuous, risque scenarios (such as a swinger party).”

Diefendorf, a doctoral student in sociology, interviewed 15 young evangelical Christian men in a Southwestern megachurch in 2008, then followed up with them in 2011 — when all but one had married.

The men had a clear demarcation in their views about sex before and after marriage, she wrote: “While sex within marriage is sacred, sex before marriage is a beast that must be controlled.”

But Diefendorf found that what were considered “beastly” temptations — pornography, sex outside of marriage — did not disappear after the wedding ceremony.

“It’s a myth that I think is kind of perpetuated by the lack of communication, is that once you get married, suddenly all those desires are fulfilled in your spouse,” said “Aidan,” the fictitious name she used to protect the confidentiality of one of her interviewees. “It’s not true. Guys are so visually driven. The desire for porn, especially if you struggled with that in the past, is still there. It doesn’t go away once the ring slips on!”

Diefendorf found that the men were uncomfortable speaking with each other about the intimate details of their married lives, in part because they were now talking about their wives as well as themselves.

“These men, who four years prior, had engaged in a very open discourse about sex and sexuality, now find it both highly inappropriate and awkward to engage in these conversations,” she said.

Marty King, spokesman for LifeWay Christian Resources, said an estimated 3 million students in thousands of churches worldwide have made the True Love Waits pledge, in one of the most popular campaigns for sexual purity. In 1994, more than 200,000 pledge cards were displayed on the National Mall.

Recently, South Carolina evangelist Clayton King has co-authored with his wife, Sharie, a relaunch called “True Love Project,” which focuses on helping students “understand their sexuality in light of the gospel,” including questions such as “What if you’re not a virgin?”

Clayton King said he is not surprised by Diefendorf’s findings.

“I think there’s been a big emphasis on accountability prior to marriage and then an assumption that once you get married you’re just going to figure it out, it’s going to be easy and all sexual temptation will go away,” he said. “And that has not been the case for most of the men that I know.”

The evangelist said the new “True Love Project” book addresses post-marriage sexuality as well as premarital abstinence.

Although it can mean sweaty palms and feeling sick to your stomach, Clayton King said men need to be given permission to talk to their wives first, then trusted mentors and, if necessary, professionals about their questions about marital sex.

“That’s the hurdle that married people have to overcome early in their marriage — having difficult, awkward, tense conversations,” he said. “If you skip over your spouse and just start talking to other people about the marriage, then you are literally cutting out half the marriage and you’ll never be healthy that way. You’ll never reach relational health by only talking to outsiders.”

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Diefendorf said the removal of the premarital support group from the men’s lives after they married caused them to “now struggle in isolation with how to best manage their desires.”

As “Aidan” put it: “I would stand up and cheer figuratively if our pastor got up there and said, ‘Hey, I am going to spend the next month talking about sex.’”

MARK DRISCOLL TO STEP DOWN WHILE MARS HILL ELDERS REVIEW CHARGES

Driscoll to step down while Mars Hill elders review charges  by Sarah Pulliam Bailey / Religion News Service

(RNS) Seattle megachurch founder Mark Driscoll will step down for at least six weeks while Mars Hill reviews formal charges lodged against him from previous pastors.

Returning from vacation Sunday (Aug. 24), Driscoll addressed Mars Hill worship services through a pre-recorded message. The 43-year-old pastor has been under fire in recent months for plagiarism, inappropriate use of church funds and abuse of power.

“I want to say to my Mars Hill family, past and present, I’m very sorry. I genuinely mean it,” Driscoll said in his address. “I’m very sorry for the times I’ve been angry, short or insensitive. I’m very sorry for anything I’ve done to distract from our mission by inviting criticism, controversy or negative media attention.”

Warren Throckmorton, a Grove City College psychology professor who has been blogging details of the events surrounding the church’s turmoil, posted an audio clip of Driscoll’s 13-minute message. Driscoll said he will not do any outside speaking for the foreseeable future and will postpone the publication of his next book.

“I have begun meeting with a professional team of mature Christians who provide wise counsel to help further my personal development and maturity before godly men,” Driscoll told the congregation.

Throckmorton wrote he is aware of other elders planning to resign or considering it.

“Storm clouds seem to be swirling around me more than ever in recent month, and I have given much thought and sought much counsel on what to do about it,” Driscoll said. “Some have challenged various aspects of my personality and leadership style, and while some of these challenges seem unfair, I have no problem admitting I am deserving of some of these criticisms based my own past actions that I am genuinely sorry for.”

Respected preacher and author John Piper, who received some backlash for inviting Driscoll to his 2006 Desiring God conference, tweeted his reaction to this news.


Driscoll has faced increasing turmoil this past year, though he has long been controversially popular within evangelical circles. “But now Mr. Driscoll’s empire appears to be imploding,” The New York Times wrote on its front page on Saturday (Aug. 23).
“He was really important — in the Internet age, Mark Driscoll definitely built up the evangelical movement enormously,” Timothy Keller, the senior pastor of Redeemer Presbyterian Church in New York, told the Times. “But the brashness and the arrogance and the rudeness in personal relationships — which he himself has confessed repeatedly — was obvious to many from the earliest days, and he has definitely now disillusioned quite a lot of people.”
Mars Hill Church has claimed as many as 14,000 members at 15 locations across five states each Sunday.
Earlier this week, 21 former Mars Hill pastors filed charges against Driscoll, saying that he has engaged in a pattern of abusive and intimidating conduct and has not changed.
Mars Hill also canceled its fall Resurgence Conference, which was to feature recently resigned board members Paul Tripp and James MacDonald as speakers. Driscoll was removed as closing speaker at an October church conference in Dallas and stricken from the speaker list at a series of four Christian “Act Like Men” conferences.
And earlier this month, Driscoll was removed from Acts 29, a church-planting network of more than 500 churches he helped found, after board members said they found a pattern of “ungodly and disqualifying behavior.”
“Based on the totality of the circumstances, we are now asking you to please step down from ministry for an extended time and seek help,” board members told Driscoll.
Driscoll recently admitted to and apologized for comments he made under the pseudonym “William Wallace II” where he posted statements critical of feminism, homosexuality and “sensitive emasculated” men. He noted those comments again in his address on Sunday.
“I have acknowledged and confessed many of my sins and shortcomings and missteps and God has been more than faithful with his forgiveness,” he said.
He has been provocative, occasionally profane, and has faced more recent allegations of plagiarism and inflating his book sales. “Mistakes were made that I am grieved by and apologize for,” he said late last year of plagiarism charges. He also apologized in March, saying “my angry-young-prophet days are over.”
After Acts 29 removed Driscoll from its membership, LifeWay Christian Resources, the nation’s second largest Christian book retailer, pulled Driscoll’s books from its website and 186 stores.
Driscoll, who came into evangelical prominence as multi-site churches and podcasts were becoming more popular, noted one of the paradoxes of being a pastor in a media age.
“The same media channels that can be used to carry a sermon to virtually anyone around the world, can be used by anyone around the globe to criticize, attack or slander,” Driscoll said. “However, another part of it is simply my fault and I will own it, confess it and move on from it as God continues to redeem me.”
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