Wednesday, December 25, 2013

Chabad Magazine – Wednesday, 22 Tevet 5774 · 25 December 2013

Chabad Magazine – Wednesday, 22 Tevet 5774 · 25 December 2013
Editor's Note:
Dear Friend,
Egypt is on my mind this week. Reading the Torah portion of Va’eira transports us right back to Egypt, where the story of the Exodus unfolded over 3,000 years ago.
Interestingly, it was in Egypt, millennia after the Exodus, that Rabbi Moses ben Maimon, the great codifier and philosopher known as the Rambam, studied and taught Torah, philosophy, medicine and more. This Monday we marked the anniversary of his passing.
Then, on Friday, we mark the passing of another great leader and Torah teacher: Rabbi Schneur Zalman of Liadi.
You can perpetuate their legacies (and deepen your own Jewish experience) by studying their writings here and here. You can even sign up here to have a daily portion of Maimonides’ Code of Jewish Law and Rabbi Schneur Zalman’s Tanya delivered to your inbox every day.
Rochel Chein,
Responder for Ask the Rabbi @ Chabad.org
Daily Thought:
Understanding Wonder
That there are matters we don’t understand is obvious
—how could a finite mind,
bound within the confines of time and space,
fathom the infinite knowledge of its Creator?
The great wonder is that there are matters we can understand.
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This Week's Features:
Rabbi Schneur Zalman of Liadi (1745–1812)
Founder of Chabad
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A mystic, a communal activist, a philosopher, a halachic authority, a composer, a talmudist—Rabbi Schneur Zalman of Liadi was all of these. But he was primarily a spiritual guide, who created a practical path that allows anyone to approach divinity. Rabbi Schneur Zalman lived in an era of change and unrest on a global scale. Yet his life continues to inspire, and his works and teachings have long withstood the test of time.© Copyright 2013, all rights reserved.
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PARSHAH

Turning Up the Heat
The very concept of Egypt denotes limitation, a sense of entrapment, blockage and slavery. And we have a directive to escape this reality every day. We don’t need to physically live in the land of Egypt under Pharaoh’s rule to feel enslaved . . .
By Sarah Zadok
Tonight, before bed, I read about blood and frogs. I read about the spiritual nature of these divine plagues, and their message for the modern man or woman. I was feeling pleased with myself for having learned a bit of Torah before going to sleep. I felt I had accomplished a worthy intellectual pursuit that probably had some positive implications for my soul, too. Two points for me in the spirituality department. Check. Then I got up to brush my teeth. Except that when I stood up, I knocked over a full pitcher of water that was sitting next to me. In an instant, my socks were soaked and the rug was drenched. I was a cold, wet mess from the calves down.
And that’s when I began to internalize the lesson of the blood and frogs. Allow me to explain…
Mitzrayim is not just a place, but a state of being
We have a Torah imperative that says, “In every generation one must look upon himself as if he personally had gone out of Egypt” (Talmud, Pesachim 116b). The Hebrew language is saturated with depth and meaning. In Hebrew, the word for “Egypt” is Mitzrayim, and it comes from the word meitzar, “limitation.” It is related to the words tzar, “narrow,” and tzarah, “suffering.” Mitzrayim, in other words, is not just a place, but a state of being.
The very concept of Egypt denotes limitation, a sense of entrapment, blockage and slavery. And we have a directive to escape this reality every day. We don’t need to physically live in the land of Egypt under Pharaoh’s rule to feel enslaved.
We all have areas of our lives where we struggle with limitations that impede our spiritual growth. For some, the struggle may be over a cheeseburger or the impulse to drive to a rock concert on Shabbat. For others, it might be admitting when we are wrong, or offering to lend a hand to a friend when we really have other things we would rather be doing. Whatever guise our Mitzrayim takes, it creates a barrier to our spiritual growth and development.
Gd sent ten plagues to the land of Egypt. This week’s Torah portion begins with the first two: blood and frogs. The Lubavitcher Rebbe explains that these plagues serve as instructions to help us free ourselves from our own personal barriers and limitations—our own personal Egypt.
Gd turned the Nile into blood. Blood is described as the vitality (the nefesh) of a living thing. Blood is warm; and warmth, in general, is associated with things of a holy nature. Blood is very much connected with life.
Water, on the other hand, is cold and wet. Coolness, in general, is associated with impurity and death. If a living body becomes cold for too long, it is no longer alive. In some ways, water is the opposite of blood. Blood is warm and easily excitable, while the nature of water is generally cool and calm. Water can also be frozen and stop moving altogether, at which point it loses its vitality completely. The very concept of coldness opposes holiness. However, water is also necessary for life.
Torah is alive only when we allow it to heat us up
The same is true of Torah. In fact, our sages compare the Torah—our spiritual lifeline—to water. Like water, Torah is alive only when we allow it to heat us up. When we imbue our Jewish lives with vitality and enthusiasm, warmth and joy, then the Torah becomes a life-sustaining, living wellspring. But if we allow our Judaism to be routine and stagnant, it becomes like a block of ice: cold and lifeless.
I remember floating into synagogue one Friday night, dressed in white, the glow of Shabbat candles still alight in my eyes, totally “high” on Shabbat. I saw a friend of mine as I walked in, and I wished him a wholehearted, wide-smiled and soulful “Good Shabbos!” He just stared at me blankly and finally said, “What are you all fired up about? It’s just Shabbos. This happens every Friday night.” Talk about a buzzkill. I felt so deflated, as if there was something wrong with me for being so excited by Shabbat.
That’s the inherent lesson in the plague of blood. It’s like Gd is saying: “Wake up, people! Ivdu et Hashem be-simchah! Serve Gd with joy!” That’s what we’re supposed to do; it’s kind of a rule. We’re expected to have vitality in our spiritual lives. The truth is that in our path there will always be obstacles that will try to “cool us off” to our spiritual pursuits. But the plague of blood teaches us that in spite of the killjoys in our lives, we need to maintain heat and movement within ourselves.
Now for the frog lesson. There are two general types of critters: warm-blooded and cold-blooded. Frogs are the latter. Not only are they cold-blooded, but interestingly they are also water creatures.
The frogs infiltrated every part of Egypt, and the Torah tells us that they even jumped into the ovens. If they were everywhere, then one might assume that they were also in the ovens . . . Why does the Torah make a special point of telling us about the ovens?
The Talmud explains that it was in order to show us that the frogs martyred themselves for Gd’s cause. The Rebbe points out that the frogs went completely against their nature. They are cold-blooded creatures, and they entered flaming hot ovens. This demonstrates the level of their self-sacrifice. It’s as if the frogs were saying, “Hey, you Egyptians, you’re fired up about all the wrong stuff. Don’t serve idols—serve the One and Only Gd!” In essence, the frogs went into the ovens to “cool down” the passion for negative and forbidden behaviors (symbolized by the ovens).
I realized my good fortune of spilling the pitcher
When I stood up to brush my teeth after reading these insights into the Torah portion, I had done just that. I read about a historical event, thought it was interesting, gave myself a pat on the back and closed the book. But then I found myself drenched in water. And it was as if Gd was saying to me, “Wake up! Don’t just read it. Live it, absorb it, soak yourself in it.”
Once I realized my good fortune of spilling the pitcher, I did a little impromptu jig right there in the water, just to remind myself about the importance of having joy and enthusiasm in how I live my life as a Jew. My feet warmed right up . . . I imagine my soul did, too.
Sarah Zadok is a Jewish educator and lecturer, a childbirth professional and a freelance writer. She lives in the Golan Heights with her husband and five children.© Copyright 2013, all rights reserved.
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More in Parshah:
     • The Greatest Miracle of All (By Naftali Silberberg)
Miracles, miracles, and more miracles. That is the story of this week’s Torah portion. Sticks transforming into serpents; water turning into blood; hail pellets with a core of fire; dreadful plagues of frogs, lice, wild beasts, pestilence and boils.
“Fairy tales,” declares the skeptic. “Isn’t it so convenient that all these miracles happened more than three thousand years ago? I’ll believe it when I see it with my own eyes! Why didn’t Gd send ten plagues upon the Nazis? What’s with all the terrorists who blow up men, women and children? Did Gd perhaps forget how to make miracles?!”
The believing Jew, too, asks the same questions—albeit in a more respectful tone. Yes, he understands that Gd controls nature as well as the supernatural; but why did Gd choose to flip the switch, deciding to abandon the course of miracles and to run the world entirely through the laws of nature?
Why did Gd choose to abandon the course of miracles and to run the world entirely through the laws of nature?
The book of Exodus introduces us to the era of openly nature-defying miracles,1 an era which lasted roughly a millennium. The Scriptures are filled with stories of prophets and miracles; in fact, it seems that the laws of nature were temporarily defunct. This era ended with the destruction of the first Holy Temple. Afterward, there were a few brief glimpses of the supernatural—such as the miracle of Chanukah—but after a few centuries these too vanished. For the past two thousand years we live in a double exile: physically, we were banished from our homeland; spiritually, we cannot perceive the Gdly hand which creates and directs all of creation.2
The reason for the emergence and subsequent disappearance of miracles is linked to the purpose of our very existence. Life in the Garden of Eden was idyllic, because evil was not yet part of the human character. The fruit of the Tree of Knowledge imbued Adam and Eve with an intimate knowledge of physical and material desire. The moment they were expelled from the Garden is the moment when the story of the perpetual human struggle began: the struggle of choosing between the Gdly (good) or the opposite (egotism, hedonism, etc.). And actually, this is what Gd really wanted from the moment He considered the idea of creation: a free-choosing human being who would struggle with the evil and self-centeredness which are natural parts of his personality, and would triumph.
Miracles are comparable to training wheels. In the early years of our nationhood, Gd assisted us in our struggle by frequently and very openly interfering in the happenings of this world. A miracle opens the eyes to a higher truth, and motivates a person to want to connect to this higher reality through Torah and mitzvot. Ultimately, however, we need to mature. We need to be able to ride the bike with our own two wheels; we need to face life’s struggle with our own strengths. The messianic era is the consummation of our relationship with Gd, and to earn this privilege we have to prove that the relationship is real to us, so real that we maintain this relationship even in the absence of any revealed reciprocation from Gd.
We are greatest miracle of all: our ability to steadfastly remain loyal to Gd throughout two thousand years of temptation, despite the spiritual blackness which surrounds us.
Rabbi Naftali Silberberg is a writer, editor, and director of the curriculum department at the Rohr Jewish Learning Institute. Rabbi Silberberg resides in Brooklyn, NY, with his wife Chaya Mushka and their three children.
FOOTNOTES
1.In the book of Genesis there are many amazing stories—such as Sarah giving birth at the age of ninety, Abraham and a handful of men defeating the combined armies of four powerful kings, etc.—but no blatantly supernatural occurrences such as the splitting of the Red Sea or the transformation of water into blood.
2.In the Amidah prayer, we thank Gd for “Your miracles which are with us daily, and for Your continual wonders and beneficences.” However, this is a reference to the miracles which accompany us daily but are shrouded in nature. As the Talmud comments on the verse (Psalms 136:4) “He who does wonders alone”: “[Even] the beneficiary of the miracle does not recognize the miracle.”
Additionally, in every generation—until this very day—there are tzaddikim (righteous people) who, due to their connection to Gd, are capable of transcending nature and performing miracles, even miracles which are beyond the boundaries of nature. However, these miracles tend to be “localized,” affecting individuals, or at times a community. These cannot be compared to the biblical miracles, which were witnessed by entire nations.© Copyright 2013, all rights reserved.
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     • The Lowly Tasks (By Yitschak Meir Kagan)
Our sages tell us that the rod Moses used to bring the plagues upon the Egyptians was carved with the names of the six mothers of our people (Sarah, Rebecca, Rachel, Leah, Bilhah and Zilpah), the twelve tribes, the ten plagues, and the great name of Gd.
Certainly, the noble and lofty ideas and ideals represented by the matriarchs and the tribes of Israel are “worthy companions” for Gd’s name on Moses’ rod. But the lowly tasks of bringing frogs, lice and boils upon the Egyptians seem an incongruous “match” with the Almighty’s ineffable name—
—Until we call to mind the principle of Gd’s particular providence and watchfulness over every detail of the universe. Gd is concerned not only with lofty generalities, with the world as a whole or an entire species as a whole, but also with “lowly matters” (such as punishing the Egyptians) and with the smallest details.
Some individuals feel that their purpose in life is to revolutionize the world, to revamp society. It is not worthwhile to devote their superior talents to correcting “small matters.”
In particular, there are some rabbinical leaders who declare that their attention is devoted exclusively to matters of great import. In Torah study, they explore only the most esoteric and abstruse discussions. In the area of service of Gd, they ponder profound axioms of philosophy encompassing the entire Torah. In the field of communal affairs, they attempt to show how all of humanity’s ills could be remedied by application of the principles of justice. In the arena of worldly affairs, their sermons eloquently explain the need for global democracy; they comment on nuclear warfare, and stress the need for summit meetings of the world’s leaders.
The “simple” matters of Shabbat laws and Shabbat observance, keeping kosher, the laws of marital life or the details of blessings to be made over food do not befit their exalted status. Such “lowly tasks” are best left to the gabbai, the synagogue warden, or at best to the assistant rabbi, for the duty of a great rabbi is to address himself exclusively to matters of global nature, to attract attention with startling new statements and to make front-page news.
Let these rabbis content themselves with emulating their Creator! If the Almighty interests Himself and watches over even the smallest detail of the universe; if bringing lice and hail upon the Egyptians is not too “lowly” a task to be associated with Gd’s great name—then he too should give attention to the smallest detail. It is precisely in the “simple tasks,” teaching the Torah laws pertaining to day-to-day living, that Gd’s kingly presence finds expression.1
Rabbi Yitschak Meir Kagan was associate director of the Lubavitch Foundation in Michigan. An innovative educator and author, he compiled A Thought for the Week adapted from the works of the Lubavitcher Rebbe. Rabbi Kagan taught chassidic philosophy at various universities in Michigan, untill his tragic passing in a car accident in 2001.
From A Thought for the Week, reprinted with permission of Lubavitch of Michigan.
FOOTNOTES
1.   Based on Likkutei Sichot, vol. 6, p. 305.© Copyright 2013, all rights reserved.
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     • Va’eira in a Nutshell
Gd reveals Himself to Moses. Employing the “four expressions of redemption,” He promises to take out the Children of Israel from Egypt, deliver them from their enslavement, redeem them, and acquire them as His own chosen people at Mount Sinai; He will then bring them to the land He promised to the Patriarchs as their eternal heritage.
Moses and Aaron repeatedly come before Pharaoh to demand in the name of Gd, “Let My people go, so that they may serve Me in the wilderness.” Pharaoh repeatedly refuses. Aaron’s staff turns into a snake and swallows the magic sticks of the Egyptian sorcerers. Gd then sends a series of plagues upon the Egyptians.
The waters of the Nile turn to blood; swarms of frogs overrun the land; lice infest all men and beasts. Hordes of wild animals invade the cities; a pestilence kills the domestic animals; painful boils afflict the Egyptians. For the seventh plague, fire and ice combine to descend from the skies as a devastating hail. Still, “the heart of Pharaoh was hardened and he would not let the children of Israel go, as Gd had said to Moses.”© Copyright 2013, all rights reserved
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WOMEN
Parenting Advice From a Survivor
By the time she was four, Lily had survived and lived more lives than a person of a hundred and twenty.
By Elana Mizrahi
Sometimes I don’t know who helps whom more, the “healer” or the one who comes for “healing.”
Lily sat in front of me, her leg swollen, hot and red. I put my hands on it. All I did was touch it. Her reaction surprised me. She sighed, a good sigh, a tired sigh that one lets out when finally home after a long journey. “Why didn’t I come to you sooner?” she asked. “It feels better already.”
“But I didn’t do anything yet.”
“Of course you did: you are giving attention to it. Nobody does, and the little massage I can do to myself isn’t enough.”
As I worked to get the blood going and the energy and lymph flowing, Lily spoke. She spoke about the past. She spoke about the present. I She survived terror, hunger and diseasewas shocked to find out that the woman in front of me was a Holocaust survivor. Her mother bore her in the beginning of the war. She survived terror, hunger and disease. She survived the camps. By the time she was four, Lily had survived and lived more lives than a person of a hundred and twenty.
I massaged; Lily spoke. I listened; Lily taught. As Lily told me about her childhood, she taught me an important lesson. Lily was the eldest of three children. She was the tall one. She was the smart one. She was the strong one. She was the eldest. Lily kept repeating to me, over and over, “I always had to give in to the others. My mother told me, ‘You are the tallest, the smartest, the strongest. You are the oldest. You must give in to them.’” That meant Lily never got to go first. She never had a toy of her own. She was never right when it came to a quarrel with one of her siblings. And even if she was, it didn’t matter, because after all she was the oldest, and the oldest has to give in to the younger ones. She was the oldest, and the oldest always has to know better.
Suddenly, in the midst of her storytelling, Lily became quiet. And then she told me: “You have three children. Don’t make the oldest always give in to the younger ones. Don’t think that the eight-year-old knows better than the five-year-old. He doesn’t. Don’t expect them to play together and be friends if you treat them differently. Because if you do, you will turn them into enemies instead of friends.”
These were the words of Lily.
They were strong. They were straight. They were right.
How many times is the eldest playing with a ball when the toddler comes along and wants it? The eldest doesn’t give it to him—after all, he was playing with it. So the toddler starts to cry, and you say, “Can’t you just give him the ball?” Wasn’t it his ball? Why does he always have to give in to the toddler just because the toddler knows how to cry?
Or, you are in the park and everyone is hungry. You always give the middle one food first. Why? Because she’s thinner than the rest; because she cries more than the rest. She always gets first. Do you really They were strong. They were straight. They were right.think it is possible to measure hunger? Why do the other ones always get served second just because she’s thinner?
The examples from our lives go on and on. Lily is right. We see this in our holy Torah:
This is Aaron and Moses, to whom Gd said: “Take the children of Israel out of Egypt according to their legions.” They are the ones who spoke to Pharaoh, king of Egypt, to take the children of Israel out of the land of Egypt; they are Moses and Aaron. (Exodus 6:26–27)
On these verses, the famous commentator Rashi writes:
This is Aaron and Moses: Who are mentioned above, whom Yocheved bore to Amram—[these two] are [the same] Aaron and Moses “to whom Gd said,” etc. In some places [Scripture] places Aaron before Moses, and in other places it places Moses before Aaron, to tell us that they were equal.
They are Moses and Aaron: They remained in their mission and in their righteousness from beginning to end.
Even though they were both great, Moses was without a doubt the leader of the nation of Israel. Aaron was older than Moses, but Gd chose Moses because He saw that Moses was the most qualified one to be the leader of Israel. Moses’ mission in life was to lead Israel. Aaron had a different mission, and even though Moses worried about offending his older brother’s honor, Aaron wasn’t jealous. The Torah relates that Gd told Moses that Aaron “will see you and rejoice in his heart.”
I think that there was no jealousy and that they had such respect for each other because no one ever compared them to each other. Despite the fact that they had different missions and roles, they were given “equal significance.” Sometimes Aaron went first, and sometimes Moses went first.
As a parent, it’s so hard not to fall into patterns. You don’t even realize it, but if you take a step back for a moment, you might see how you always give one child first, or you always give one child more than the others. It could be the one who cries loudest, and you just want to quiet him. It could be that you do it to the one you most identify with. Or it could be to the one you identify with the least, and you are trying to make up for it by Sometimes Aaron went first, and sometimes Moses went firstovercompensating. Your intentions are good; you don’t even notice that you do it, but you do.
By the end of our session, Lily said that her leg started to feel better. I attribute part of her pain to exhaustion. Lily’s tired. She’s tired of always having to be the strongest and tallest. She’s tired of always having to give in. She’s tired of standing on her own. I squeeze her toes and massage the leg one more time before thanking her for sharing her stories with me.
The next time the five-year-old is jumping rope and the two-year-old comes along and wants her rope, I stop myself from saying, “Can’t you just give it to him a little bit?” Instead I tell him, “She was playing with it first.” I let him have a tantrum over it, and I pick him up, kiss him, and try to distract him with another toy. My five-year-old smiles at me with a look of gratitude.
Thank you, Lily, for your words of advice.
Originally from Northern California and a Stanford University graduate, Elana Mizrahi now lives in Jerusalem with her husband and children. She is a doula, massage therapist and writer. She also teaches Jewish marriage classes for brides.© Copyright 2013, all rights reserved.
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More in Women:
     • Learning to Face Rejection (By Menucha Chana Levin)
Two sweet-looking little girls, about four years old, are running along beside a playground, ponytails bobbing in the sunlight. They are clasping hands, a symbol of their friendship. Tagging along right behind them is another little girl, whose longing to join the duo is clear. She catches up to them, grabbing the free hand of one girl, who quickly shakes it off.
Instantly the two children turn on the third, one glaring furiously, the other making a nasty face. Neither says a word, but their message is clear, their rejection of the third child painfully obvious.
The two children turn on the third, glaring furiously
Bewildered, she stares at them, shocked by their cruel rebuff, uncomprehending sadness in her brown eyes. The two girls scamper off, still clutching each other’s hands, their smug silence louder than any scalding words they might have tossed at her.
Looking at the child’s dejected little face, I share her hurt. Though it happened decades ago, I still vividly remember the pain of rejection by my mean classmates, like a shard of glass in my heart.
Part of me wants to scoop up this little child and gently wipe away her painful tears.
“Those girls have a lot to learn about kindness,” I want to tell her. “They don’t appreciate how sweet you are. Soon you’ll find some real friends, much nicer girls than those.”
I realize this is just her first taste of the bitterness of rejection. Unfortunately, as she grows through her life’s journey, she will have to face many other painful moments of rejection.
When she sits there, anxiously waiting, and isn’t chosen for the softball team after all.
When she tries out for, but doesn’t get, a part in the school play, while her less-talented classmate is given a starring role.
When she receives a brief, polite letter from the college she was longing to attend, disappointingly turning her down.
Later, when the hoped-for engagement doesn't happen after all, though the two of them had so much in common and communicated so well, and she felt sure this time that he was the one. Her bubble of happiness bursting in her face, she is left devastated.
The job interview that went so smoothly—she handled the challenging questions easily, possessing all the required knowledge and experience—but in the end, she doesn’t get the position she knew would have been ideal for her career.
Yes, little girl, I can relate all too well. Like all writers, I have to face rejection on a regular basis, each time the story or I can relate all too wellarticle in which I invested so much time and effort turns out to be “not suitable” for the publication’s current needs. Yet I have come to realize over the years that achievement and acceptance are hard work, acknowledging there is more work to do before we are as polished as we need to be. I’ve become realistic that more learning and experience are often needed.
Rejection, though often painful, is a part of life, and we need to find a way to recoup and try again. Of course, it’s completely normal to feel upset after a disappointment. However, if you permit yourself to feel frustrated for too long, then you risk negatively affecting future events. You should view this experience as an opportunity to learn and approach the future with more resilience.
Sometimes you realize later on that the situation actually turned out to be for the best.
I recall a saying I once read: “After a rejection, you could get bitter. Or you could get better.”
Sweet little girl, still standing there in dazed puzzlement, what can I say to you now to comfort you?
You must remember there is Someone who will never reject you, no matter what happens. Your Father in heaven will never turn you away, and you can turn to Him always.
As King David, personally familiar with the bitterness of rejection, says in Psalms: “For my father and my mother have forsaken me, but Gd gathers me in.”
May He always watch over you, little girl, as you set forth on your own journey through life, with all of the challenges that lie in store.
Menucha Chana Levin is the author of two novels, The Youngest Bride and The Castle Builders, published by Israel Bookshop Publications.© Copyright 2013, all rights reserved.
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     • Solace During Divorce - Messages Through Tehillim (By Karen Rapaport)
It was the day I was to receive my get (Jewish divorce contract). I sat with a friend, waiting at the beit din (Jewish court) for the rabbis to call me. No words could describe my sadness, so silence had to suffice. I felt scattered, and I knew I needed support. But, like so many times in my life, I found that the only voice or words or comfort that could contain my reality were those of King David.
I had tried so hard to save my marriage. Like many marriages, the stories of my marriage were complex and rich. From the mundane to the profound, they covered the expansive ground that is intimacy. Can one really describe a marriage in I had tried so hard to save my marriageits entirety? I think not, but there are pieces and memories and themes that one can unravel with words. My marriage had the triumphs and the kindnesses and the incredible gifts that one can obtain only through the experience of marriage. But so, too, there were the challenges. Those revealed and those concealed. And then there was the pain. Intense pain.
When I began my marriage, reading tehillim (Psalms) was but an “exercise” that I knew was important. As someone somewhat new to observant Judaism, I knew there was much to learn. My knowledge base was shaky. Even with my deeply rooted “spiritual” proclivities, there was no way I could truly understand the meaning of all that I was being exposed to, often for the first time. I waded my way through—always curious, generally passionate. But my heart and mind were not always in tune.
As the profound losses, difficult moves, and complicated pregnancies appeared in my life, I often felt very alone . . . emotionally and physically alone. When I felt alone, I was motivated to read more Torah, do more mitzvahs and wrestle with my struggles. This was an attempt to make sense of my life through Gd’s lenses. It was an evolving process with a very personal outcome: Through this, the wisdom of Torah became more alive. King David’s words became more alive. I became more alive. I became a stronger, more resilient, more accepting person.
As I I became a stronger, more resilient, more accepting personbecame more alive, I found the universe filled with messages. In the past, I was often able to pick up on the feelings of people. I was able to hear what resonated, and assess situations at an intuitive level. But having the ability to listen to the messages of the universe did not necessarily mean that I was able to respond appropriately. Now I felt more in tune with Gd’s will and desire, which helped me help others. I felt more compassionate and authentic. I was more open to give of myself and give of my heart, in ways I could not do before.
The end of my marriage was a slow process. Like before, I felt alone. I knew I had to use all the spiritual tools and growth I had already learned through these years in order to survive and ultimately thrive. My tehillim became a central part of this goal. I took it upon myself to say the psalms that spoke to me. The words felt real. They felt vibrant. They felt alive, and they were mine.
Back to the day of my divorce. Throughout the hour-long journey to the beit din, King David’s words helped connect my mind and heart: “Gd is the portion of my inheritance and of my cup; You guide my fate. The portions that have fallen to me are in pleasant places; a beautiful inheritance is mine . . .” (Psalm 16).
After the first proceeding, I opened my purse and reached for my tehillim. I could not find it. I searched through every nook, every fold, and every cranny. I found my siddur (prayerbook), I found the notes that I had tucked in the tehillim, but not the tehillim itself. How I needed it so! Then I had a sudden revelation.
This was the tehillim I had received on my wedding day. It was a tehillim that had I searched through every nook, every fold, and every crannyseen many tears, and some happiness, too. I sat with the realization that I had just lost that very same tehillim right before my divorce.
A part of Psalm 32, a psalm I had come to know so intimately over the last few years, came to mind: “I will instruct you and teach you in the way in which you should go; I will signal you with the winking of my eye . . .”
The tehillim that had been so integral to my marriage, that had seen me through so much, had disappeared. The tehillim that had supported me, uplifted me and clarified for me was no longer there. Perhaps it had served its purpose. Perhaps I needed to buy a different tehillim. Perhaps I was embarking on a different kind of life. Perhaps a sweeter one.
Karen Wolfers Rapaport is a psychotherapist and workshop leader specializing in Narrative Therapy. A proud mother, she is blessed to live in Israel. She is inspired by people's stories. She is equally inspired by how they gain strength through them.© Copyright 2013, all rights reserved.
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The Zohar tells a parable of a beautiful woman who peeks out to her beloved through a small window. Those who love her, find her. Those who don’t, must have patience.
By Tzvi Freeman and Yehuda Shurpin
A Jewish soul does not live on literalisms alone. All of us need a healthy serving of allusions, parables and mysteries in our lives. That pretty much sums up our first installment of this series—the value of a mixed diet.
To explain the value of allusions, parables and riddles, we told a parable of the Zohar, a story of a beautiful woman who peeks out to her beloved through a small window. Those who love her, find her. Those who don’t, remain clueless. They don’t even notice she was there. So, too, those who love Torah will find the meaning they are meant to find.
For those of us somewhere in between—those who have some of the love to seek, but lack much of the wisdom to decipher the code—the Torah still has patience. We can work our way up through midrash and aggadah to eventually fathom Torah’s most hidden treasures. And we also have guidance from the wisest teachers, those who have recorded for us at least a small part of the code.
Does the Biblical Text Mean What It Says?
Let’s start with laying down some boundaries. When are we to take something literally, and when is it open to interpretation?
Maybe pork is really okay, because that’s a metaphor too. Where do we stop?
Once you realize the depth of meaning that lies within each verse, you might begin to read the entire Hebrew Bible as a set of metaphors. Perhaps Adam and Eve, Abraham and Sarah, Mount Sinai and Gd too are all just metaphor. Maybe pork is really okay, because that’s a metaphor too. Where do we stop?
Historically, we’ve been there. Before Maimonides’ time and after, preachers flourished who expounded the entire written Torah exclusively as metaphor. Cain and Abel were representative of the struggle between matter and form. Moses and Pharaoh were really the good inclination versus the evil inclination. All the mitzvahs were interpreted similarly. Tefillin became passé for many, because that too was a metaphor. Jewish men saw nothing wrong with taking a non-Jewish wife, because the prohibition against such was also a metaphor.1
That’s something like applying psychology to a problem in mathematics, or attempting a biopsy on quarks. You’re mixing up your departments.2
The Talmud provides us a simple principle: “A biblical text does not depart from its simple meaning.” The Talmud provides us a simple principle: “A biblical text does not depart from its simple meaning.”Learn your midrash; find the secret meaning—but leave the simple meaning intact. Adam, Eve, Abraham and Sarah are all real people; Moses really did split the Sea of Reeds; and we all heard the voice of Gd at Mount Sinai. Pork is off limits. Because that’s what it says. The first department, with any text of the Hebrew Bible, is the simple meaning.
That the text literally means what it says should be eminently clear from both the context and content of the text. The context of most of the Hebrew Bible is unmistakable: Real-life narrative with a lesson.
That it’s about real life is blindingly apparent from its concern with questions that only a nudnik would ask about a parable or a legend: Just how many people were there? Exactly how many died in the plague, and how many were left after? What were their names and parents’ names? What was the name of the place where it happened? What were the sizes, shapes and weights of the things they made?
There are no anachronisms. As the granddaddy of Egyptian chronology, K. A. Kitchen, points out,3 Joseph is sold for 20 silver pieces. A review of ancient Near Eastern documents demonstrates that this was just the price for which slaves were sold in those days (see How Much Can I Get For My Brother?). By the times of Moses, slaves were already selling at an average of 30 silver pieces, and by the times of the kings of Israel the price had reached 50 silver pieces. The narrative here is clearly concerned with providing true-to-life details.
Moses’s mother was his father’s aunt—a marriage that became forbidden in his own time. Certainly, a legend-narrative would modify that information. But the Hebrew Bible is concerned with the details, however inconvenient they may be.
The Tabernacle is a structure that could have been built only in the particular era in which it was built. Every detail is provided and counted. It’s difficult to imagine why a myth-teller would iterate such detail. There’s nothing grandiose or particularly wondrous about the structure—far larger structures were built by the nations surrounding the Israelites. Again, the concern here is to tell the story right, as it happened.
And it’s a very linear story, which relies heavily on the sequence of events. The sale of Joseph, for example, can be understood only within the context of Gd’s covenant to Abraham, in which he was foretold the descent of his children to a foreign land and their subsequent oppression there. The Exodus must be understood in the context of the stories of both Joseph and Abraham. And so it continues with every story until Ezra and Nehemiah, each building accumulatively upon the events that have unfolded thus far. It may not be a history as we understood such today—it is still principally concerned with the lessons and morals to be learned. But it certainly does not have the flavor of parable in any sense or form. It’s screaming loud and clear, “First get the story straight; then you can look deeper.”
In a much-acclaimed lecture and essay,4 Yosef Yerushalmi pointed out that the Hebrew Bible is the very first history of a people, as opposed to a collection of legends. It is the oldest story we have that was written in a linear, phonetic alphabet, as opposed to nonlinear, representational glyphs—and so, the first that represents a linear, sequence-oriented mind. It is literature in the truest sense of the word: concerned with everything that oratory and pictographs are permitted to ignore, sticking to details, and getting the facts straight.
For almost thirty years, the Rebbe, Rabbi Menachem M. Schneerson, performed frequent public surgery on Rashi’s commentary to the Five Books of Moses. He revealed a wealth of profound meaning, hidden secrets and practical lessons ripe for the picking if you would look between the lines. But all this only after first laying out as simply as possible what exactly Rashi meant to the five-year-old who just wants to know what the text is saying. And that usually took up most of the lecture—sometimes almost the whole thing.
Simple Rules for Simple Meaning
And yet, there’s a crucial caveat: Simple meaning is not synonymous with literal meaning.
If I tell you I’m going to take a bath, that doesn’t mean I’ll be ripping out the plumbing and carrying the tub somewhere.
This is true with all human language. If I tell you I’m going to take a bath, that doesn’t mean I’ll be ripping out the plumbing and carrying the tub somewhere. If I tell you, “We gave the other team a beating!” don’t expect to find them bruised and bloody in the emergency ward. A dictionary does not a language make. There are idioms of speech.
So too, “an eye for an eye” is not talking about eyeballs—that’s an idiom of speech that refers to equitable monetary compensation.5 Gd is real, but His hand is not a hand like your hand.
How do we know? What are the factors that determine what is literal and what is figurative? The first, simplest and best answer to that question was provided by Rabbi Saadia Gaon of 10th-century Baghdad.
Rabbi Saadia was a great believer in the power of reason, but also a strong traditionalist. He wrote what is generally considered the first systematic guide to Jewish beliefs, The Book of Doctrines and Beliefs.
In his time there were those who disputed the traditional literal interpretation of Ezekiel 37:5, a passage that describes the resurrection of the dead souls of Israel in a time to come. When the Mishnah lists those who have forfeited their share in the world to come, it includes those who deny the literalness of this prophecy. But these people argued that a literal reading is irrational and unnecessary, and read it as a metaphor for the resurrection of the spirit of the nation.
R. Saadia first countered that once you’ve accepted that the Creator created everything to begin with, resurrection is a perfectly rational belief. Why can’t the Creator recreate that which He has already created? But then he also argues that in this case the literal interpretation of the text is the most elegant.
To make that last point, R. Saadia found it necessary to provide some ground rules for literal interpretation. When do we read a text literally, and when does it demand a figurative interpretation? After all, there are plenty of instances where the traditional interpretation veers from the literal meaning of the words.
Ingeniously, R. Saadia does this with only four simple principles. Here is a loose translation of that passage:
It is a well-known first principle that anything found in scripture is to be understood according to its simple meaning, with the exception of those cases where such is impossible, due to one of four possible causes:
Our perceived reality dismisses it.
An example would be the verse, “And Adam called his wife Chavah, because she was the mother of all life.”
Now, we see that the ox and the lion are not born from a human woman. So we know that these words refer not to all living beings, but only to human life.
Our sense of reason dismisses it.
For example, the verse, “For Gd, your Gd, is a consuming fire, a Gd of vengeance.”
Now, fire is a creation, and it requires some sort of material to burn. At times it is extinguished. Our sense of reason cannot accept that Gd could be such. So, we are forced to say that there is some idea hidden within the usage of fire to describe Gd’s vengeance. Indeed, there is a verse, “For in the fire of My vengeance the entire earth will be consumed.”
Another verse explicitly negates it. In such a case, we must provide a resolution that is not explicitly stated.
For example, one verse says, “Do not test Gd your Gd, as you tested Him at Massah.” Yet another verse says, “Please test me in this, says Gd, the Gd of Hosts: If I will not open for you the portals of heaven . . .”
The resolution that arises from between the two verses is that we should not test Gd to determine whether He is capable or not, like those about whom it was said, “They tested Gd in their hearts, asking food for themselves, and they spoke about Gd, saying, ‘Is Gd capable of setting a table in the desert?” It is in reference to those people that it is said, “as you tested Him at Massah.”
But when a person tests his own worth to Gd, to know whether he is fit for a wondrous sign or not, as Gideon asked, “I will test just this time with the fleece.” or as Hezekiah asked, or others like them—this is permissible.
We have a tradition that compromises the text in some way. In this case, we must reinterpret the text to fit the authentic tradition.
For example, we have been told that corporal punishment consists of no more than thirty-nine lashes. Yet the verse says, “You shall strike him forty lashes.”
In this case, we understand that the verse really means thirty-nine, only that it has rounded off the number—just as it has done in another verse: “As the number of days that you toured the land, which were forty days, so you will wander one year for each day, forty years . . .”—even though there were only thirty-nine, since the first year was not included in that punishment.
Following this, R. Saadia goes on to demonstrate that none of these conditions apply to the verses describing the resurrection of the dead, which therefore must be taken literally.
The Book Maimonides Never Wrote
Midrash, in many ways, is the opposite of peshat. Midrash screams out, “I am not what I appear to be!” Midrash purposely sets the foreground fuzzy so that the wise person will focus on the background—where the secrets lie.
Midrash screams out, “I am not what I appear to be!”
Yet midrash, too, must have its boundaries. Yes, the sages speak in riddles. But they also often speak in normal, everyday language, telling you anecdotes that mean just what they mean. To complicate matters, sometimes they do both at once—telling you an anecdote through riddles. How are we supposed to know? And once we do know, how do we unlock the code?
When it comes to code, Maimonides was the great codifier. Not only did he codify Jewish law, he provided keys to decode midrash. But not before he first categorized three groups of those who read midrashic tales: Fools, bigger fools, and a handful of intelligent people.
As you might expect, the fools comprise the largest group. They are those who
accept the teachings of the sages in their simple literal sense, and do not think that these teachings contain any hidden meaning at all. They believe that all sorts of impossible things must be.
Maimonides characterizes the members of this group as people “poor in knowledge.” He doesn’t show much sympathy for this form of poverty:
In their very effort to honor and to exalt the sages, they sin in accordance with their own meager understanding, and actually humiliate themselves. Gd says, “This nation is a wise and understanding people.” But this group expounds the teachings of the sages in a way that, when the other peoples hear them, they say that this little people is foolish and ignoble.
The second group is also quite large, and they also take these stories literally. But they earn yet greater disapproval from Maimonides, because
they believe that the sages intended nothing else than what may be learned from their literal interpretation. Inevitably, they ultimately declare the sages to be fools, hold them up to contempt, and slander what does not deserve to be slandered. They imagine that their own intelligence is of a higher order than that of the sages, and that the sages were simpletons who suffered from inferior intelligence.
Maimonides refers to this group as even more boorish and foolish than the first group. He goes so far as to call them accursed, since they attempt to “refute men of established wisdom and greatness.”
Then there’s the third group, which Maimonides says is small in number. It consists of people who ponder the words of the sages and detect that there is something deep going on here:
They realize that the sages did not speak nonsense, and it is clear to them that the words of the sages contain both an obvious and a hidden meaning. Thus, whenever the sages spoke of things that seem impossible, they were employing the style of riddle and parable, which is the method of truly great thinkers. Why do they do this? Because they are dealing with supernal matters which can be expressed only in riddles and analogies.
Maimonides obviously approves of this Some things become apparent only when hidden, because then the wise person must dig deeper, and the toil itself makes him fit to receive these truths.third group. The wisdom the sages are intending to transmit can be transmitted only through concealment. Some things become apparent only when hidden, because then the wise person must dig deeper, and the toil itself makes him fit to receive these truths.
Maimonides even embarked on an ambitious project to explain the allegorical meanings behind all these midrashic stories.6 Yet he had to abandon the project, as he found himself in an irresolvable bind.
The work, he later wrote, placed before him one of two choices: Reveal in simple language that which was never meant for the simple people, and which they will certainly misunderstand and abuse. Or, stick to the path of the sages and clothe the wisdom inherent in these stories in other clothing and parables—which would not solve anything, only “replacing one parable with another.”7
His son, Rabbi Avraham, himself began such a project, providing a framework for the study of aggadah within his father’s approach. But, as he admits, it was not commensurate to the breadth and depth his father had originally intended.
Nevertheless, Maimonides did provide many keys and clues for those bright enough to do their own decoding. In his Guide For the Perplexed he provided a kind of “manual for abstraction,” listing the broader import of many key words, and taking us on a tour of his incisive approach to abstract ideas from their concrete metaphor.
Many of the interpretations and much of the philosophy of the Guide met with fierce controversy and opposition, but the approach that Maimonides taught to us has proven invaluable—not only in the aggadah and philosophy departments, but in the legal department of Torah as well. Yet it would wait four hundred years for Rabbi Yehudah Loewe, “the Maharal of Prague,” to pick up the ball and run with it. And, when he did, he went much further than Maimonides may have imagined.
Which is what we will be dealing with in the next installment.
Rabbi Tzvi Freeman, a senior editor at Chabad.org, also heads our Ask The Rabbi team. He is the author of Bringing Heaven Down to Earth. To subscribe to regular updates of Rabbi Freeman's writing, visit Freeman Files subscription.
Rabbi Yehuda Shurpin responds to questions for Chabad.org's Ask the Rabbi service.
Chaim Leib (Leon) Zernitsky has created fine art and illustrations for international magazines, book publishers and major corporations for over 25 years. He has published over 30 books for children and young adults and won numerous awards. Chaim Leib feels that creating Jewish art is an important part of being a Jewish artist, and his paintings can be found in private collections worldwide.
FOOTNOTES
1.   See Israel Zinberg, A History of Jewish Literature, translated and edited by Bernard Martin (Case Western Reserve University, 1972), vol. 2, p. 110. This was one of the principal reasons given by Rabbi Shlomo ben Aderet (Rashba) and his cosignatories for their famous ban on studying philosophy before the age of 25. See Teshuvot ha-Rashba 147.
2.   Philosophers have a name for this (very common) error: They call it “confusing levels of abstraction.”
3.   K. A. Kitchen, On the Reliablity of the Old Testament (Grand Rapids and Cambridge: William B. Eerdmans Publishing Company, 2003).
4.   Yosef Haim Yerushalmi, Zakhor: Jewish History and Jewish Memory (University of Washington Press, 1982).
5.   Talmud, Bava Kamma 83b–84a.
6.   He mentions this project in his Commentary to the Mishnah, Sanhedrin, introduction to Perek Chelek, chapter 4.
7.   Guide for the Perplexed, introduction to the first part.© Copyright 2013, all rights reserved.
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     • Bar Mitzvah Myths & Facts (By Tzvi Freeman)
Bar Mitzvah
Myth: A bar mitzvah is an event.
Fact: A bar mitzvah is a person.
Myth: To become bar mitzvah, you must be called to the Torah and make a big party.
Fact: To become bar mitzvah, you must reach the age of thirteen.
The custom of making a feast is very old, but varies from community to community. In Jerusalem, the custom was to make a feast on the day the boy first put on tefillin, several months before he became thirteen. This day was called yom ha-tefillin. The custom of most Sephardic and Oriental Jews is similar.
Myth: It is a custom since Moses that the bar mitzvah boy reads the entire Torah reading in public.
Fact: The tradition that the boy is called to the Torah is a universal custom that is mentioned in the ancient Midrash. Having the boy perform the entire reading is a recent custom that seems to have arisen in 19th-century Germany.
Myth: Bar mitzvah training consists of at least one year learning how to read the Torah.
Fact: Bar mitzvah training consists of thirteen years of learning how to do mitzvahs, and why. And it continues on from there for the rest of life.
Myth: The idea that a boy becomes a man at thirteen is a holdover from agrarian times.
Fact: Establishing adulthood at thirteen is progressive to this day. Thirteen is when a boy begins to develop his own mind. The reason boys are generally considered men at around eighteen is because that is the age they can carry arms and go to war. The Jewish nation is based not on the power of battle, but on the power of the mind.
The Mitzvah of Tefillin
Myth: Wearing tefillin is a custom of Orthodox Jews.
Fact: Tefillin is something all Jews have done since the time of Moses. Tefillin have been found in archeological digs from early Roman times, closely resembling those of today. Under the influence of 18th-century European rationalism, the early fathers of the Reform movement rejected this practice. Today, as the social sciences have brought us an appreciation of the value of ritual in human development, tefillin are making a strong comeback.
Myth: Tefillin need to be worn only on the day of bar mitzvah.
Fact: Every morning, a Jew says the Shema Yisrael. Tefillin are to be worn at least at that time, excluding Shabbat and Yom Tov.
Myth: You have to go to synagogue to wear tefillin.
Fact: It is best to make yourself part of the community’s prayers. If this is not possible, tefillin can be worn in the convenience of your home, at your office, or in any available corner—as long as it is daytime.
Myth: A person shouldn’t put on tefillin until he understands what it is all about.
Fact: The best way to understand what tefillin are all about is by putting them on.
Myth: How the scrolls are written doesn’t really count.
Fact: One small error in the writing of a single letter can render the tefillin invalid. Furthermore, while it is true that tefillin are worn as a mitzvah and not as amulets, it is an accepted belief (explained in the Kabbalah) that the tefillin a person wears have an effect on his life and that of his family. Finely written scrolls inside tefillin made with care are channels for blessing and all good things.
Myth: Tefillin are the same no matter what the price.
Fact: Many tefillin sold in gift shops are often no more than fair simulations. Tefillin must be purchased from a reliable source, who can assure you that they have been checked by someone Gd-fearing and competent in halachah. If someone offers you tefillin at a low price, some questions need to be asked.
Myth: Small tefillin are better.
Fact: Few scribes today are capable of writing small scrolls properly. Often, the scrolls inside small tefillin are well below the acceptable standard for kosher tefillin. Nevertheless, if a boy has small arms, it may be better to use tefillin that aren’t too large to stay in place.
Myth: Tefillin last many generations, as long as they are protected from the elements.
Fact: The scrolls inside the tefillin often decay with age, especially when stored without use for an extended period. They should be checked twice every seven years by a competent scribe.© Copyright 2013, all rights reserved
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STORY
What Are You Needed For?
“You speak of all that you need. But you say nothing of what you are needed for . . .”
By Yanki Tauber
And now Israel, what does Gd ask of you . . . (Deuteronomy 10:12)
Among the chassidim of Rabbi Schneur Zalman of Liadi was a learned and wealthy man. An accomplished Torah scholar and chassidic thinker, he served the Almighty devotedly and gave generously to charity. In his younger years, this chassid had been a distinguished student in Rabbi Schneur Zalman’s first cheder.1
But then it came to pass that this chassid lost his entire fortune, Gd forbid, and went heavily into debt. Furthermore, he had several poorer relations to whom he had promised to provide dowries and wedding expenses. Their marriage dates were now approaching, and he saw no way in which he could make good on his promises. Marriage arrangements had already been made for two of his own daughters, and even here he would be unable to meet his obligations.
He came to see Rabbi Schneur Zalman in Liozna, and poured out his heart with much weeping and with deep and genuine pain. If Gd has chosen to afflict me with poverty, he said, I accept the divine judgement. But how can I be reconciled with the fact that I cannot repay my debts? That I am unable to keep my word concerning the marriages of my relations and daughters? I had made these promises when I still had the means, and thus, according to the Torah, I was fully justified in making them. But if I fail to keep my word, it will be a terrible chillul Hashem.2 Why, wept the chassid, is the Almighty punishing me so severely, by causing me to commit the terrible sin of desecrating His holy name? I beg you, Rebbe, please intercede on my behalf to arouse the heavenly mercy upon me, that I be able to meet my obligations. Aside from this, I accept all that has been decreed. “Rebbe,” he concluded, “I must give my relatives what I have promised! I must give my daughters what I have promised!”
Rabbi Schneur Zalman sat with his head in his arms in a deep state of deveikut (meditative attachment to Gd). In this manner he listened to the chassid’s tearful pleas. After a long while, Rabbi Schneur Zalman lifted his head and said with great feeling: “You speak of all that you need. But you say nothing of what you are needed for . . .”
Rabbi Schneur Zalman’s words pierced the innermost point of the chassid’s heart, and he fell, full length, in a dead faint. The rebbe’s servant, Reb Zalman, who stood in the doorway, called two chassidim who were in the rebbe’s anteroom. Together they carried the chassid out of the rebbe’s room, poured water over him, and finally managed to revive him.
When the chassid opened his eyes, he didn’t say anything to anyone. He simply applied himself to the study of Torah and the service of prayer with renewed life, and with such devotion and diligence that he forgot all else. Although he spoke to no one and fasted every day, he was in a perpetual state of joy.
On the second Shabbat of the chassid’s stay in Liozna, the Rebbe spoke on the subject of tohu and tikkun. Tohu (“chaos”) is an earlier stage and order of creation, in which the flow of Gd’s involvement and presence was so intense that the created reality was unable to receive and digest it. The definitions of existence simply melted down before this overwhelming dose of Gdliness. In the terminology of the Kabbalah, it was an existence of “much light and scant containers.”
Then Gd created our present existence, the world of tikkun (“correction”). Here, the opposite is true: we live in a world of “broad containers and little light.” Our world is indeed a most formidable “container” which holds its own before the divine light. It is a world which defines, limits and screens the infinite emanations from its Creator. But as a result, ours is a dark world, a world which conceals, shrouds and distorts the reality of Gd.
The purpose of life, said Rabbi Schneur Zalman, is to bring together the best of both worlds—to fill the broad containers of tikkun with the immense light of tohu. This is achieved by serving the Almighty through one’s involvement in the world. In the words of the prophet Isaiah, “He did not create it for chaos; He formed it that it be settled.”3
On the following Monday, Rabbi Schneur Zalman summoned the once-wealthy chassid, blessed him with success, and told him to return to his home and business. In time the chassid regained his wealth, made good on his debts and promises, married off his daughters, and resumed his philanthropy on an even more generous level than before.
Yanki Tauber is content editor of Chabad.org.
FOOTNOTES
1.   In 1773, Rabbi Schneur Zalman established a special yeshivah in Liozna for the study of Chassidism. The yeshivah was known as the chadarim, and was divided into three divisions: cheder I, cheder II and cheder III. The highest level of study for the most accomplished scholars was in cheder I: to be admitted, one had to show proficiency in the entire Talmud, Midrash, the Ikarim and the Kuzari, and fluency in the Zohar.
2.   Literally, a “desecration of Gd’s name.” If a Jew, especially a learned and Gd-fearing Jew, behaves in an unethical manner, this results in a chillul Hashem, a debasement of what he represents in the eyes of the world. Chillul Hashem is considered the gravest of sins.
3.   Isaiah 45:18.© Copyright 2013, all rights reserved.
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COOKING
Sweet Brown Rice Kugel
It’s not quite a casserole, or a pudding . . .
By Miriam Szokovski
Kugel is one of those words that doesn’t really have a good English translation. It's not quite a casserole, or a pudding, but those are probably the closest descriptions.
Traditionally kugels were fried, and since most frying pans are circular, the kugels came out round, which is where the name comes from. Kugel means “round”/“circular.”
Nowadays, kugels are typically baked in square or rectangular pans.
Some of the more traditional kugels include sweet noodle & raisin kugel, Yerushalmi kugel (very thin noodles in a burnt caramel syrup), salt and pepper noodle kugel and, of course, potato kugel.
But almost anything can become a kugel, and some of the less traditional but increasingly common varieties are broccoli kugel, onion kugel, rice kugel, cauliflower kugel and butternut squash kugel.
Probably the most “different” kugel I’ve ever eaten was a heart of palm & tomato kugel.
Today I’m sharing my brown rice kugel recipe with you. It’s similar to rice pudding, but a little more solid so you can cut it into pieces.
You’ll need short-grain brown rice, and water to cook it in. Also orange juice (ideally, with pulp), eggs, sugar, oil, raisins, cinnamon and vanilla.
Place brown rice and water in a strong pot. Cover the pot and bring to a boil. As soon as it begins to boil, turn the flame down as low as it goes and let it cook about 40–50 minutes until all the water is absorbed in the rice. Do not open the pot or mix while the rice is cooking.
Put the raisins in a small bowl and cover with water. Let them soak about 15–20 minutes.
In a large mixing bowl combine the eggs, sugar, oil, vanilla, cinnamon and orange juice. When the rice and raisins are ready, add them in and mix well.
Pour the batter into a greased 9″ × 13″ baking pan.
Bake at 350° F for 1½ to 2 hours, until firm and browned on top. (As you can see below, the edges are much darker after it’s baked.)
Cut into pieces and serve warm.
Ingredients
1 cup short grain brown rice
2½ cups water
⅓ cup raisins, soaked
4 eggs
1 cup orange juice, with pulp
¾ cup sugar
⅓ cup oil
2 tsp. vanilla extract
¼ tsp. cinnamon
Directions
Place brown rice and water in a strong pot. Cover the pot and bring to a boil. As soon as it begins to boil, turn the flame down as low as it goes and let it cook about 40–50 minutes until all the water is absorbed in the rice. Do not open the pot or mix while the rice is cooking.
Put the raisins in a small bowl and cover with water. Let them soak about 15–20 minutes.
In a large mixing bowl combine the eggs, sugar, oil, vanilla, cinnamon and orange juice. When the rice and raisins are ready, add them in and mix well.
Pour the batter into a greased 9″ × 13″ baking pan.
Bake at 350° F for 1½ to 2 hours, until firm.
Serve warm.
For some people, kugel is one of those foods that brings back old memories and strong nostalgia. What does kugel mean to you? Leave a comment and share your thoughts—I’d love to hear.
Miriam Szokovski is the author of historical novel Exiled Down Under, and a member of the Chabad.org editorial team. She enjoys tinkering with recipes, and teaches cooking classes to young children. Miriam shares her love of cooking, baking and food photography on Chabad.org’s food blog, Cook It Kosher and in the N'shei Chabad Newsletter.© Copyright 2013, all rights reserved.
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ART
My Bubby and Zaidy
I remember the real Jewish shtetls of Russia. This is my Zaidy and Bubby near the little shtetl where I was born. Where are you now, my little shtetl . . . ? Only in my dreams and my paintings . . .
By Chaim Leib Zernitsky
Artist’s Statement: I remember the real Jewish shtetls of Russia. This is my Zaidy and Bubby near the little shtetl where I was born. Where are you now, my little shtetl . . . ? Only in my dreams and my paintings . . .
Chaim Leib (Leon) Zernitsky has created fine art and illustrations for international magazines, book publishers and major corporations for over 25 years. He has published over 30 books for children and young adults and won numerous awards. Chaim Leib feels that creating Jewish art is an important part of being a Jewish artist, and his paintings can be found in private collections worldwide.© Copyright 2013, all rights reserved.
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NEWS
Students Gather Lots of Toys for Sick Children
The Rohr Chabad Center for Jewish Student Life at Binghamton University has made a big difference this holiday season. For the fifth year in a row, it held a toy drive to benefit sick children, this year donating more than $11,000 in toys.
By Karen Schwartz, Chabad.edu
The display included a 7-foot dreidel filled with toys—“The Giving Dreidel”—designed and built by local community members specifically for the event. (Photos: Chabad of Binghamton /J. Weller)
The Rohr Chabad Center for Jewish Student Life at Binghamton University has made a big difference this holiday season. For the fifth year in a row, it held a toy drive to benefit sick children, this year donating more than $11,000 in toys with the toys and monetary donations it raised as part of its “light up a life” project.
Jason Babazadeh, a 20-year-old junior at Binghamton, heard about the project through his fraternity, Sigma Alpha Epsilon, and got involved last year. The fraternity brother who showed him the ropes had graduated, and so Babazadeh stepped in, inviting a friend of his to work on the current project.
The Chabad toy drive is spearheaded with Sigma Alpha Epsilon Fraternity and the Sigma Delta Tau sorority. More than 15 different clubs and groups on campus also joined together as co-sponsors, uniting hundreds of students together for this single cause.
Brainstorming began in the fall with three fraternity brothers, two sorority sisters and a group of students involved with Chabad. They met each week to discuss the drive, track its progress and spread the word. To do so, they incorporated social media and put up a website to allow people to create goals, setting up a virtual thermometer to track the amount of dollars raised.
Some 15 students wound up heading the program, which also involved the campus and the local community. The group collected toys of all kinds, as well as donations used to pay for even more toys.
The gifts were stored until the day of the culminating event, at which time the students transferred the stockpile of toys from various storage spots to the event space. Vans then came to pick them up for delivery to children with cancer in various New York hospitals.
The culminating event went off without a hitch last week in the school’s East Union; it featured a performance by the Crosbys—a Binghamton University a cappella group—and was topped off with donuts and coffee donated by a local Starbucks. Also, students made “Get Well” cards that were to be distributed to the children along with the toys.
As for those toys, the way they were presented proved to be a conversation point in and of itself. They were displayed inside a 7-foot dreidel—“The Giving Dreidel”—designed and built by local community members specifically for the event. Projects in past years included an 11-foot menorah made of LEGOs and a 9-foot menorah constructed out of donated toys.
The toys will be distributed through the New York-based Chai Lifeline organization, and some of its representatives were on hand to address participants of the drive.
Babazedeh said he was proud of the success of the campaign and looks forward to the next one.
“I definitely plan on working on the toy drive next year,” he said. “I think the most important aspect is just helping out the kids, and letting them know that there are people who care and that people are thinking of them.”
A Smile on a Face
Rabbi Levi Slonim is a second-generation rabbi working in the area. His parents came to Binghamton 29 years ago at the behest of the Rebbe, Rabbi Menachem M. Schneerson, of righteous memory.
He currently serves as the programming and development director of the Rohr Chabad Center for Jewish Student Life at Binghamton University. Bringing students together around Chanukah—like every holiday—is an important part of his duties. In addition to a host of high-profile Chanukah events on campus, including smaller parties off-campus and at dorm locations, as well as a campus-wide menorah-distribution campaign, Slonim and a group of students hit on the idea of creating a meaningful Chanukah experience specifically through giving.
“The Rebbe always taught us, especially when it came to the holidays, to make sure people have what they need,” he said. “And I think people feel best about themselves and most fulfilled when they help make a difference, when they are able to put a smile on someone else’s face.”
For Rachel Samuels, 20, working on the Chabad Toy Drive offered a chance to meet new people and contribute to a worthwhile cause.
“It was by far one of the best experiences I’ve had in college,” she said. Her role? She headed up the effort to buy toys and was thus involved in the shopping, which took her on a number of visits to area stores.
“Last year, when I saw the van leave with all the toys, I was in awe of what I saw and kept thinking about how happy those kids were going to be,” explained Samuels. “That night, I emailed one of those spearheading the event, saying that I wanted to get involved the next year.
“It was absolutely amazing.”© Copyright 2013, all rights reserved.
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     • ‘Strongest Girl in the World’ Lifts Spirits Along With Weights (By Menachem Posner)
While Naomi Kutin, here with her father, Ed Kutin, has worked hard to become a world-record-smashing powerlifter, she also volunteers to help kids with special needs.
Twelve-year-old Naomi Kutin of Fair Lawn, N.J., has made quite a name for herself as a world-record-smashing powerlifter, garnering accolades like “supergirl” and “strongest girl in the world” in international headlines. Yet the slight girl who recently celebrated her bat mitzvah has also gained a reputation for a very different kind of lifting: raising spirits and funds for the Friendship Circle of Bergen County, where she regularly volunteers to work one-on-one with children who have special needs.
Naomi’s mother, Neshama, says that she and her husband, Ed, who is a pro powerlifter with a number of national titles, began noticing that Naomi was exceptionally strong when she was just 7. She would do push-ups with barely any effort.
“We started her off bench-pressing just 14 pounds, showing her how to use the correct form,” Neshama recalls. “Torah is very important in our home, so we relate Torah lessons to how we lift weights. We tell the children that if you really want something, you need to pray to Gd for it, but you also need to do your part. Practice, pray, and you will succeed.”
As Naomi began to compete nationally, she experienced a problem that her father had encountered before her: Many powerlifting events are held on Saturdays and Sundays, which presented a challenge to the Kutins, who neither travel nor compete on Shabbat, which lasts from sundown on Friday to Saturday evening.
Naomi says that often, she is given a special dispensation to lift on Sundays instead of Saturday, which works fine except that most of the Sunday competitors are large muscular men. “These guys lift like a million pounds,” she says. “Sometimes, they look at me funny, but it’s okay.”
Despite the challenges, Naomi just claimed the world record among all women under 97 pounds, squatting 235 pounds.
While she practices twice a week—a half-hour on Thursdays and up to five hours on Sundays—Naomi still manages to balance a Jewish day-school education that includes both secular and religious instruction, in addition to basketball and other sports.
Naomi has set her sights on squatting 250 lbs this coming February—breaking her own record for the fourth time. She says that she gains inspiration and discipline from the Torah. “Just like you need to concentrate to learn Torah and pray,” she insists, “you need to be fully focused on your lifting and cannot be thinking about other things at the same time.”
Donations Tied to the Lift
The Kutin family first became involved with the Friendship Circle through their youngest son, Ari, who was diagnosed early on with high-functioning autism.
“Friendship Circle events gave Ari the opportunity to interact with people without fear of rejection or misunderstanding,” relates Neshama. “They also gave him a chance to see how some of his behaviors—like repetitive motions—looked from the outside. But most importantly, Friendship Circle just gave him a chance to be himself.”
Naomi’s older sister, Emily, volunteered with the Friendship Circle all through junior high and high school, and Naomi saw the difference the organization made for Ari. It was almost natural that she would follow suit.
Zeesy Grossbaum, who co-directs the Friendship Circle together with her husband, Rabbi Moshe Grossbaum, says Naomi showed an immediate aptitude for working with kids with special needs.
“We are usually very careful with the seventh-graders, having them interact only with the high-functioning children,” she explains. “But with Naomi, I know I can match her up with the tougher kids as well.”
As Naomi’s bat mitzvah approached this past fall—and her national and international titles piled up —she wanted to do something special for the Friendship Circle.
With the help of her parents and the Grossbaums, she set up a website where people could sponsor her lifting, promising to donate specific amounts that corresponded to how many pounds she could lift. Through the Facebook presence maintained by her parents—as well as announcements in her synagogue, bracelets and even home-baked cookies—word got out, and pledges started pouring in. By the time she turned 12 in October, she had raised approximately $2,000 for kids with special needs.
Naomi shows no signs of slowing down her Friendship Circle involvement. “It makes me feel like I am making a child happy,” she says, “like we are one big happy family.”© Copyright 2013, all rights reserved.
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     • App Works to Spread the Light (and the Contact Info) (By Menachem Posner)
ChabadLink allows people to quickly and easily refer acquaintances to Chabad rabbis or institutions with just a few taps on their mobile devices.
Yosef Tiefenbrun, a student at the Central Chabad Yeshivah in Brooklyn, N.Y., got something new around Chanukah time. He has a new web app to connect people he meets, wherever he is, with Chabad rabbis and services, wherever in the world they may be. Already, he says he has made six connections this month and plans on making many more.
The app, ChabadLink, allows people to quickly and easily refer acquaintances to Chabad rabbis or institutions with just a few taps on their mobile devices.
“Our goal,” says Meir Simcha Kogan, managing director at Chabad.org, which developed the mobile web app, “is that if you meet someone on a plane or in the mall and you think they would benefit from connecting with their local Chabad, you should be able to do so with ease.”
After inputting the potential connection’s basic contact information, the users employ what Kogan calls a “revolutionary new search” to locate the most appropriate Chabad representative or service through searching by last name, location, college campus or organizational name. Once the connection is made, both people receive an email message notifying them about one another.
Tiefenbrun first heard about the app in a briefing before he embarked on a road trip up the West Coast from San Diego, Calif., to Washington state in a menorah-festooned RV as part of the #Sharethelights Chanukah awareness campaign of the Jewish Youth Initiative.
“When I would meet Jewish students, I would just whip out my smartphone and use the app to send both the student and the Chabad rabbi on their campus each other’s contact info,” says Tiefenbrun.
Another aspect he found useful was the ability to track his referrals, which allowed him to see in real time those who did connect.
The web app—available in eight languages—was born out of a close partnership between Chabad.org and the Jewish Youth Initiative, a division of Merkos Suite 302.
Its ease and utility allow someone not familiar with the vast infrastructure of Chabad centers worldwide to find the right person for a referral with minimal effort.
Its ease and utility allow someone not familiar with the vast infrastructure of Chabad centers worldwide to find the right person for a referral with minimal effort.
Its functionality is expected to be a boon to Chabad on Campus shluchim (ambassadors), who can expect to receive referrals from students’ hometown Chabad representatives as they head off to college. Conversely, four years later, they will be able to link their departing students with Chabad representatives where those young people are headed.
“This is definitely an exciting tool that will streamline the transition for my students as they leave university back to the real world,” says Rabbi Levi Schectman of Chabad of Wesleyan in Middletown, Conn.
Geared for the wider public, the app is meant for use beyond Chabad representatives. Its ease and utility allow someone not familiar with the vast infrastructure of Chabad centers worldwide to find the right person for a referral with minimal effort.
How do people use the app? They can go to www.chabad.org/ChabadLink or easier to remember, www.chabadlink.org on their smartphone or tablet.
“This is part of our broader vision,” explains Rabbi Moshe Kotlarsky, vice chairman of Merkos L’Inyonei Chinuch, the educational arm of Chabad-Lubavitch, “which is to ensure that every encounter with a young Jewish person becomes a long-term relationship with Judaism and the Jewish people. This app is a great step in that direction.”© Copyright 2013, all rights reserved.
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