Chabad Magazine – Wednesday, 22 Tevet 5774 · 25 December 2013
Editor's Note:
Dear Friend,
Egypt is on my mind this week. Reading the Torah portion of
Va’eira transports us right back to Egypt, where the story of the Exodus
unfolded over 3,000 years ago.
Interestingly, it was in Egypt, millennia after the Exodus, that
Rabbi Moses ben Maimon, the great codifier and philosopher known as the Rambam,
studied and taught Torah, philosophy, medicine and more. This Monday we marked
the anniversary of his passing.
Then, on Friday, we mark the passing of another great leader and
Torah teacher: Rabbi Schneur Zalman of Liadi.
You can perpetuate their legacies (and deepen your own Jewish
experience) by studying their writings here and here. You can even sign up here
to have a daily portion of Maimonides’ Code of Jewish Law and Rabbi Schneur
Zalman’s Tanya delivered to your inbox every day.
Rochel Chein,
Responder for Ask the Rabbi @ Chabad.org
Daily Thought:
Understanding Wonder
That there are matters we don’t understand is obvious
—how could a finite mind,
bound within the confines of time and space,
fathom the infinite knowledge of its Creator?
The great wonder is that there are matters we can understand.
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This Week's Features:
Rabbi Schneur Zalman of Liadi (1745–1812)
Founder of Chabad
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A mystic, a communal activist, a philosopher, a halachic
authority, a composer, a talmudist—Rabbi Schneur Zalman of Liadi was all of
these. But he was primarily a spiritual guide, who created a practical path
that allows anyone to approach divinity. Rabbi Schneur Zalman lived in an era
of change and unrest on a global scale. Yet his life continues to inspire, and
his works and teachings have long withstood the test of time.© Copyright 2013,
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PARSHAH
Turning Up the Heat
The very concept of Egypt denotes limitation, a sense of
entrapment, blockage and slavery. And we have a directive to escape this
reality every day. We don’t need to physically live in the land of Egypt under
Pharaoh’s rule to feel enslaved . . .
By Sarah Zadok
Tonight, before bed, I read about blood and frogs. I read about
the spiritual nature of these divine plagues, and their message for the modern
man or woman. I was feeling pleased with myself for having learned a bit of
Torah before going to sleep. I felt I had accomplished a worthy intellectual
pursuit that probably had some positive implications for my soul, too. Two
points for me in the spirituality department. Check. Then I got up to brush my
teeth. Except that when I stood up, I knocked over a full pitcher of water that
was sitting next to me. In an instant, my socks were soaked and the rug was
drenched. I was a cold, wet mess from the calves down.
And that’s when I began to internalize the lesson of the blood and
frogs. Allow me to explain…
Mitzrayim is not just a place, but a state of being
We have a Torah imperative that says, “In every generation one
must look upon himself as if he personally had gone out of Egypt” (Talmud,
Pesachim 116b). The Hebrew language is saturated with depth and meaning. In
Hebrew, the word for “Egypt” is Mitzrayim, and it comes from the word meitzar,
“limitation.” It is related to the words tzar, “narrow,” and tzarah,
“suffering.” Mitzrayim, in other words, is not just a place, but a state of
being.
The very concept of Egypt denotes limitation, a sense of
entrapment, blockage and slavery. And we have a directive to escape this reality
every day. We don’t need to physically live in the land of Egypt under Pharaoh’s
rule to feel enslaved.
We all have areas of our lives where we struggle with
limitations that impede our spiritual growth. For some, the struggle may be
over a cheeseburger or the impulse to drive to a rock concert on Shabbat. For
others, it might be admitting when we are wrong, or offering to lend a hand to
a friend when we really have other things we would rather be doing. Whatever
guise our Mitzrayim takes, it creates a barrier to our spiritual growth and
development.
G‑d sent ten
plagues to the land of Egypt. This week’s Torah portion begins with the first
two: blood and frogs. The Lubavitcher Rebbe explains that these plagues serve
as instructions to help us free ourselves from our own personal barriers and
limitations—our own personal Egypt.
G‑d turned the
Nile into blood. Blood is described as the vitality (the nefesh) of a living
thing. Blood is warm; and warmth, in general, is associated with things of a
holy nature. Blood is very much connected with life.
Water, on the other hand, is cold and wet. Coolness, in general,
is associated with impurity and death. If a living body becomes cold for too
long, it is no longer alive. In some ways, water is the opposite of blood.
Blood is warm and easily excitable, while the nature of water is generally cool
and calm. Water can also be frozen and stop moving altogether, at which point
it loses its vitality completely. The very concept of coldness opposes
holiness. However, water is also necessary for life.
Torah is alive only when we allow it to heat us up
The same is true of Torah. In fact, our sages compare the
Torah—our spiritual lifeline—to water. Like water, Torah is alive only when we
allow it to heat us up. When we imbue our Jewish lives with vitality and
enthusiasm, warmth and joy, then the Torah becomes a life-sustaining, living
wellspring. But if we allow our Judaism to be routine and stagnant, it becomes
like a block of ice: cold and lifeless.
I remember floating into synagogue one Friday night, dressed in
white, the glow of Shabbat candles still alight in my eyes, totally “high” on
Shabbat. I saw a friend of mine as I walked in, and I wished him a
wholehearted, wide-smiled and soulful “Good Shabbos!” He just stared at me
blankly and finally said, “What are you all fired up about? It’s just Shabbos.
This happens every Friday night.” Talk about a buzzkill. I felt so deflated, as
if there was something wrong with me for being so excited by Shabbat.
That’s the inherent lesson in the plague of blood. It’s like G‑d is saying: “Wake up, people! Ivdu et Hashem be-simchah! Serve
G‑d with joy!” That’s what we’re supposed to do; it’s kind of a
rule. We’re expected to have vitality in our spiritual lives. The truth is that
in our path there will always be obstacles that will try to “cool us off” to
our spiritual pursuits. But the plague of blood teaches us that in spite of the
killjoys in our lives, we need to maintain heat and movement within ourselves.
Now for the frog lesson. There are two general types of
critters: warm-blooded and cold-blooded. Frogs are the latter. Not only are
they cold-blooded, but interestingly they are also water creatures.
The frogs infiltrated every part of Egypt, and the Torah tells
us that they even jumped into the ovens. If they were everywhere, then one
might assume that they were also in the ovens . . . Why does the Torah make a
special point of telling us about the ovens?
The Talmud explains that it was in order to show us that the
frogs martyred themselves for G‑d’s cause. The
Rebbe points out that the frogs went completely against their nature. They are
cold-blooded creatures, and they entered flaming hot ovens. This demonstrates
the level of their self-sacrifice. It’s as if the frogs were saying, “Hey, you
Egyptians, you’re fired up about all the wrong stuff. Don’t serve idols—serve
the One and Only G‑d!” In
essence, the frogs went into the ovens to “cool down” the passion for negative
and forbidden behaviors (symbolized by the ovens).
I realized my good fortune of spilling the pitcher
When I stood up to brush my teeth after reading these insights
into the Torah portion, I had done just that. I read about a historical event,
thought it was interesting, gave myself a pat on the back and closed the book.
But then I found myself drenched in water. And it was as if G‑d was saying to me, “Wake up! Don’t just read it. Live it, absorb
it, soak yourself in it.”
Once I realized my good fortune of spilling the pitcher, I did a
little impromptu jig right there in the water, just to remind myself about the
importance of having joy and enthusiasm in how I live my life as a Jew. My feet
warmed right up . . . I imagine my soul did, too.
Sarah Zadok is a Jewish educator and lecturer, a childbirth
professional and a freelance writer. She lives in the Golan Heights with her
husband and five children.© Copyright 2013, all rights reserved.
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More in Parshah:
• The Greatest Miracle of All (By Naftali Silberberg)
Miracles, miracles, and more miracles. That is the story of this
week’s Torah portion. Sticks transforming into serpents; water turning into
blood; hail pellets with a core of fire; dreadful plagues of frogs, lice, wild
beasts, pestilence and boils.
“Fairy tales,” declares the skeptic. “Isn’t it so convenient
that all these miracles happened more than three thousand years ago? I’ll
believe it when I see it with my own eyes! Why didn’t G‑d send ten plagues upon the Nazis? What’s with all the
terrorists who blow up men, women and children? Did G‑d perhaps forget how to make miracles?!”
The believing Jew, too, asks the same questions—albeit in a more
respectful tone. Yes, he understands that G‑d controls
nature as well as the supernatural; but why did G‑d choose to
flip the switch, deciding to abandon the course of miracles and to run the
world entirely through the laws of nature?
Why did G‑d choose to
abandon the course of miracles and to run the world entirely through the laws
of nature?
The book of Exodus introduces us to the era of openly
nature-defying miracles,1 an era which lasted roughly a millennium. The
Scriptures are filled with stories of prophets and miracles; in fact, it seems
that the laws of nature were temporarily defunct. This era ended with the
destruction of the first Holy Temple. Afterward, there were a few brief
glimpses of the supernatural—such as the miracle of Chanukah—but after a few
centuries these too vanished. For the past two thousand years we live in a
double exile: physically, we were banished from our homeland; spiritually, we
cannot perceive the G‑dly hand which
creates and directs all of creation.2
The reason for the emergence and subsequent disappearance of
miracles is linked to the purpose of our very existence. Life in the Garden of
Eden was idyllic, because evil was not yet part of the human character. The
fruit of the Tree of Knowledge imbued Adam and Eve with an intimate knowledge
of physical and material desire. The moment they were expelled from the Garden
is the moment when the story of the perpetual human struggle began: the
struggle of choosing between the G‑dly (good) or
the opposite (egotism, hedonism, etc.). And actually, this is what G‑d really wanted from the moment He considered the idea of
creation: a free-choosing human being who would struggle with the evil and
self-centeredness which are natural parts of his personality, and would
triumph.
Miracles are comparable to training wheels. In the early years
of our nationhood, G‑d assisted us
in our struggle by frequently and very openly interfering in the happenings of
this world. A miracle opens the eyes to a higher truth, and motivates a person
to want to connect to this higher reality through Torah and mitzvot.
Ultimately, however, we need to mature. We need to be able to ride the bike
with our own two wheels; we need to face life’s struggle with our own
strengths. The messianic era is the consummation of our relationship with G‑d, and to earn this privilege we have to prove that the
relationship is real to us, so real that we maintain this relationship even in
the absence of any revealed reciprocation from G‑d.
We are greatest miracle of all: our ability to steadfastly
remain loyal to G‑d throughout
two thousand years of temptation, despite the spiritual blackness which surrounds
us.
Rabbi Naftali Silberberg is a writer, editor, and director of
the curriculum department at the Rohr Jewish Learning Institute. Rabbi
Silberberg resides in Brooklyn, NY, with his wife Chaya Mushka and their three
children.
FOOTNOTES
1.In the book of Genesis there are many amazing stories—such as
Sarah giving birth at the age of ninety, Abraham and a handful of men defeating
the combined armies of four powerful kings, etc.—but no blatantly supernatural
occurrences such as the splitting of the Red Sea or the transformation of water
into blood.
2.In the Amidah prayer, we thank G‑d for “Your
miracles which are with us daily, and for Your continual wonders and
beneficences.” However, this is a reference to the miracles which accompany us
daily but are shrouded in nature. As the Talmud comments on the verse (Psalms
136:4) “He who does wonders alone”: “[Even] the beneficiary of the miracle does
not recognize the miracle.”
Additionally, in every generation—until this very day—there are
tzaddikim (righteous people) who, due to their connection to G‑d, are capable of transcending nature and performing miracles,
even miracles which are beyond the boundaries of nature. However, these
miracles tend to be “localized,” affecting individuals, or at times a
community. These cannot be compared to the biblical miracles, which were
witnessed by entire nations.© Copyright 2013, all rights reserved.
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• The Lowly Tasks (By Yitschak Meir Kagan)
Our sages tell us that the rod Moses used to bring the plagues
upon the Egyptians was carved with the names of the six mothers of our people
(Sarah, Rebecca, Rachel, Leah, Bilhah and Zilpah), the twelve tribes, the ten
plagues, and the great name of G‑d.
Certainly, the noble and lofty ideas and ideals represented by
the matriarchs and the tribes of Israel are “worthy companions” for G‑d’s name on Moses’ rod. But the lowly tasks of bringing frogs,
lice and boils upon the Egyptians seem an incongruous “match” with the
Almighty’s ineffable name—
—Until we call to mind the principle of G‑d’s particular providence and watchfulness over every detail of
the universe. G‑d is concerned
not only with lofty generalities, with the world as a whole or an entire
species as a whole, but also with “lowly matters” (such as punishing the
Egyptians) and with the smallest details.
Some individuals feel that their purpose in life is to
revolutionize the world, to revamp society. It is not worthwhile to devote
their superior talents to correcting “small matters.”
In particular, there are some rabbinical leaders who declare
that their attention is devoted exclusively to matters of great import. In
Torah study, they explore only the most esoteric and abstruse discussions. In
the area of service of G‑d, they ponder
profound axioms of philosophy encompassing the entire Torah. In the field of
communal affairs, they attempt to show how all of humanity’s ills could be
remedied by application of the principles of justice. In the arena of worldly
affairs, their sermons eloquently explain the need for global democracy; they
comment on nuclear warfare, and stress the need for summit meetings of the
world’s leaders.
The “simple” matters of Shabbat laws and Shabbat observance,
keeping kosher, the laws of marital life or the details of blessings to be made
over food do not befit their exalted status. Such “lowly tasks” are best left
to the gabbai, the synagogue warden, or at best to the assistant rabbi, for the
duty of a great rabbi is to address himself exclusively to matters of global
nature, to attract attention with startling new statements and to make
front-page news.
Let these rabbis content themselves with emulating their
Creator! If the Almighty interests Himself and watches over even the smallest
detail of the universe; if bringing lice and hail upon the Egyptians is not too
“lowly” a task to be associated with G‑d’s great
name—then he too should give attention to the smallest detail. It is precisely
in the “simple tasks,” teaching the Torah laws pertaining to day-to-day living,
that G‑d’s kingly presence finds expression.1
Rabbi Yitschak Meir Kagan was associate director of the
Lubavitch Foundation in Michigan. An innovative educator and author, he
compiled A Thought for the Week adapted from the works of the Lubavitcher
Rebbe. Rabbi Kagan taught chassidic philosophy at various universities in
Michigan, untill his tragic passing in a car accident in 2001.
From A Thought for the Week, reprinted with permission of
Lubavitch of Michigan.
FOOTNOTES
1. Based on Likkutei
Sichot, vol. 6, p. 305.© Copyright 2013, all rights reserved.
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• Va’eira in a Nutshell
G‑d reveals
Himself to Moses. Employing the “four expressions of redemption,” He promises
to take out the Children of Israel from Egypt, deliver them from their
enslavement, redeem them, and acquire them as His own chosen people at Mount
Sinai; He will then bring them to the land He promised to the Patriarchs as
their eternal heritage.
Moses and Aaron repeatedly come before Pharaoh to demand in the
name of G‑d, “Let My
people go, so that they may serve Me in the wilderness.” Pharaoh repeatedly
refuses. Aaron’s staff turns into a snake and swallows the magic sticks of the
Egyptian sorcerers. G‑d then sends a
series of plagues upon the Egyptians.
The waters of the Nile turn to blood; swarms of frogs overrun
the land; lice infest all men and beasts. Hordes of wild animals invade the
cities; a pestilence kills the domestic animals; painful boils afflict the
Egyptians. For the seventh plague, fire and ice combine to descend from the
skies as a devastating hail. Still, “the heart of Pharaoh was hardened and he
would not let the children of Israel go, as G‑d had said to
Moses.”© Copyright 2013, all rights reserved
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WOMEN
Parenting Advice From a Survivor
By the time she was four, Lily had survived and lived more lives
than a person of a hundred and twenty.
By Elana Mizrahi
Sometimes I don’t know who helps whom more, the “healer” or the
one who comes for “healing.”
Lily sat in front of me, her leg swollen, hot and red. I put my
hands on it. All I did was touch it. Her reaction surprised me. She sighed, a
good sigh, a tired sigh that one lets out when finally home after a long
journey. “Why didn’t I come to you sooner?” she asked. “It feels better
already.”
“But I didn’t do anything yet.”
“Of course you did: you are giving attention to it. Nobody does,
and the little massage I can do to myself isn’t enough.”
As I worked to get the blood going and the energy and lymph
flowing, Lily spoke. She spoke about the past. She spoke about the present. I
She survived terror, hunger and diseasewas shocked to find out that the woman
in front of me was a Holocaust survivor. Her mother bore her in the beginning
of the war. She survived terror, hunger and disease. She survived the camps. By
the time she was four, Lily had survived and lived more lives than a person of
a hundred and twenty.
I massaged; Lily spoke. I listened; Lily taught. As Lily told me
about her childhood, she taught me an important lesson. Lily was the eldest of
three children. She was the tall one. She was the smart one. She was the strong
one. She was the eldest. Lily kept repeating to me, over and over, “I always
had to give in to the others. My mother told me, ‘You are the tallest, the
smartest, the strongest. You are the oldest. You must give in to them.’” That
meant Lily never got to go first. She never had a toy of her own. She was never
right when it came to a quarrel with one of her siblings. And even if she was,
it didn’t matter, because after all she was the oldest, and the oldest has to
give in to the younger ones. She was the oldest, and the oldest always has to
know better.
Suddenly, in the midst of her storytelling, Lily became quiet.
And then she told me: “You have three children. Don’t make the oldest always
give in to the younger ones. Don’t think that the eight-year-old knows better
than the five-year-old. He doesn’t. Don’t expect them to play together and be
friends if you treat them differently. Because if you do, you will turn them into
enemies instead of friends.”
These were the words of Lily.
They were strong. They were straight. They were right.
How many times is the eldest playing with a ball when the
toddler comes along and wants it? The eldest doesn’t give it to him—after all,
he was playing with it. So the toddler starts to cry, and you say, “Can’t you
just give him the ball?” Wasn’t it his ball? Why does he always have to give in
to the toddler just because the toddler knows how to cry?
Or, you are in the park and everyone is hungry. You always give
the middle one food first. Why? Because she’s thinner than the rest; because
she cries more than the rest. She always gets first. Do you really They were
strong. They were straight. They were right.think it is possible to measure
hunger? Why do the other ones always get served second just because she’s
thinner?
The examples from our lives go on and on. Lily is right. We see
this in our holy Torah:
This is Aaron and Moses, to whom G‑d said: “Take
the children of Israel out of Egypt according to their legions.” They are the
ones who spoke to Pharaoh, king of Egypt, to take the children of Israel out of
the land of Egypt; they are Moses and Aaron. (Exodus 6:26–27)
On these verses, the famous commentator Rashi writes:
This is Aaron and Moses: Who are mentioned above, whom Yocheved
bore to Amram—[these two] are [the same] Aaron and Moses “to whom G‑d said,” etc. In some places [Scripture] places Aaron before
Moses, and in other places it places Moses before Aaron, to tell us that they
were equal.
They are Moses and Aaron: They remained in their mission and in
their righteousness from beginning to end.
Even though they were both great, Moses was without a doubt the
leader of the nation of Israel. Aaron was older than Moses, but G‑d chose Moses because He saw that Moses was the most qualified
one to be the leader of Israel. Moses’ mission in life was to lead Israel.
Aaron had a different mission, and even though Moses worried about offending
his older brother’s honor, Aaron wasn’t jealous. The Torah relates that G‑d told Moses that Aaron “will see you and rejoice in his heart.”
I think that there was no jealousy and that they had such
respect for each other because no one ever compared them to each other. Despite
the fact that they had different missions and roles, they were given “equal
significance.” Sometimes Aaron went first, and sometimes Moses went first.
As a parent, it’s so hard not to fall into patterns. You don’t
even realize it, but if you take a step back for a moment, you might see how
you always give one child first, or you always give one child more than the
others. It could be the one who cries loudest, and you just want to quiet him.
It could be that you do it to the one you most identify with. Or it could be to
the one you identify with the least, and you are trying to make up for it by
Sometimes Aaron went first, and sometimes Moses went firstovercompensating.
Your intentions are good; you don’t even notice that you do it, but you do.
By the end of our session, Lily said that her leg started to
feel better. I attribute part of her pain to exhaustion. Lily’s tired. She’s
tired of always having to be the strongest and tallest. She’s tired of always
having to give in. She’s tired of standing on her own. I squeeze her toes and
massage the leg one more time before thanking her for sharing her stories with
me.
The next time the five-year-old is jumping rope and the
two-year-old comes along and wants her rope, I stop myself from saying, “Can’t
you just give it to him a little bit?” Instead I tell him, “She was playing
with it first.” I let him have a tantrum over it, and I pick him up, kiss him,
and try to distract him with another toy. My five-year-old smiles at me with a
look of gratitude.
Thank you, Lily, for your words of advice.
Originally from Northern California and a Stanford University
graduate, Elana Mizrahi now lives in Jerusalem with her husband and children.
She is a doula, massage therapist and writer. She also teaches Jewish marriage
classes for brides.© Copyright 2013, all rights reserved.
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More in Women:
• Learning to Face Rejection (By Menucha Chana Levin)
Two sweet-looking little girls, about four years old, are
running along beside a playground, ponytails bobbing in the sunlight. They are
clasping hands, a symbol of their friendship. Tagging along right behind them
is another little girl, whose longing to join the duo is clear. She catches up
to them, grabbing the free hand of one girl, who quickly shakes it off.
Instantly the two children turn on the third, one glaring
furiously, the other making a nasty face. Neither says a word, but their
message is clear, their rejection of the third child painfully obvious.
The two children turn on the third, glaring furiously
Bewildered, she stares at them, shocked by their cruel rebuff,
uncomprehending sadness in her brown eyes. The two girls scamper off, still
clutching each other’s hands, their smug silence louder than any scalding words
they might have tossed at her.
Looking at the child’s dejected little face, I share her hurt.
Though it happened decades ago, I still vividly remember the pain of rejection
by my mean classmates, like a shard of glass in my heart.
Part of me wants to scoop up this little child and gently wipe
away her painful tears.
“Those girls have a lot to learn about kindness,” I want to tell
her. “They don’t appreciate how sweet you are. Soon you’ll find some real
friends, much nicer girls than those.”
I realize this is just her first taste of the bitterness of
rejection. Unfortunately, as she grows through her life’s journey, she will
have to face many other painful moments of rejection.
When she sits there, anxiously waiting, and isn’t chosen for the
softball team after all.
When she tries out for, but doesn’t get, a part in the school
play, while her less-talented classmate is given a starring role.
When she receives a brief, polite letter from the college she
was longing to attend, disappointingly turning her down.
Later, when the hoped-for engagement doesn't happen after all,
though the two of them had so much in common and communicated so well, and she
felt sure this time that he was the one. Her bubble of happiness bursting in her
face, she is left devastated.
The job interview that went so smoothly—she handled the challenging
questions easily, possessing all the required knowledge and experience—but in
the end, she doesn’t get the position she knew would have been ideal for her
career.
Yes, little girl, I can relate all too well. Like all writers, I
have to face rejection on a regular basis, each time the story or I can relate
all too wellarticle in which I invested so much time and effort turns out to be
“not suitable” for the publication’s current needs. Yet I have come to realize
over the years that achievement and acceptance are hard work, acknowledging
there is more work to do before we are as polished as we need to be. I’ve
become realistic that more learning and experience are often needed.
Rejection, though often painful, is a part of life, and we need
to find a way to recoup and try again. Of course, it’s completely normal to
feel upset after a disappointment. However, if you permit yourself to feel
frustrated for too long, then you risk negatively affecting future events. You
should view this experience as an opportunity to learn and approach the future
with more resilience.
Sometimes you realize later on that the situation actually
turned out to be for the best.
I recall a saying I once read: “After a rejection, you could get
bitter. Or you could get better.”
Sweet little girl, still standing there in dazed puzzlement,
what can I say to you now to comfort you?
You must remember there is Someone who will never reject you, no
matter what happens. Your Father in heaven will never turn you away, and you
can turn to Him always.
As King David, personally familiar with the bitterness of
rejection, says in Psalms: “For my father and my mother have forsaken me, but G‑d gathers me in.”
May He always watch over you, little girl, as you set forth on
your own journey through life, with all of the challenges that lie in store.
Menucha Chana Levin is the author of two novels, The Youngest
Bride and The Castle Builders, published by Israel Bookshop Publications.©
Copyright 2013, all rights reserved.
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• Solace During Divorce - Messages Through Tehillim (By Karen
Rapaport)
It was the day I was to receive my get (Jewish divorce
contract). I sat with a friend, waiting at the beit din (Jewish court) for the
rabbis to call me. No words could describe my sadness, so silence had to
suffice. I felt scattered, and I knew I needed support. But, like so many times
in my life, I found that the only voice or words or comfort that could contain
my reality were those of King David.
I had tried so hard to save my marriage. Like many marriages,
the stories of my marriage were complex and rich. From the mundane to the
profound, they covered the expansive ground that is intimacy. Can one really
describe a marriage in I had tried so hard to save my marriageits entirety? I
think not, but there are pieces and memories and themes that one can unravel
with words. My marriage had the triumphs and the kindnesses and the incredible
gifts that one can obtain only through the experience of marriage. But so, too,
there were the challenges. Those revealed and those concealed. And then there
was the pain. Intense pain.
When I began my marriage, reading tehillim (Psalms) was but an
“exercise” that I knew was important. As someone somewhat new to observant
Judaism, I knew there was much to learn. My knowledge base was shaky. Even with
my deeply rooted “spiritual” proclivities, there was no way I could truly
understand the meaning of all that I was being exposed to, often for the first
time. I waded my way through—always curious, generally passionate. But my heart
and mind were not always in tune.
As the profound losses, difficult moves, and complicated
pregnancies appeared in my life, I often felt very alone . . . emotionally and
physically alone. When I felt alone, I was motivated to read more Torah, do
more mitzvahs and wrestle with my struggles. This was an attempt to make sense
of my life through G‑d’s lenses. It
was an evolving process with a very personal outcome: Through this, the wisdom
of Torah became more alive. King David’s words became more alive. I became more
alive. I became a stronger, more resilient, more accepting person.
As I I became a stronger, more resilient, more accepting
personbecame more alive, I found the universe filled with messages. In the
past, I was often able to pick up on the feelings of people. I was able to hear
what resonated, and assess situations at an intuitive level. But having the
ability to listen to the messages of the universe did not necessarily mean that
I was able to respond appropriately. Now I felt more in tune with G‑d’s will and desire, which helped me help others. I felt more
compassionate and authentic. I was more open to give of myself and give of my
heart, in ways I could not do before.
The end of my marriage was a slow process. Like before, I felt
alone. I knew I had to use all the spiritual tools and growth I had already
learned through these years in order to survive and ultimately thrive. My
tehillim became a central part of this goal. I took it upon myself to say the
psalms that spoke to me. The words felt real. They felt vibrant. They felt alive,
and they were mine.
Back to the day of my divorce. Throughout the hour-long journey
to the beit din, King David’s words helped connect my mind and heart: “G‑d is the portion of my inheritance and of my cup; You guide my
fate. The portions that have fallen to me are in pleasant places; a beautiful
inheritance is mine . . .” (Psalm 16).
After the first proceeding, I opened my purse and reached for my
tehillim. I could not find it. I searched through every nook, every fold, and
every cranny. I found my siddur (prayerbook), I found the notes that I had
tucked in the tehillim, but not the tehillim itself. How I needed it so! Then I
had a sudden revelation.
This was the tehillim I had received on my wedding day. It was a
tehillim that had I searched through every nook, every fold, and every
crannyseen many tears, and some happiness, too. I sat with the realization that
I had just lost that very same tehillim right before my divorce.
A part of Psalm 32, a psalm I had come to know so intimately
over the last few years, came to mind: “I will instruct you and teach you in
the way in which you should go; I will signal you with the winking of my eye .
. .”
The tehillim that had been so integral to my marriage, that had
seen me through so much, had disappeared. The tehillim that had supported me,
uplifted me and clarified for me was no longer there. Perhaps it had served its
purpose. Perhaps I needed to buy a different tehillim. Perhaps I was embarking
on a different kind of life. Perhaps a sweeter one.
Karen Wolfers Rapaport is a psychotherapist and workshop leader
specializing in Narrative Therapy. A proud mother, she is blessed to live in
Israel. She is inspired by people's stories. She is equally inspired by how they
gain strength through them.© Copyright 2013, all rights reserved.
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FEATURE ARTICLES
Midrash Is for Lovers
The Zohar tells a parable of a beautiful woman who peeks out to
her beloved through a small window. Those who love her, find her. Those who
don’t, must have patience.
By Tzvi Freeman and Yehuda Shurpin
A Jewish soul does not live on literalisms alone. All of us need
a healthy serving of allusions, parables and mysteries in our lives. That
pretty much sums up our first installment of this series—the value of a mixed
diet.
To explain the value of allusions, parables and riddles, we told
a parable of the Zohar, a story of a beautiful woman who peeks out to her
beloved through a small window. Those who love her, find her. Those who don’t,
remain clueless. They don’t even notice she was there. So, too, those who love
Torah will find the meaning they are meant to find.
For those of us somewhere in between—those who have some of the
love to seek, but lack much of the wisdom to decipher the code—the Torah still
has patience. We can work our way up through midrash and aggadah to eventually
fathom Torah’s most hidden treasures. And we also have guidance from the wisest
teachers, those who have recorded for us at least a small part of the code.
Does the Biblical Text Mean What It Says?
Let’s start with laying down some boundaries. When are we to
take something literally, and when is it open to interpretation?
Maybe pork is really okay, because that’s a metaphor too. Where
do we stop?
Once you realize the depth of meaning that lies within each
verse, you might begin to read the entire Hebrew Bible as a set of metaphors.
Perhaps Adam and Eve, Abraham and Sarah, Mount Sinai and G‑d too are all just metaphor. Maybe pork is really okay, because
that’s a metaphor too. Where do we stop?
Historically, we’ve been there. Before Maimonides’ time and
after, preachers flourished who expounded the entire written Torah exclusively
as metaphor. Cain and Abel were representative of the struggle between matter
and form. Moses and Pharaoh were really the good inclination versus the evil
inclination. All the mitzvahs were interpreted similarly. Tefillin became passé
for many, because that too was a metaphor. Jewish men saw nothing wrong with
taking a non-Jewish wife, because the prohibition against such was also a
metaphor.1
That’s something like applying psychology to a problem in
mathematics, or attempting a biopsy on quarks. You’re mixing up your
departments.2
The Talmud provides us a simple principle: “A biblical text does
not depart from its simple meaning.” The Talmud provides us a simple principle:
“A biblical text does not depart from its simple meaning.”Learn your midrash;
find the secret meaning—but leave the simple meaning intact. Adam, Eve, Abraham
and Sarah are all real people; Moses really did split the Sea of Reeds; and we
all heard the voice of G‑d at Mount
Sinai. Pork is off limits. Because that’s what it says. The first department,
with any text of the Hebrew Bible, is the simple meaning.
That the text literally means what it says should be eminently
clear from both the context and content of the text. The context of most of the
Hebrew Bible is unmistakable: Real-life narrative with a lesson.
That it’s about real life is blindingly apparent from its
concern with questions that only a nudnik would ask about a parable or a
legend: Just how many people were there? Exactly how many died in the plague,
and how many were left after? What were their names and parents’ names? What
was the name of the place where it happened? What were the sizes, shapes and weights
of the things they made?
There are no anachronisms. As the granddaddy of Egyptian
chronology, K. A. Kitchen, points out,3 Joseph is sold for 20 silver pieces. A
review of ancient Near Eastern documents demonstrates that this was just the
price for which slaves were sold in those days (see How Much Can I Get For My
Brother?). By the times of Moses, slaves were already selling at an average of
30 silver pieces, and by the times of the kings of Israel the price had reached
50 silver pieces. The narrative here is clearly concerned with providing
true-to-life details.
Moses’s mother was his father’s aunt—a marriage that became
forbidden in his own time. Certainly, a legend-narrative would modify that
information. But the Hebrew Bible is concerned with the details, however
inconvenient they may be.
The Tabernacle is a structure that could have been built only in
the particular era in which it was built. Every detail is provided and counted.
It’s difficult to imagine why a myth-teller would iterate such detail. There’s
nothing grandiose or particularly wondrous about the structure—far larger
structures were built by the nations surrounding the Israelites. Again, the
concern here is to tell the story right, as it happened.
And it’s a very linear story, which relies heavily on the
sequence of events. The sale of Joseph, for example, can be understood only
within the context of G‑d’s covenant
to Abraham, in which he was foretold the descent of his children to a foreign
land and their subsequent oppression there. The Exodus must be understood in
the context of the stories of both Joseph and Abraham. And so it continues with
every story until Ezra and Nehemiah, each building accumulatively upon the
events that have unfolded thus far. It may not be a history as we understood
such today—it is still principally concerned with the lessons and morals to be
learned. But it certainly does not have the flavor of parable in any sense or
form. It’s screaming loud and clear, “First get the story straight; then you
can look deeper.”
In a much-acclaimed lecture and essay,4 Yosef Yerushalmi pointed
out that the Hebrew Bible is the very first history of a people, as opposed to
a collection of legends. It is the oldest story we have that was written in a
linear, phonetic alphabet, as opposed to nonlinear, representational glyphs—and
so, the first that represents a linear, sequence-oriented mind. It is
literature in the truest sense of the word: concerned with everything that
oratory and pictographs are permitted to ignore, sticking to details, and
getting the facts straight.
For almost thirty years, the Rebbe, Rabbi Menachem M.
Schneerson, performed frequent public surgery on Rashi’s commentary to the Five
Books of Moses. He revealed a wealth of profound meaning, hidden secrets and
practical lessons ripe for the picking if you would look between the lines. But
all this only after first laying out as simply as possible what exactly Rashi
meant to the five-year-old who just wants to know what the text is saying. And
that usually took up most of the lecture—sometimes almost the whole thing.
Simple Rules for Simple Meaning
And yet, there’s a crucial caveat: Simple meaning is not synonymous
with literal meaning.
If I tell you I’m going to take a bath, that doesn’t mean I’ll
be ripping out the plumbing and carrying the tub somewhere.
This is true with all human language. If I tell you I’m going to
take a bath, that doesn’t mean I’ll be ripping out the plumbing and carrying
the tub somewhere. If I tell you, “We gave the other team a beating!” don’t
expect to find them bruised and bloody in the emergency ward. A dictionary does
not a language make. There are idioms of speech.
So too, “an eye for an eye” is not talking about eyeballs—that’s
an idiom of speech that refers to equitable monetary compensation.5 G‑d is real, but His hand is not a hand like your hand.
How do we know? What are the factors that determine what is
literal and what is figurative? The first, simplest and best answer to that
question was provided by Rabbi Saadia Gaon of 10th-century Baghdad.
Rabbi Saadia was a great believer in the power of reason, but
also a strong traditionalist. He wrote what is generally considered the first
systematic guide to Jewish beliefs, The Book of Doctrines and Beliefs.
In his time there were those who disputed the traditional
literal interpretation of Ezekiel 37:5, a passage that describes the
resurrection of the dead souls of Israel in a time to come. When the Mishnah
lists those who have forfeited their share in the world to come, it includes
those who deny the literalness of this prophecy. But these people argued that a
literal reading is irrational and unnecessary, and read it as a metaphor for
the resurrection of the spirit of the nation.
R. Saadia first countered that once you’ve accepted that the
Creator created everything to begin with, resurrection is a perfectly rational
belief. Why can’t the Creator recreate that which He has already created? But
then he also argues that in this case the literal interpretation of the text is
the most elegant.
To make that last point, R. Saadia found it necessary to provide
some ground rules for literal interpretation. When do we read a text literally,
and when does it demand a figurative interpretation? After all, there are
plenty of instances where the traditional interpretation veers from the literal
meaning of the words.
Ingeniously, R. Saadia does this with only four simple
principles. Here is a loose translation of that passage:
It is a well-known first principle that anything found in
scripture is to be understood according to its simple meaning, with the
exception of those cases where such is impossible, due to one of four possible
causes:
Our perceived reality dismisses it.
An example would be the verse, “And Adam called his wife Chavah,
because she was the mother of all life.”
Now, we see that the ox and the lion are not born from a human
woman. So we know that these words refer not to all living beings, but only to
human life.
Our sense of reason dismisses it.
For example, the verse, “For G‑d, your G‑d, is a consuming fire, a G‑d of
vengeance.”
Now, fire is a creation, and it requires some sort of material
to burn. At times it is extinguished. Our sense of reason cannot accept that G‑d could be such. So, we are forced to say that there is some
idea hidden within the usage of fire to describe G‑d’s vengeance. Indeed, there is a verse, “For in the fire of My
vengeance the entire earth will be consumed.”
Another verse explicitly negates it. In such a case, we must
provide a resolution that is not explicitly stated.
For example, one verse says, “Do not test G‑d your G‑d, as you
tested Him at Massah.” Yet another verse says, “Please test me in this, says G‑d, the G‑d of Hosts: If
I will not open for you the portals of heaven . . .”
The resolution that arises from between the two verses is that
we should not test G‑d to determine
whether He is capable or not, like those about whom it was said, “They tested G‑d in their hearts, asking food for themselves, and they spoke
about G‑d, saying, ‘Is G‑d capable of
setting a table in the desert?” It is in reference to those people that it is
said, “as you tested Him at Massah.”
But when a person tests his own worth to G‑d, to know whether he is fit for a wondrous sign or not, as
Gideon asked, “I will test just this time with the fleece.” or as Hezekiah
asked, or others like them—this is permissible.
We have a tradition that compromises the text in some way. In
this case, we must reinterpret the text to fit the authentic tradition.
For example, we have been told that corporal punishment consists
of no more than thirty-nine lashes. Yet the verse says, “You shall strike him
forty lashes.”
In this case, we understand that the verse really means
thirty-nine, only that it has rounded off the number—just as it has done in
another verse: “As the number of days that you toured the land, which were
forty days, so you will wander one year for each day, forty years . . .”—even
though there were only thirty-nine, since the first year was not included in
that punishment.
Following this, R. Saadia goes on to demonstrate that none of
these conditions apply to the verses describing the resurrection of the dead,
which therefore must be taken literally.
The Book Maimonides Never Wrote
Midrash, in many ways, is the opposite of peshat. Midrash
screams out, “I am not what I appear to be!” Midrash purposely sets the
foreground fuzzy so that the wise person will focus on the background—where the
secrets lie.
Midrash screams out, “I am not what I appear to be!”
Yet midrash, too, must have its boundaries. Yes, the sages speak
in riddles. But they also often speak in normal, everyday language, telling you
anecdotes that mean just what they mean. To complicate matters, sometimes they
do both at once—telling you an anecdote through riddles. How are we supposed to
know? And once we do know, how do we unlock the code?
When it comes to code, Maimonides was the great codifier. Not
only did he codify Jewish law, he provided keys to decode midrash. But not
before he first categorized three groups of those who read midrashic tales:
Fools, bigger fools, and a handful of intelligent people.
As you might expect, the fools comprise the largest group. They
are those who
accept the teachings of the sages in their simple literal sense,
and do not think that these teachings contain any hidden meaning at all. They
believe that all sorts of impossible things must be.
Maimonides characterizes the members of this group as people “poor
in knowledge.” He doesn’t show much sympathy for this form of poverty:
In their very effort to honor and to exalt the sages, they sin
in accordance with their own meager understanding, and actually humiliate
themselves. G‑d says, “This
nation is a wise and understanding people.” But this group expounds the
teachings of the sages in a way that, when the other peoples hear them, they
say that this little people is foolish and ignoble.
The second group is also quite large, and they also take these
stories literally. But they earn yet greater disapproval from Maimonides,
because
they believe that the sages intended nothing else than what may
be learned from their literal interpretation. Inevitably, they ultimately
declare the sages to be fools, hold them up to contempt, and slander what does
not deserve to be slandered. They imagine that their own intelligence is of a
higher order than that of the sages, and that the sages were simpletons who
suffered from inferior intelligence.
Maimonides refers to this group as even more boorish and foolish
than the first group. He goes so far as to call them accursed, since they
attempt to “refute men of established wisdom and greatness.”
Then there’s the third group, which Maimonides says is small in
number. It consists of people who ponder the words of the sages and detect that
there is something deep going on here:
They realize that the sages did not speak nonsense, and it is
clear to them that the words of the sages contain both an obvious and a hidden
meaning. Thus, whenever the sages spoke of things that seem impossible, they
were employing the style of riddle and parable, which is the method of truly
great thinkers. Why do they do this? Because they are dealing with supernal
matters which can be expressed only in riddles and analogies.
Maimonides obviously approves of this Some things become
apparent only when hidden, because then the wise person must dig deeper, and
the toil itself makes him fit to receive these truths.third group. The wisdom
the sages are intending to transmit can be transmitted only through
concealment. Some things become apparent only when hidden, because then the
wise person must dig deeper, and the toil itself makes him fit to receive these
truths.
Maimonides even embarked on an ambitious project to explain the
allegorical meanings behind all these midrashic stories.6 Yet he had to abandon
the project, as he found himself in an irresolvable bind.
The work, he later wrote, placed before him one of two choices:
Reveal in simple language that which was never meant for the simple people, and
which they will certainly misunderstand and abuse. Or, stick to the path of the
sages and clothe the wisdom inherent in these stories in other clothing and
parables—which would not solve anything, only “replacing one parable with
another.”7
His son, Rabbi Avraham, himself began such a project, providing
a framework for the study of aggadah within his father’s approach. But, as he
admits, it was not commensurate to the breadth and depth his father had
originally intended.
Nevertheless, Maimonides did provide many keys and clues for
those bright enough to do their own decoding. In his Guide For the Perplexed he
provided a kind of “manual for abstraction,” listing the broader import of many
key words, and taking us on a tour of his incisive approach to abstract ideas
from their concrete metaphor.
Many of the interpretations and much of the philosophy of the
Guide met with fierce controversy and opposition, but the approach that
Maimonides taught to us has proven invaluable—not only in the aggadah and
philosophy departments, but in the legal department of Torah as well. Yet it
would wait four hundred years for Rabbi Yehudah Loewe, “the Maharal of Prague,”
to pick up the ball and run with it. And, when he did, he went much further than
Maimonides may have imagined.
Which is what we will be dealing with in the next installment.
Rabbi Tzvi Freeman, a senior editor at Chabad.org, also heads
our Ask The Rabbi team. He is the author of Bringing Heaven Down to Earth. To
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FOOTNOTES
1. See Israel Zinberg, A
History of Jewish Literature, translated and edited by Bernard Martin (Case
Western Reserve University, 1972), vol. 2, p. 110. This was one of the
principal reasons given by Rabbi Shlomo ben Aderet (Rashba) and his
cosignatories for their famous ban on studying philosophy before the age of 25.
See Teshuvot ha-Rashba 147.
2. Philosophers have a
name for this (very common) error: They call it “confusing levels of
abstraction.”
3. K. A. Kitchen, On the
Reliablity of the Old Testament (Grand Rapids and Cambridge: William B.
Eerdmans Publishing Company, 2003).
4. Yosef Haim Yerushalmi,
Zakhor: Jewish History and Jewish Memory (University of Washington Press,
1982).
5. Talmud, Bava Kamma
83b–84a.
6. He mentions this
project in his Commentary to the Mishnah, Sanhedrin, introduction to Perek
Chelek, chapter 4.
7. Guide for the
Perplexed, introduction to the first part.© Copyright 2013, all rights
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What Are You Needed For?
“You speak of all that you need. But you say nothing of what you
are needed for . . .”
By Yanki Tauber
And now Israel, what does G‑d ask of you .
. . (Deuteronomy 10:12)
Among the chassidim of Rabbi Schneur Zalman of Liadi was a
learned and wealthy man. An accomplished Torah scholar and chassidic thinker,
he served the Almighty devotedly and gave generously to charity. In his younger
years, this chassid had been a distinguished student in Rabbi Schneur Zalman’s
first cheder.1
But then it came to pass that this chassid lost his entire
fortune, G‑d forbid, and
went heavily into debt. Furthermore, he had several poorer relations to whom he
had promised to provide dowries and wedding expenses. Their marriage dates were
now approaching, and he saw no way in which he could make good on his promises.
Marriage arrangements had already been made for two of his own daughters, and
even here he would be unable to meet his obligations.
He came to see Rabbi Schneur Zalman in Liozna, and poured out
his heart with much weeping and with deep and genuine pain. If G‑d has chosen to afflict me with poverty, he said, I accept the
divine judgement. But how can I be reconciled with the fact that I cannot repay
my debts? That I am unable to keep my word concerning the marriages of my
relations and daughters? I had made these promises when I still had the means,
and thus, according to the Torah, I was fully justified in making them. But if
I fail to keep my word, it will be a terrible chillul Hashem.2 Why, wept the
chassid, is the Almighty punishing me so severely, by causing me to commit the
terrible sin of desecrating His holy name? I beg you, Rebbe, please intercede
on my behalf to arouse the heavenly mercy upon me, that I be able to meet my
obligations. Aside from this, I accept all that has been decreed. “Rebbe,” he
concluded, “I must give my relatives what I have promised! I must give my daughters
what I have promised!”
Rabbi Schneur Zalman sat with his head in his arms in a deep
state of deveikut (meditative attachment to G‑d). In this
manner he listened to the chassid’s tearful pleas. After a long while, Rabbi
Schneur Zalman lifted his head and said with great feeling: “You speak of all
that you need. But you say nothing of what you are needed for . . .”
Rabbi Schneur Zalman’s words pierced the innermost point of the
chassid’s heart, and he fell, full length, in a dead faint. The rebbe’s
servant, Reb Zalman, who stood in the doorway, called two chassidim who were in
the rebbe’s anteroom. Together they carried the chassid out of the rebbe’s
room, poured water over him, and finally managed to revive him.
When the chassid opened his eyes, he didn’t say anything to
anyone. He simply applied himself to the study of Torah and the service of
prayer with renewed life, and with such devotion and diligence that he forgot
all else. Although he spoke to no one and fasted every day, he was in a
perpetual state of joy.
On the second Shabbat of the chassid’s stay in Liozna, the Rebbe
spoke on the subject of tohu and tikkun. Tohu (“chaos”) is an earlier stage and
order of creation, in which the flow of G‑d’s
involvement and presence was so intense that the created reality was unable to
receive and digest it. The definitions of existence simply melted down before
this overwhelming dose of G‑dliness. In
the terminology of the Kabbalah, it was an existence of “much light and scant
containers.”
Then G‑d created our
present existence, the world of tikkun (“correction”). Here, the opposite is
true: we live in a world of “broad containers and little light.” Our world is
indeed a most formidable “container” which holds its own before the divine
light. It is a world which defines, limits and screens the infinite emanations
from its Creator. But as a result, ours is a dark world, a world which
conceals, shrouds and distorts the reality of G‑d.
The purpose of life, said Rabbi Schneur Zalman, is to bring
together the best of both worlds—to fill the broad containers of tikkun with
the immense light of tohu. This is achieved by serving the Almighty through
one’s involvement in the world. In the words of the prophet Isaiah, “He did not
create it for chaos; He formed it that it be settled.”3
On the following Monday, Rabbi Schneur Zalman summoned the
once-wealthy chassid, blessed him with success, and told him to return to his
home and business. In time the chassid regained his wealth, made good on his
debts and promises, married off his daughters, and resumed his philanthropy on
an even more generous level than before.
Yanki Tauber is content editor of Chabad.org.
FOOTNOTES
1. In 1773, Rabbi Schneur
Zalman established a special yeshivah in Liozna for the study of Chassidism.
The yeshivah was known as the chadarim, and was divided into three divisions:
cheder I, cheder II and cheder III. The highest level of study for the most
accomplished scholars was in cheder I: to be admitted, one had to show
proficiency in the entire Talmud, Midrash, the Ikarim and the Kuzari, and
fluency in the Zohar.
2. Literally, a
“desecration of G‑d’s name.” If
a Jew, especially a learned and G‑d-fearing Jew,
behaves in an unethical manner, this results in a chillul Hashem, a debasement
of what he represents in the eyes of the world. Chillul Hashem is considered
the gravest of sins.
3. Isaiah 45:18.©
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COMMEMORATING THIS WEEK
Maimonides
The most renowned of the Jewish medieval scholars, Maimonides
indelibly changed the face of Judaism. Read about his scholarship and
achievements, and the modern-day global campaign to incorporate his teachings
into every Jew’s daily study schedule.
Rabbi Moses ben Maimon, Talmudist, halachist, physician,
philosopher and communal leader, is one of the most important figures in the
history of Torah scholarship. Read about his scholarship and achievements, and
the modern-day global campaign to unite world Jewry through the study of his writings.
Follow these links for more on:
Maimonides: His Life and
Works
Daily Study of
Maimonides’ Works
A New Epoch in Torah
Learning
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COOKING
Sweet Brown Rice Kugel
It’s not quite a casserole, or a pudding . . .
By Miriam Szokovski
Kugel is one of those words that doesn’t really have a good
English translation. It's not quite a casserole, or a pudding, but those are
probably the closest descriptions.
Traditionally kugels were fried, and since most frying pans are
circular, the kugels came out round, which is where the name comes from. Kugel
means “round”/“circular.”
Nowadays, kugels are typically baked in square or rectangular
pans.
Some of the more traditional kugels include sweet noodle &
raisin kugel, Yerushalmi kugel (very thin noodles in a burnt caramel syrup),
salt and pepper noodle kugel and, of course, potato kugel.
But almost anything can become a kugel, and some of the less
traditional but increasingly common varieties are broccoli kugel, onion kugel,
rice kugel, cauliflower kugel and butternut squash kugel.
Probably the most “different” kugel I’ve ever eaten was a heart
of palm & tomato kugel.
Today I’m sharing my brown rice kugel recipe with you. It’s
similar to rice pudding, but a little more solid so you can cut it into pieces.
You’ll need short-grain brown rice, and water to cook it in.
Also orange juice (ideally, with pulp), eggs, sugar, oil, raisins, cinnamon and
vanilla.
Place brown rice and water in a strong pot. Cover the pot and
bring to a boil. As soon as it begins to boil, turn the flame down as low as it
goes and let it cook about 40–50 minutes until all the water is absorbed in the
rice. Do not open the pot or mix while the rice is cooking.
Put the raisins in a small bowl and cover with water. Let them
soak about 15–20 minutes.
In a large mixing bowl combine the eggs, sugar, oil, vanilla,
cinnamon and orange juice. When the rice and raisins are ready, add them in and
mix well.
Pour the batter into a greased 9″ × 13″ baking pan.
Bake at 350° F for 1½ to 2 hours, until firm and browned on top.
(As you can see below, the edges are much darker after it’s baked.)
Cut into pieces and serve warm.
Ingredients
1 cup short grain brown rice
2½ cups water
⅓ cup raisins, soaked
4 eggs
1 cup orange juice, with pulp
¾ cup sugar
⅓ cup oil
2 tsp. vanilla extract
¼ tsp. cinnamon
Directions
Place brown rice and water in a strong pot. Cover the pot and
bring to a boil. As soon as it begins to boil, turn the flame down as low as it
goes and let it cook about 40–50 minutes until all the water is absorbed in the
rice. Do not open the pot or mix while the rice is cooking.
Put the raisins in a small bowl and cover with water. Let them
soak about 15–20 minutes.
In a large mixing bowl combine the eggs, sugar, oil, vanilla,
cinnamon and orange juice. When the rice and raisins are ready, add them in and
mix well.
Pour the batter into a greased 9″ × 13″ baking pan.
Bake at 350° F for 1½ to 2 hours, until firm.
Serve warm.
For some people, kugel is one of those foods that brings back
old memories and strong nostalgia. What does kugel mean to you? Leave a comment
and share your thoughts—I’d love to hear.
Miriam Szokovski is the author of historical novel Exiled Down
Under, and a member of the Chabad.org editorial team. She enjoys tinkering with
recipes, and teaches cooking classes to young children. Miriam shares her love
of cooking, baking and food photography on Chabad.org’s food blog, Cook It
Kosher and in the N'shei Chabad Newsletter.© Copyright 2013, all rights
reserved.
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ART
My Bubby and Zaidy
I remember the real Jewish shtetls of Russia. This is my Zaidy
and Bubby near the little shtetl where I was born. Where are you now, my little
shtetl . . . ? Only in my dreams and my paintings . . .
By Chaim Leib Zernitsky
Artist’s Statement: I remember the real Jewish shtetls of
Russia. This is my Zaidy and Bubby near the little shtetl where I was born.
Where are you now, my little shtetl . . . ? Only in my dreams and my paintings
. . .
Chaim Leib (Leon) Zernitsky has created fine art and
illustrations for international magazines, book publishers and major corporations
for over 25 years. He has published over 30 books for children and young adults
and won numerous awards. Chaim Leib feels that creating Jewish art is an
important part of being a Jewish artist, and his paintings can be found in
private collections worldwide.© Copyright 2013, all rights reserved.
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NEWS
Students Gather Lots of Toys for Sick Children
The Rohr Chabad Center for Jewish Student Life at Binghamton
University has made a big difference this holiday season. For the fifth year in
a row, it held a toy drive to benefit sick children, this year donating more
than $11,000 in toys.
By Karen Schwartz, Chabad.edu
The display included a 7-foot dreidel filled with toys—“The
Giving Dreidel”—designed and built by local community members specifically for
the event. (Photos: Chabad of Binghamton /J. Weller)
The Rohr Chabad Center for Jewish Student Life at Binghamton
University has made a big difference this holiday season. For the fifth year in
a row, it held a toy drive to benefit sick children, this year donating more
than $11,000 in toys with the toys and monetary donations it raised as part of
its “light up a life” project.
Jason Babazadeh, a 20-year-old junior at Binghamton, heard about
the project through his fraternity, Sigma Alpha Epsilon, and got involved last
year. The fraternity brother who showed him the ropes had graduated, and so
Babazadeh stepped in, inviting a friend of his to work on the current project.
The Chabad toy drive is spearheaded with Sigma Alpha Epsilon
Fraternity and the Sigma Delta Tau sorority. More than 15 different clubs and
groups on campus also joined together as co-sponsors, uniting hundreds of
students together for this single cause.
Brainstorming began in the fall with three fraternity brothers,
two sorority sisters and a group of students involved with Chabad. They met
each week to discuss the drive, track its progress and spread the word. To do
so, they incorporated social media and put up a website to allow people to
create goals, setting up a virtual thermometer to track the amount of dollars
raised.
Some 15 students wound up heading the program, which also
involved the campus and the local community. The group collected toys of all
kinds, as well as donations used to pay for even more toys.
The gifts were stored until the day of the culminating event, at
which time the students transferred the stockpile of toys from various storage
spots to the event space. Vans then came to pick them up for delivery to
children with cancer in various New York hospitals.
The culminating event went off without a hitch last week in the
school’s East Union; it featured a performance by the Crosbys—a Binghamton
University a cappella group—and was topped off with donuts and coffee donated
by a local Starbucks. Also, students made “Get Well” cards that were to be
distributed to the children along with the toys.
As for those toys, the way they were presented proved to be a
conversation point in and of itself. They were displayed inside a 7-foot
dreidel—“The Giving Dreidel”—designed and built by local community members
specifically for the event. Projects in past years included an 11-foot menorah
made of LEGOs and a 9-foot menorah constructed out of donated toys.
The toys will be distributed through the New York-based Chai
Lifeline organization, and some of its representatives were on hand to address
participants of the drive.
Babazedeh said he was proud of the success of the campaign and
looks forward to the next one.
“I definitely plan on working on the toy drive next year,” he
said. “I think the most important aspect is just helping out the kids, and
letting them know that there are people who care and that people are thinking
of them.”
A Smile on a Face
Rabbi Levi Slonim is a second-generation rabbi working in the
area. His parents came to Binghamton 29 years ago at the behest of the Rebbe,
Rabbi Menachem M. Schneerson, of righteous memory.
He currently serves as the programming and development director of
the Rohr Chabad Center for Jewish Student Life at Binghamton University.
Bringing students together around Chanukah—like every holiday—is an important
part of his duties. In addition to a host of high-profile Chanukah events on
campus, including smaller parties off-campus and at dorm locations, as well as
a campus-wide menorah-distribution campaign, Slonim and a group of students hit
on the idea of creating a meaningful Chanukah experience specifically through
giving.
“The Rebbe always taught us, especially when it came to the
holidays, to make sure people have what they need,” he said. “And I think
people feel best about themselves and most fulfilled when they help make a
difference, when they are able to put a smile on someone else’s face.”
For Rachel Samuels, 20, working on the Chabad Toy Drive offered
a chance to meet new people and contribute to a worthwhile cause.
“It was by far one of the best experiences I’ve had in college,”
she said. Her role? She headed up the effort to buy toys and was thus involved
in the shopping, which took her on a number of visits to area stores.
“Last year, when I saw the van leave with all the toys, I was in
awe of what I saw and kept thinking about how happy those kids were going to
be,” explained Samuels. “That night, I emailed one of those spearheading the
event, saying that I wanted to get involved the next year.
“It was absolutely amazing.”© Copyright 2013, all rights
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More in News:
• ‘Strongest Girl in the World’ Lifts Spirits Along With Weights
(By Menachem Posner)
While Naomi Kutin, here with her father, Ed Kutin, has worked
hard to become a world-record-smashing powerlifter, she also volunteers to help
kids with special needs.
Twelve-year-old Naomi Kutin of Fair Lawn, N.J., has made quite a
name for herself as a world-record-smashing powerlifter, garnering accolades
like “supergirl” and “strongest girl in the world” in international headlines.
Yet the slight girl who recently celebrated her bat mitzvah has also gained a
reputation for a very different kind of lifting: raising spirits and funds for
the Friendship Circle of Bergen County, where she regularly volunteers to work
one-on-one with children who have special needs.
Naomi’s mother, Neshama, says that she and her husband, Ed, who
is a pro powerlifter with a number of national titles, began noticing that
Naomi was exceptionally strong when she was just 7. She would do push-ups with
barely any effort.
“We started her off bench-pressing just 14 pounds, showing her
how to use the correct form,” Neshama recalls. “Torah is very important in our
home, so we relate Torah lessons to how we lift weights. We tell the children
that if you really want something, you need to pray to G‑d for it, but you also need to do your part. Practice, pray, and
you will succeed.”
As Naomi began to compete nationally, she experienced a problem
that her father had encountered before her: Many powerlifting events are held
on Saturdays and Sundays, which presented a challenge to the Kutins, who
neither travel nor compete on Shabbat, which lasts from sundown on Friday to
Saturday evening.
Naomi says that often, she is given a special dispensation to
lift on Sundays instead of Saturday, which works fine except that most of the
Sunday competitors are large muscular men. “These guys lift like a million
pounds,” she says. “Sometimes, they look at me funny, but it’s okay.”
Despite the challenges, Naomi just claimed the world record
among all women under 97 pounds, squatting 235 pounds.
While she practices twice a week—a half-hour on Thursdays and up
to five hours on Sundays—Naomi still manages to balance a Jewish day-school
education that includes both secular and religious instruction, in addition to
basketball and other sports.
Naomi has set her sights on squatting 250 lbs this coming
February—breaking her own record for the fourth time. She says that she gains
inspiration and discipline from the Torah. “Just like you need to concentrate
to learn Torah and pray,” she insists, “you need to be fully focused on your
lifting and cannot be thinking about other things at the same time.”
Donations Tied to the Lift
The Kutin family first became involved with the Friendship
Circle through their youngest son, Ari, who was diagnosed early on with
high-functioning autism.
“Friendship Circle events gave Ari the opportunity to interact
with people without fear of rejection or misunderstanding,” relates Neshama.
“They also gave him a chance to see how some of his behaviors—like repetitive
motions—looked from the outside. But most importantly, Friendship Circle just
gave him a chance to be himself.”
Naomi’s older sister, Emily, volunteered with the Friendship
Circle all through junior high and high school, and Naomi saw the difference
the organization made for Ari. It was almost natural that she would follow
suit.
Zeesy Grossbaum, who co-directs the Friendship Circle together
with her husband, Rabbi Moshe Grossbaum, says Naomi showed an immediate
aptitude for working with kids with special needs.
“We are usually very careful with the seventh-graders, having
them interact only with the high-functioning children,” she explains. “But with
Naomi, I know I can match her up with the tougher kids as well.”
As Naomi’s bat mitzvah approached this past fall—and her
national and international titles piled up —she wanted to do something special
for the Friendship Circle.
With the help of her parents and the Grossbaums, she set up a
website where people could sponsor her lifting, promising to donate specific
amounts that corresponded to how many pounds she could lift. Through the
Facebook presence maintained by her parents—as well as announcements in her
synagogue, bracelets and even home-baked cookies—word got out, and pledges
started pouring in. By the time she turned 12 in October, she had raised
approximately $2,000 for kids with special needs.
Naomi shows no signs of slowing down her Friendship Circle
involvement. “It makes me feel like I am making a child happy,” she says, “like
we are one big happy family.”© Copyright 2013, all rights reserved.
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• App Works to Spread the Light (and the Contact Info) (By
Menachem Posner)
ChabadLink allows people to quickly and easily refer
acquaintances to Chabad rabbis or institutions with just a few taps on their
mobile devices.
Yosef Tiefenbrun, a student at the Central Chabad Yeshivah in
Brooklyn, N.Y., got something new around Chanukah time. He has a new web app to
connect people he meets, wherever he is, with Chabad rabbis and services,
wherever in the world they may be. Already, he says he has made six connections
this month and plans on making many more.
The app, ChabadLink, allows people to quickly and easily refer
acquaintances to Chabad rabbis or institutions with just a few taps on their
mobile devices.
“Our goal,” says Meir Simcha Kogan, managing director at
Chabad.org, which developed the mobile web app, “is that if you meet someone on
a plane or in the mall and you think they would benefit from connecting with
their local Chabad, you should be able to do so with ease.”
After inputting the potential connection’s basic contact
information, the users employ what Kogan calls a “revolutionary new search” to
locate the most appropriate Chabad representative or service through searching
by last name, location, college campus or organizational name. Once the
connection is made, both people receive an email message notifying them about
one another.
Tiefenbrun first heard about the app in a briefing before he
embarked on a road trip up the West Coast from San Diego, Calif., to Washington
state in a menorah-festooned RV as part of the #Sharethelights Chanukah
awareness campaign of the Jewish Youth Initiative.
“When I would meet Jewish students, I would just whip out my
smartphone and use the app to send both the student and the Chabad rabbi on
their campus each other’s contact info,” says Tiefenbrun.
Another aspect he found useful was the ability to track his
referrals, which allowed him to see in real time those who did connect.
The web app—available in eight languages—was born out of a close
partnership between Chabad.org and the Jewish Youth Initiative, a division of
Merkos Suite 302.
Its ease and utility allow someone not familiar with the vast
infrastructure of Chabad centers worldwide to find the right person for a
referral with minimal effort.
Its ease and utility allow someone not familiar with the vast
infrastructure of Chabad centers worldwide to find the right person for a
referral with minimal effort.
Its functionality is expected to be a boon to Chabad on Campus
shluchim (ambassadors), who can expect to receive referrals from students’
hometown Chabad representatives as they head off to college. Conversely, four
years later, they will be able to link their departing students with Chabad
representatives where those young people are headed.
“This is definitely an exciting tool that will streamline the
transition for my students as they leave university back to the real world,”
says Rabbi Levi Schectman of Chabad of Wesleyan in Middletown, Conn.
Geared for the wider public, the app is meant for use beyond
Chabad representatives. Its ease and utility allow someone not familiar with
the vast infrastructure of Chabad centers worldwide to find the right person
for a referral with minimal effort.
How do people use the app? They can go to
www.chabad.org/ChabadLink or easier to remember, www.chabadlink.org on their
smartphone or tablet.
“This is part of our broader vision,” explains Rabbi Moshe
Kotlarsky, vice chairman of Merkos L’Inyonei Chinuch, the educational arm of
Chabad-Lubavitch, “which is to ensure that every encounter with a young Jewish
person becomes a long-term relationship with Judaism and the Jewish people.
This app is a great step in that direction.”© Copyright 2013, all rights
reserved.
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