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You received a Spirit that shows you are adopted as [God’s] children. With this Spirit we cry, “Abba, Father.”[Romans 8:15 (CEB)]
As part of a Bible lesson, I gave each child a folded slip of paper with a word written on it, indicating how God sees him or her — loved, redeemed, forgiven, valued, and precious, to name a few. As each word was read aloud, the children smiled and occasionally cheered. But the child who received the word adopted was disappointed. “Why did you give me this word?” he asked. “I’d rather have one of the others.” For him, adoption had a negative connotation. But I thought that adoption was the best word because it embodied all the others.
Adoption is a conscious choice to make someone part of a family. It creates a new relationship that entitles the adopted person to all the rights and privileges that belong to a biological child. As believers, we have been adopted into God’s family. God is our parent who protects, loves, forgives, and accepts us. We now carry the family name and will eventually take up residence in God’s house.
From God’s perspective, adoption means we are chosen, accepted, valued, and loved without reservation.
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It got me thinking though about what constitutes a family. I found my answer in a picture I received from a cousin. It was taken at a family reunion and includes 14 people. Eight of those people are not biologically related to the cousin who sent it to me (one is adopted and seven are family through marriage). Six, including me, missed the reunion. Of those, only one is biologically related and it isn't me. This mixture in families is common.
It got me wondering, however, about my biological grandmother. So I began searching the Internet. Weeks later I found not only her name but a picture. What surprised me was after all that time and effort I found myself looking at a total stranger. There were no feelings associated with the person in the photograph.
I do have strong feelings, on the other hand, for the people in my cousin's picture. We are connected through shared experiences both good and bad. We are committed to one another, care deeply for each other (warts and all), and have supported one another through incredibly tough times. Love is the glue that binds us together, not biology.
Obviously biology can be important, but it isn't what matters most. Nor does it offer any guarantees.
Although I am grateful to the woman who carried and gave birth to my mother, I genuinely love and miss the grandmother who took my mother in, raised her, and loved her--and who loved me. Pictures of my grandparents, mother, and my cousins hang in my home. I look at them every day. I have been truly blessed by my adopted family.[Esther Bonner]
The Author: Esther L. Bonner (California, USA)
Thought for the Day: God has chosen me.
Prayer: Dear Lord, thank you for loving us enough to make us a permanent part of your family. Amen.
Prayer focus: FAMILIES WAITING TO ADOPT
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